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Liz Smith | 04/17/2008 3:58 pm

Feet of Clay in a Roman à Clef?!

Liz Smith

The roman à clef, that is to say, the true-to-life story turned into fiction, is a refined and venerable genre. I suppose it was Marcel Proust who made the roman à clef respectable. Almost all fiction is taken somewhat from real life. Even the heroes in science fiction and action stories are based loosely on someone the author knew.

The true “key” to the “novel,” the roman à clef is great fun when you are able to identify who the real people were in actual life, the ones featured now in the fiction. And, usually, they are playing their roles under different guises and names.

Guessing games are always fun, and when I picked up Alex Witchel’s latest book, I got a kick because I knew all the characters. And I especially knew the chief heroine of The Spare Wife because she turns out to be one of my dearest friends.

Writer Witchel is a handsome-looking woman herself, but even she would say her pal protagonist, the woman she delineates in her novel, is an unusual knockout. To prove it, here she is – Suzanne Goodson.

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Suzanne Goodson, who is called Ponce Morris in The Spare Wife

Photo courtesy of Liz Smith

 

 

 

 

 

This charmer from Tennessee came to New York to model. She didn’t much like it. She went to law school. She didn’t much like that either. (She did a lot of pro bono work protecting children before she hung up her gloves.) I personally discovered Suzanne one night when I found her sitting in “21” with an old friend, Bob Bach, a TV producer. She was so dazzling that I instantly misinterpreted her presence as meaning that old friend Bach was stepping out on his wonderful wife, Jean. I inquired of the duo, “Are you two an item?” just to see what they’d say. They said they were, which proved to me that they weren’t. Later, I discovered that Suzanne was engaged to marry Bob’s boss, TV game show creator Mark Goodson. Mark was making Bob take up Suzanne’s time so she would not stray to some other guy while Goodson was in California.


And so Suzanne married Mark and became a good wife to an irascible, difficult to please, ambitious and feisty genius. He invented the show “What’s My Line?” and many another entertainment.

17 Reader Comments (so far…) Sign In or Register to comment

Chips AHoey
Given one of my best friends is a guy and I am friends with his wife too (I just met him first), I would definitively say I am the spare wife there and it’s fine and it works and no one has issues - and because I am a hypocrite (but at least I admit it), I would be very particular of who ever held that role with my husband - I do think both my husband and I have held/had that role in a similar situation called the “office spouse” - I think that is more universal - and it makes sense because the harsh reality of life is that we are at work more than we are at home so if you can find a companion that you trust and shares your professional interests, then it can work well - it only falls apart if either party “falls” so it’s a risk, like anything…
By Chips AHoey on 04/17/2008 2:11 pm
Kimba Kendrick
Oh Liz, Liz, Liz. Yes, these things happen outside of New York. I am the “spare wife” to my friend’s husbands. All my friends are married. I go to movies that the wives don’t want to go to, I meet with their husbands to talk about career things, etc. One time, my friend’s husband was my “boyfriend” at a work event. I was so sick of being asked why I didn’t have a bf, we drove together to the city and he acted as my bf the whole night. We were all cozy and giddy in the skybox that night (United Center, Chicago) acting like bf & gf. People thought I was “in love” and stopped asking the bf question. When I had single friends, they’d go jogging with my bf du jour, meet him for lunch, etc. Btw, do you all really believe that “Only in NY” line. I feel I can say this because my parents were New Yorkers, and I was born in Westchester County and still consider myself one. My family is now mostly in CA and I’m in the flyover states, and the egocentricity New Yorkers can display is almost comical. Almost.
By Kimba Kendrick on 04/17/2008 2:15 pm
Oooh Sabina
America is NYC/California
By Oooh Sabina on 04/17/2008 2:19 pm
Margo Porter
I was the spare wife in my cousin’s marriage. He and I did things that didn’t interest his wife. When I would travel to NY from Chicago we would always spend time together. I’ve had this type of connection a couple of other times. I’ve lived on both coasts and in between. In my experience this generally happens more in cities where there are more social/charity obligations and more specifically in situations where there is a climate in the marriage that encourages both people to find time for individual as well as joint pursuits. It can be great.
By Margo Porter on 04/17/2008 4:11 pm
beverly linens
While I was married I had that role with two married men and their wives. These were the only men my husband didn’t make a fuss about [reason unknown, he sure fussed about others.] It was lovely and I expected to be able to do it with others after the end of my 32 years marriage. Didn’t happen. The relationship didn’t change with the original two but my status as available seemed to change the way men and women saw me. I was not looking for another personal man in my life but both men and women couldn’t seem to trust that. It was sad.
By beverly linens on 04/17/2008 5:19 pm
"Haya" Spilka
I am sorry, but I find most of the questions and the entries rather mindless. Much of it is what Susan Jacoby would call “junk thought”—no substance to it, no nourishment, little to make you think and ponder important questions.
By "Haya" Spilka on 04/17/2008 6:18 pm
CAROLINE MuLVEY
My second husband was married.However I did not know at the beginning.Because she was in New Hampshire and we were in Alabama. When she called to say she was coming to talk things over,he told me. I said I love you and whatever you decided I will always be here. Two days later he came over,I thought to get one of his uniforms (he was in the army). But that was not the reason we made love all night long. Finally I asked. Did your wife go home,or is she still here. He said she went home I am all yours. I was so happy.
By CAROLINE MuLVEY on 04/17/2008 6:37 pm
iris odonata
Coming to movie screens soon, “The Spare Wives Club.” Didn’t Gloria Vanderbuilt’s mother tell Wallis to look after the Duke for her when she returned stateside? We know what happened there. Do nannies count as spare wives?
By iris odonata on 04/17/2008 7:44 pm
Bella Mia
Instead of spare wife, could it be that the men considered her more of a sister? Men tend to be very goal oriented, and if there was serious sexual attraction, then it would be hard to contain for long. Also, instead of wasting my time with married couples, I’d be more interested in finding my own true love. Life is shorter than we think.
By Bella Mia on 04/17/2008 11:09 pm
Frannie Em
My sister, a native Californian is kind of a spare wife, but not to the extent that Liz explains. She just helps out a lot and is very trustworthy and can ‘hang out’ in a relaxed way. They love her and always include her in their family.
By Frannie Em on 04/18/2008 12:52 am
Shooz
I’m signed in under my own name and wish to change it to Shooz. How do I go about this?
By Shooz on 04/18/2008 9:40 am
Gayle Turner
Gayle Turner 4/19/08 9:16pm Yes, I would like to know how to change from Gayle Turner to Ms Gayle, let us know how to do this….Ms Gayle
By Gayle Turner on 04/19/2008 11:17 pm
Patty Remmell
The burning question is, what do you do when the spare wife becomes the spare wife in other, intimate, areas of the marriage? Apart from that, this novel seems to underscore what I tried to impart to my students this past semester, which is an understanding of ethics in literature. The Roman a Clef lends itself well to airing dirty laundry but at what cost? I am interested in how Witchel handles this dilemma. By the way, would I trust Suzanne Goodson with my husband? Yes, because I trust my husband implicitly and the chances of one of us doing something without the other are fairly slim anyway.
By Patty Remmell on 04/18/2008 1:22 pm
Donna Muszynski
I don’t know why my husband would need a spare wife. I guess I figure I’m a pretty good time and can get pretty worked up talking politics or anything else. I believe he does too. If I’m not enough female company for him, he can get another regular wife. There’s not much he does that I don’t join in with him. I don’t golf. But, even if I did, the other wives at the club would probably be pissed if I’d be the fourth in his foursome rather then their’s. He’d probably be very upset with me if I had a spare husband. Like, what more could we want then each other? It dosen’t bother me if some people have relationships like that though, New York City or anywhere else. No offense, but, maybe some of the girls in NYC aren’t much fun, that could be why the guys have spare wives. I’m okay with that.
By Donna Muszynski on 04/18/2008 5:49 pm
iris odonata
Donna: I can not tell you the number of times I have heard a woman say, “Life would be so much easier if I just had a wife.” Maybe the spare is for her.
By iris odonata on 04/19/2008 12:11 am