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Judith Martin | 04/01/2008 8:07 am

If You Could Go Back in Time, Whose Life Would You Choose to Live?

Judith Martin
Today’s question of the day reminded me of the following …

At a performance of Pirandello’s "Enrico IV," some years ago, we spontaneously invited several people we happened to know in the audience (Washington D.C. is a very small town if you are a native) to come home with us afterwards for scrambled eggs, prosecco and a continuation of our intermission conversation, taken from the theme of the play: Whose life would you choose to live? The idea was pleasure, not glory, so you wouldn’t say, for example, Joan of Arc or Abraham Lincoln. In this random assortment of people from a variety of professions, the men all chose different historical figures, but every one of the women chose the SAME woman.

Can you guess who we chose? I’ll give you two hints: Literary. Pioneer. Tell me who you think she was; and check back tomorrow to see if you were correct.
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Debra Owen
Jane Austen? George Eliot? Maya Angelou? (That’s a lot of guesses, isn’t it?)
By Debra Owen on 04/01/2008 3:31 pm
iris odonata
Is there a limit on guesses? It’s helped me recall and reclaim the marvelous energies of these women, the ones I’ve named and the ones from others. I have another for consideration: Louisa May Alcott
By iris odonata on 04/01/2008 3:36 pm
Bella Mia
I would like to live the life of my husband’s great-great-great-grand grandmother Patty Session, the famous midwife. She crossed the plains in a covered wagon, at age 52, was self-supporting, and delivered over 3,977 babies with only “two difficult cases.” September 24, 1847’s journal entry - Patty Sessions arrived in the Salt Lake Valley. “I had driven my wagon all the way, except for the llast two mountain, and had walked 1,030 miles.” She delivered babies until she was 85, and died at age 99. She built a schoolhouse for her 50 grandchildren. What a woman!!
By Bella Mia on 04/01/2008 3:44 pm
Buh-Bye Hillary Hillary Buh-Bye
Bella Mia—-Fabulous…and people get in brawls today if someone beats them to a parking spot! I read tons of overland diaries when I was a docent at the Huntington Library in San Marino (not collection items) the stories are incredible….but none I recall like yours.
By Buh-Bye Hillary Hillary Buh-Bye on 04/01/2008 7:20 pm
Kay Sara
Your grandmother is one of the unsung heroes (women) that more and more I am appreciating their contribution. My releatives also traveled in covered wagon to settle on the prairie in Nebraska. Lived in a sod house while Geronimo roamed. I love the quote of Emily Dickenson ” It only takes a one bee and one clover to make an entire meadow” (something like this)
By Kay Sara on 04/02/2008 11:32 am
iris odonata
Katherine Graham?
By iris odonata on 04/01/2008 3:46 pm
Lisa Mullins
I’ll guess Pearl S. Buck for Judith’s literary pioneer. As for me, a combination of people would make up the historic figure’s life I would like live: the courage and conviction of Sophie Scholl (though I would not want to die in the Nazi’s hands), the faith and kindness of Mother Teresa, the intelligence my mother possessed, and the “who cares what anyone else thinks” attitude of Molly Brown.
By Lisa Mullins on 04/01/2008 4:18 pm
Kalisa Hyman
I would choose Dooce, b/c I only wish I could make a living writing like she is. Doing what I love, calling the shots, making my own rules. She’s a literary pioneer for a new millenium.
By Kalisa Hyman on 04/01/2008 4:38 pm
Tony Galento
I’d like to have the education & material things as I do right now, but, my first favorite time and place would be Paris in the 40’s with all the famous authors. I’d be included in their cafe talks and I’d be living on the Left Bank….My SECOND choice is this: I am a complete and passionate fan of MOTOWN. If I could go back just to the 60’s, I’d want to be one of the Funk Brothers (a female FB)- or, be a Motown singer, or song writer. After all these years I am still motivated by Motown music and can never get enough R&B.
By Tony Galento on 04/01/2008 5:22 pm
Kay Sara
Detroit never got back on her feet after the riots and fires of the 60’s.
By Kay Sara on 04/02/2008 11:35 am
Buh-Bye Hillary Hillary Buh-Bye
Judith—In addition to Jane Austen I would also guess (do we get three?) Edna St. Vincent Millay, or Anais Nin. As for another life….me living Jackie KO’s, or Diane de Poitier or Madame Recamier’s life. Not that my own hasn’t been fabulous, but I like everything new! And these three ladies were very much alike. Years ago I was thrilled to be at nearly deserted Chenonceau on a blustery weekday with a fire crackling in the main hall…and to walk into de Poitier’s lovely study overlooking the River Cher and touch her desk. They held the most powerful men of their day enthralled by their femininity, brains, taste and wits. Both Jackie and Diane were expert horsewomen and terrific hostesses. Voltaire and Rosseau dined at de Poitier’s table and Jackie brought the best brains and art into the WH. All three were grace and beauty personified.
By Buh-Bye Hillary Hillary Buh-Bye on 04/01/2008 5:41 pm
Hedda Lettuce
This reminds me of a game that I and some of my friends used to play over coffee; if you could visit any time in the past for two weeks as an observer, what era would you visit and what three things from the present would you bring with you? Fascinating idea! For Judith’s literary pleasure-not-glory literary pioneer I would choose between Jane Austin and Georges Sand, leaning heavily toward Sand on the pleasure factor. I would love to go back in time as Nefertiti. What a fascinating period in Egyptian history! I would mainly want to know if she was the mother of Tutankhamen and if she became pharaoh after the death of her husband, Akhenaten or Amenhotep IV. Most people see her as just another pretty face but that lady had to have strength and smarts to survive the court intrigues and the constant threats against her monotheistic husband by the temple priests. Lots of intrigue, loads to ancient mysteries to solve, and an interesting husband to boot!
By Hedda Lettuce on 04/01/2008 7:23 pm
Mugsy Peabody
Willa Cather. O Pioneers, My Antonia, Death Comes For the Archbishop. Nebraska Native (Red Cloud) and an editor in New York before such things were done by women. Obvious ones would be Jane Austin and Virginia Woolf. I’m dying to find out. Do tell, Ms. Manners!
By Mugsy Peabody on 04/01/2008 8:13 pm
Mugsy Peabody
Of course there could be worse things than having Chopin hanging around the house playing the piano, so George Sand had that going for her.
By Mugsy Peabody on 04/01/2008 8:16 pm
Upanaway
This makes me feel like I’m an absolute illiterate, again. Hee hee … the last time I felt this way, I returned to graduate school for another Masters — all because I entered a grand library, and felt I hadn’t yet read 1/2 the books in the collection. What fun that was with my youngest in tow, who was simply shaking her pre-adolescent head watching her insane mother dive into “the books.” That reminds me, one early morn, I was reading an original manuscript, pacing back and forth, reading aloud in our living room at 2 AM, as youngest slept peacefully upstairs in her bedroom. “What is that, Mom?” she called down to me. I answered Chaucer, and mumbled the year giving me the challenge that required, for me, reading it aloud. No response — for a while, then, “MaMA! Men haven’t changed at all!” Love that 4th daughter, to this day — she is now giving her siblings fits about a venture she’s planning on taking that will change her life, career, domicile, and more. Me? I’m too tired, and too old to ever believe I’m powerful enough to change anyone, much less at the age of 34 (baby of the family) and one who cancelled a highly formal wedding 5 days before the event, because he lied to her and she caught him in the deception (yes, she was grief-sticken, but … did not turn back!). That offspring just phoned from Houston to tell me that I’m the only one in this “damned family who’s ever mentioned they made any mistakes, or had people in their lives that were miserable—everyone else is under the very false impression they’ve make perfect decisions all along. Where do they think I was when they were going beswerk, and driving you nuts?”
By Upanaway on 04/01/2008 9:10 pm