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Julia Reed | 08/09/2008 9:19 pm

The Idea That John Edwards Had a Shot at Being President Makes Me Sick

Julia Reed

My gut, such as it is, tells me that even without Edwards in the race, Obama would have won the nomination. Mark Penn, Howard Wolfson, the bloviating Bill Clinton, and Hillary herself, were clearly capable of screwing things up all on their own.

More interesting to me are the issues raised by some of my colleagues. Just because one story of great importance is developing does not mean another is not important (the Russian invasion of Georgia vs. John Edwards’s "dick" as my friend Ms. Buck so delicately puts it!). I followed the events in Georgia with great interest myself—for that matter, as these national stories broke, I was also extremely interested in whether or not my idiot mayor was going to deign to appear before the New Orleans city council to answer allegations of corruption in a city agency charged with rebuilding the homes of elderly Katrina victims—an issue of the utmost importance to me right now. But that is not to say that it is unimportant when a politician, particularly one of three who had a chance to win the nomination of his party, lies—about anything. Because in the end, I don’t think there’s all that much difference in lying about sex or war. It suggests the same rotten thing about character. The fact that we have been asked to respond to this question suggests that the very race for the Democratic nomination could well have been affected had the truth come out earlier.  

Also, I am getting impatient with the France analogies. We are not France, thank God. Nor are we a nation of uptight moralistic right-wing prudes just because stuff like this matters to us. In this case it is not the affair that matters so much as the fact that John Edwards put himself out there as a paragon of virtue, a man of integrity, a family man who relentlessly used his family as part of his political narrative. When his wife announced that the cancer that will now kill her had returned, the two of them appeared on 60 Minutes and Elizabeth Edwards bravely said that she had no intention of asking her husband to drop his race, that she wanted to engage in "the fight of our lives." A few months later I was in the same house in North Carolina where Edwards gave his cringing NIghtline interview, and Elizabeth and I sat together on a sofa, both of us with tears rolling down our faces, as she told me of the decades-long landscaping plans she’d had for the grounds surrounding her family’s new "dreamhouse" she knew she would no longer be able to see through. So that when her husband parsed every question like the lawyer he is, when he self-righteously reassured Bob Woodruff that the affair was in no way HIS WIFE’S FAULT, I wanted to reach into the TV and strangle him. The idea that this guy had a shot at being president was suddenly sickmaking. It also took me back to an incident on a train trip through the midwest that Kerry and Edwards took during the 2004 campaign. At every stop, the candidates came to the front of the train and addressed the gathered crowds, and at every stop there was a guy dressed up like a huge styrofoam waffle who would heckle Kerry and make fun of his "waffling" record. The guy was like every pest at stops like that, and Kerry barely paid him any attention except to laugh at him, which was the proper response and which made me like him a lot more. (I once saw George H. W. Bush lose it with a guy in a chicken suit.) Even Theresa Heinz Kerry used him as a lesson in democracy (pointing out that in her native Mozambique, even mild dissent like that was a jailable offense, so wasn’t it nice that the waffle guy could stop by?). Anyway, it was past midnight, the last stop of the night in Cape Girardeau, Missouri, and the waffle guy and a few stragglers dutifully showed up. Everybody, including the two or three of us from the press who bothered to get off, were half asleep when Edwards, in full red-face, vein-popping throttle, turned on the waffle guy, who was interrupting him. "Let me tell you one thing," he said, jabbing his finger at this looney man, screaming hoarsely. "My wife and children are on this train and it’s time for you to show them some respect, mister." At that point Edwards looked far sillier than the waffle man, but last night, watching the interview, all I could think of was that he should have thought about that respect thing a tad longer himself. I was also reminded that Edwards’s father Rocky told me that the first thing he had taught his son as a young boy was how to successfully punch someone in the nose. Great.

People talk about McCain’s temper or Obama’s lack of experience, but they are both grown men and comport themselves as such. Next to the shallow and callow Edwards, who now carries about him the faint whiff of ugliness and tawdriness, there is, in fact, no contest. That’s what campaigns are for, and that’s why stories like this are indeed important. They reveal a lot about the man.

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Dona Howlett
Co A person doesn’t have to have a faith in any religion to be a good person. Many people are good and have no religion at all. I think we as human beings need to learn to have respect for each other. I don’t think we (human beings) will lie, cheat or be violent to people we respect. In my life time I’ve seen us go from being caring concerned to frankly speaking not give a damn about our fellow beings. I think that is so sad. I notice that most young people today don’t seem to have respect for themselves much less anyone else. It is a sad situation. It just tricles down to even the littlest of our children. I’ve had company all day. Swimming…………watching the Olympics……..now I think I will go to bed. See you all tomorrow.
By Dona Howlett on 08/11/2008 5:02 am
C Hardy
You can be good and not have a religion, I never said you need religion to be a good person…but my beliefs is what makes me a good woman and mother and soon to be wife. I also feel that a lot of our 20 year old “adults” don’t respect themselves or others but that also has a lot to do with how they were raised. My 2 year old cares about everything so it is up to me to teach her not to care? No sorry, I want her to be carrying and loving towards others and to respect people even when they don’t respect you. I have always been taught to teach others as you would want to be treated…too many others don’t feel the same way…and those people became parents and taught that to their children. It is very sad that a lot of people think others owe them or they are better b/c of this or that…what happened to just wanting to be nice to each other? I believe that goes back to faith for me anyways. Again I agree, you don’t need faith to be nice but it may help you in the long run………………
By C Hardy on 08/11/2008 12:57 pm
mitzi morris
Julia thanks for your sensible words. I am sick of French analogies. It’s snob stuff at its worst and bears no relationship to the issues facing us all in this election. Can you imagine the fallout for the Dems and our country if Edward’s was appointed Atty general? And can anyone stop being amazed at the ruthless disregard for the ultimate consequences of this kind of behavior? Elizabeth going along with this story while knowing all along that he could be discovered, and putting others at risk also is amazing. Hubris doesn’t even describe this kind of behavior. I am not concerned about Hillary and whether Edwards impacted on her loss. She lost because her campaign was flawed, and Pelosi and Dean with other party elders saw an opportunity to stop her. I find Edwards a destructive conceited creep.
By mitzi morris on 08/10/2008 4:32 pm
Frannie Em
Mitzi What was Elizabeth’s choice. She would have to go along and hope that John wasn’t exposed because she knows the media would be all over it and could destroy her family while she is struggling with medical challenges. What was she going to do? Chemo therapy causes heavy fatigue, she needed her energy to face her physical challenges and be there for her children.
By Frannie Em on 08/10/2008 6:49 pm
DeBúrca obj
Elizabeth Edwards could have told him… no, I do not want you to run for president, I will not run at your side, you had an affair, it WILL come out, and that will risk a Democratic win in November. He betrayed her in 2006. They both betrayed us in 2008.
By DeBúrca obj on 08/12/2008 5:01 pm
N P
Julia, Shame on you. You know what makes me sick? People who go out of their way to crucify John Edwards, but make McCain out to be a saint. How ironic. Why don’t you spend as much time telling the story about McCain? I’m sure you remember Carol Shepp. “Mr. Clean” was first married to her. While he was imprisoned in Vietnam, Carol was involved in a terrible car accident. She sustained serious injuries. After his release, McCain returns to the U.S. to find that his wife had gained weight, was four inches shorter, and on crutches, due to her accident. Does he stand by her? He goes on to meet Cindy Hensley, and begins an affair with her. He dumps his wife, Carol Shepp, for Cindy. But it’s okay that HE had an affair, and it’s okay that his political carrer go on. It’s even okay that he run for President of the United States! No problem. The private lives of our presidential candidates are not our business. Wow should stop all this speculation. We have serious issues in this election. We should be concerned with the issues, and not with what someone does between the sheets. Have you ever had a parent or a sibling or a friend or an ex who had an affair? Did you write them off? Or did you maintain a relationship with that person? And don’t tell me, “That was different.” Why is the media so focused on these peripheral issues? Why is Wow?
By N P on 08/11/2008 1:25 am
N P
Correction, Line 13: “political career goes on”
By N P on 08/11/2008 1:28 am
Chips AHoey
I agree with NP - if we are so morally outraged at Edwards, then how come we aren’t outraged with being lied to about going to war - there’s a bumper sticker that says “when Clinton lied, nobody died” and the same rings true for Edwards and even McCain - enough of the personal life stuff - tell me what you are going to do during business hours, not afterwards…
By Chips AHoey on 08/11/2008 1:38 pm
DeBúrca obj
It’s because it’s silly season and instead of focusing in issues we are talking about the 2 year old affair of a guy who lost the nomination. Although, on the other hand, if this is what we get when he LOST, image how the you-know-what would have hit the fan if he was our nominee! That is the part that bothers me.
By DeBúrca obj on 08/12/2008 5:04 pm
N P
Hi Chips Ahoey, Yes, let’s get on with what we should be discussing on this blog. The important issues facing our country in this election, including universal health care and getting off of oil. Have a great day,
By N P on 08/11/2008 2:26 pm
l drake
thank you, Ms. Buck , your comments were most accurate and astute. callow pretty well sums it up. HAS ANYBODY ASKED THIS SLEAZEBALL, IF THIS HAPPENDED BEFORE???????? it wasn’t just extramarital sex, it was particularly tawdry,,,a bar ‘pickup’….sleazly behaviour….cover up,,,hush money,,,denials,,cancer-stricken wife…makes me want to vomit…
By l drake on 08/11/2008 4:15 pm
Mugsy Peabody
Julia, how about thinking with your brain instead of your gut?
By Mugsy Peabody on 08/12/2008 3:22 pm
Dorothy S
Mugsy, Read some of your replies to topics and enjoyed your point of view…….but this….and I may be treading on sacred ground here…..so I may have ot run and duck……but the special art of a woman’s point of view is often using all her senses…including her gut as well as her brain…….to come to conclusions when communicating. Thinking without feeling is often what gets men who have made bad decisions into so much trouble. That and thinking with their genitals…..which clearly doesn’t work.
By Dorothy S on 08/12/2008 8:27 pm
Mugsy Peabody
Dorothy, you certain have a right to your opinion, just as I do, just as Julia does. It’s all good.
By Mugsy Peabody on 08/13/2008 2:22 am
Dorothy S
Mugsy: “have a right to your opinion, just as I do, just as Julia does. It’s all good.” In reply. Well said. I believe this credo to my very core. This is why I look forward to seeing the opinions and thoughts here at Wowowow each day. I am a first-time reader of blogs and certainly it is a bit nerve-wracking actually writing to one. What I like is that everyone sems to be receptive with a wide range of ideas. thanks wowowow friends.
By Dorothy S on 08/13/2008 9:26 am