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Politics | 11/03/2008 8:30 am

Differences Between Cindy McCain, Michelle Obama on the Campaign Trail

By The Staff at wowOwow.com
© AP

Candidates’ spouses have been an important campaign presence since 1920, when Florence Harding spoke to women’s groups from her front porch.

AP reports that this year’s presidential spouses provide a study in contrasts on the trail, in ways that go beyond the personal style differences of these two women — Michelle Obama, a 44-year-old law-school graduate, hospital executive and mother of two young girls, and Cindy McCain, a 54-year-old businesswoman, heiress, philanthropist and mother of four older children.

The traditional, unwritten rule of political campaigns is that you let the candidates sling the mud, while the spouses cheer them on.

But Cindy McCain this month introduced her husband at a Pennsylvania rally with a reference to Obama and his vote against a bill funding the troops in Iraq.

"The day that Sen. Obama cast a vote to not fund my son when he was serving sent a cold chill through my body, let me tell you," the usually quiet, conservative Cindy McCain told the crowd.

Earlier this month, when Democrats were accusing the Republicans of dirty campaigning, she turned the tables and told reporters that Obama ran "the dirtiest campaign in American history," according to The Tennessean newspaper.

She usually can be seen standing behind her husband as he speaks, laughing, applauding, nodding her head in agreement – always a tireless presence on the trail. She doesn’t shy away from telling people her views, but she doesn’t seek it out, either.

Michelle Obama campaigns on her own and rarely is seen with her husband on the trail. She’s gone on talk shows like Jon Stewart’s "DailyShow," "Larry King Live,” "The View” and “Ellen.”

She used to describe Barack’s morning breath or failure to put away the butter while on the trail, but now she focuses on parallels between her life and the concerns facing ordinary Americans and, particularly, military families. She also balances life at home with two young children.

In other news, AP reports that a new study says women running for top offices need to appear competent and attractive, but for male candidates, looks don’t matter much.

"What we found was quite startling," said Joan Y. Chiao of Northwestern University’s psychology department.

"For female candidates, it really matters if they’re perceived as competent and perceived as attractive. Those two qualities are sort of twin predictors of whether or not someone is going to be more or less likely to vote for them."

20 Reader Comments (so far…) Sign In or Register to comment

Ms. Dee
That’s nuts. Even if it is a human tendency to respond more favorably to an attractive person, I would hope substance would play some role, even in America’s celebrity strewn consciousness, when it comes to electing our leaders.
By Ms. Dee on 11/03/2008 9:12 am
Tee Zee
Competent yes! I look for a campaign spouse to stand on their own comfortable with their own opinions. Attractive? I suppose that depends on how you define attractive…I probably would have used the words approachable or likable.
By Tee Zee on 11/03/2008 9:22 am
Joan Brown
I wonder if Cindy is not campaigning on her own is because she may hurt McCain’s chances like Palin is doing. Michelle is so smart and is able to stand on her own. She is a great asset for her husband! I just love the Obama’s both the husband and the wife.
By Joan Brown on 11/03/2008 9:38 am
Joan Brown
Anyway, I think Michelle is attractive. Cindy looks like a snob to me!
By Joan Brown on 11/03/2008 9:42 am
EKA -
I have a take on this that is not very politically correct, but played to pure politics. Cindy McCain fits the mold of the standard American beauty, thin, blond, attractive and at 18 years younger than John McCain, helps to make him look more vital. And being worth 100 million, could dress in knock-out clothes and jewelry. There is no surprise that she was told to stand right over his shoulder so she would be in every shot. Barack Obama, being the first Black candidate ( although he is as white as he is black, what people saw was black ) They KNEW that there is still latent, and not so latent, racism in this country, and they surrounded him with white people to make him less scary. There has been viscous crap over the internet about Michelle, and I have heard, personally, comments by people who said she was “angry”. When she made the comment about ” for the first time, I am really proud of my country” with the emphasis on “really”, it was taken out of context and put her in a bad light. They made the cold calculation to have Michelle stay at home with the girls. I personally think she has it all over Cindy, in every way, but the purpose here is to win. You can be sure if he was married to a white woman,with the same educational background as Michelle (Princeton & Harvard law), that she would have been all over the place. Am I wrong about this ?
By EKA - on 11/03/2008 10:01 am
Donna Smith
Like I have said on other posts Cindy McCain is a typical Republican wife while Michelle Obama is her own woman who believes as her husband does that America needs a new direction. Republicans still do not believe that women have progressed since the Father Knows Best days as evidenced by their pick of Palin. They are hoping to stir the nostalgia vote. Sorry folks but the world is progressing, as it should, and we have to change with it. The GOP does not like strong, opinionated women and are hoping to retain their power by distracting us with all of their fear tactics. I for one am praying that it doesn’t work and that my fellow americans are smarter than that. Again I would like to say that Michelle is one of the regular people who had to work for everything she has while Mrs. McCain has always lived a life of privlege and while she may have worked in her lifetime it was never been necessary for her.
By Donna Smith on 11/03/2008 10:02 am
Barbara Taylor
Really? “Republicans still do not believe that women have progressed since the Father Knows Best days” Well, this Republican woman chairs her fathers business, who he built out of nothing. Plus all her charity work for the poor. In-between the news about the bailout or not, the debate or not, I found this piece about Cindy McCain. It’s incredible the amount of charity work she has started and is very involved with. Not just on the boards but actually hands on in the trenches doing the work. It also mentions how her father made his fortune after Cindy was born. So she wasn’t really brought up rich but grew into it. Cindy McCain: Polished look to many, but her focus is on others BY TINA LAMFREE PRESS STAFF WRITER • September 21, 2008 As a volunteer for charities, she dresses in jeans, T-shirts and hiking boots and travels to the least-glamorous parts of the globe: Vietnam, Thailand, Cambodia, Kosovo, Rwanda and Georgia this year alone. Cindy McCain is a director of Operation Smile, which offers free surgery to kids in foreign countries with cleft palates and other deformities; a trustee of HALO Trust, which removes land mines, and a board member on leave from CARE, an international charity. Until it closed in 1995, she led more than 55 missions overseas for American Medical Voluntary Team, a charity she started in 1988. She led. She was there, stepping over bodies in Rwanda. Not in a corporate office. Not sitting in the boardroom of a Chicago private Hospital, in charge of sending the people without health insurance, the poor and needy people in search of health care to some other hospital. The hospital where the other potential first lady prospered, paid her $300k a year. But she was helping the community! She was helping herself and the corporation she worked for make money. There’s nothing wrong with that, but don’t lie about it and say your doing community work and helping the poor. Cindy McCain has done all of her work on her own. Traveling the world without a press entourage and getting the job done of helping without the fanfare.
By Barbara Taylor on 11/03/2008 10:56 am
Lady Gator
Barbara……..There has been so much negativity about Cindy McCain — it would fill large files. I wonder, sometimes, if some of the animosity toward her is because she has money. I, personally, have no problem with people who have money. Her father wroked very hard to achieve the american dream and he was successful — what in the world is wrong with that? I had the opportunity to meet Cindy McCain several years ago and I found her to be a very down to earth, caring, individual with a lot of spunk. In another time, I think that most of the women on this site would have gravitated toward her. Funny isn’t it? If her husband were the democratic candidate I think they would be slobbering all over her! There is NOTHING so disgusting as the inane bitchiness that women have in trying to “put down” other women! It almost seems like women have a need to dislike a woman they don’t understand or a woman who is different than they are. Sometimes, especially when the subject is Sarah Palin or Cindy McCain, I compare some of the women on this site as a “mob”…and I have never seen a mob rush across a web site to do a good deed. Thank you for your post!
By Lady Gator on 11/03/2008 2:46 pm
Barbara Taylor
Lady Gator, It’s called jealousy. What as Americans are we all about? Following the American Dream! For most the dream is to own a home and be successful. Well, that’s just what her father did and she is continuing the dream. It’s sad the bashing of women with different views receiveson this site. It’s OK to disagree. Your right the amount of down right disgusting put downs is awful. We need to look at the person, not think we know them. I’m sure Mrs. Obama has her negatives as well as her positives. Although I don’t totally agree with Mrs. Obama, I’d defend her if she was put down in any way. By the way owning a million dollar home in my book is rich. I think the Obama’s are rich, at least compared to me they are. I saw Cindy McCain being interviews a few days ago. She came across as a warm, caring and intelligent woman. No matter our beliefs all women should be proud of other women’s accomplishments. Disagree, but be proud.
By Barbara Taylor on 11/03/2008 3:16 pm
Sandbee (FB) 54
You know I think I could like her, all I have read about the way she runs the charities and the business, she sounds wonderful. I just don’t understand her in this campaign or in her total relationship with McCain, she seems so different there.
By Sandbee (FB) 54 on 11/04/2008 8:34 am
Barbara Taylor
Yes, I agree it’s hard to know what she is like during this campaign. Although I saw her interviewed a few days ago and then last night on Larry King. She came across very nice and intelligent.
By Barbara Taylor on 11/04/2008 10:20 am
C Hardy
I think its pretty sad that some will actually vote for our next POTUS based on their spouses. I think its great that Cindy is there with John but I also like that Michelle is out on her own for Obama. I have a cousin who is married and when her and her husband are out they dont have to be stuck up each other’s butts, my husband and I are the same way. I know I would be all over the place supporting my husband, with or without him, and then jetting back home to be with my kids. Cindy doesnt have to worry about that as her kids are much older. I think both women are great. Cindy with her charaties and Michelle with her showing that woman can work and take care of their children. I get a sense of pride from both woman. I think both are smart and should make all women proud of what they have accomplished and I think its really sad that anyone would say that Cindy or Michelle are stupid…that is not the case, just look at where they are.
By C Hardy on 11/03/2008 11:00 am
Mary NSB-Florida
Ms. McCain has always had someone to take care of her… regardless of what she might be able to do, she prefers to give orders and prefers to let others “serve”. Ms. Obama appears to have been taught to be more independent and take care of herself… thankfully !
By Mary NSB-Florida on 11/03/2008 11:14 am
DeBúrca obj
Michelle Obama has been out there speaking in support of her husband as opposed to criticizing Cindy or John McCain. Cindy McCain in contrast, has stood at her husband’s side in silence for the most part, except for the times she has made negative comments about Michelle and Barack Obama.
By DeBúrca obj on 11/03/2008 11:26 am
Brooklyn Gal
I think Cindy did a marvelous job campaigning for her husband this year. Unfortunately, the campaign turned her into an attack dog rather than discussing policies. She should have been used more in 2000, and I think would have been a hit. She is smart and yes attractive, and she can speak to the issues. Why she was put in the background then is beyond me. She held her own in most interviews and did do many interviews. Michelle had a rude awakening after her first big speech where she angered many people and even put me off. In retrospect, I think she was misunderstood. But, I vote the candidate rather than the spouse. If that were the case, I would have voted for GW because I really like Laura Bush.
By Brooklyn Gal on 11/03/2008 12:02 pm