Powerful Reads | 03/04/2009 11:00 pm
For International Women's Day, Books That Empower, by Sara Nelson

Editor’s Note: For International Women’s Day on March 8, which celebrates inspirational women, wowOwow reached out to Sara Nelson for books that empower and inspire us to continue shaping the world …
While it depends on what kind of empowerment you’re looking for, here’s an eclectic mix from my secret garden of books that has made — and continues to make — a psychic difference:
Political empowerment: A hands-down masterpiece, Katharine Graham’s Personal History.
Financial empowerment: Mary Gordon’s Spending
is pretty good for the emotional understanding of women and cash. But for the nuts and bolts of what to do with the money you have — or don’t have, in this or any other market — I’d have to go with something by Suze Orman. Her manner can be off-putting, but her advice isn’t.
Self-image empowerment: For Keeps, an anthology about women’s often-fraught relationships with their bodies. (OK, I have a piece in there, but mine doesn’t hold a candle to my sister Liza’s story about her not-altogether-elective breast reduction.) For the more fictionally inclined: Wally Lamb’s She’s Come Undone, which is written by a MAN, no less.
And because sometimes, well, nothing succeeds at self-empowerment like a good revenge novel: The Life and Loves of a She-Devil, by Fay Weldon, the classic — followed very closely by Nora Ephron’s brilliant Heartburn, and Jillian Medoff’s more obscure-but-it-shouldn’t-be Good Girls Gone Bad.























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I love books, read constantly, and would love to give my own list of books that empower. But I must agree that one of my favorite books - Katharine Graham’s Personal History has the ability to not only be a good read but to touch us all. We have a woman who ran a household for the first third of her life, and then when her manic-depressive husband took his own life, changed horses in mid-stream and became the publisher-editor of the Washington Post. As could be imagined, stepping up to this position, assuming the responsibility for one of our largest newspapers would be mind-blowing. Read this book … as she writes to us - not over our heads - as she tells of the chapters of her life in ways that draw us in with her, making us easily imagine any of us in the position and, if you are like me, imagining what you would do when you are expected to be impressive and in command. Graham is honest, likeable, and your respect for her - both in her coping with marriage and its tragedies, and become the ultimate working executive - knows no bounds. She rightly received the Pultizer for this book — and I find that this book almost stands alone in its long-term remembrance and impact on all of us.
Nora Ephron in Heartburn has written a semi-autobiographical book of the downhill slide of her marriage to - guess what? - the Washington Post’s Carl Bernstein. Remember him from the Watergate Tapes? Again, Nora is brilliant in disseminating her marriage - and somehow mixing in recipes among the most pungent facts of life - even to a non-cook like me - did not totally put me off. The book’s story is a bit dated — but cheating in marriage is a subject that has even more validity today than it did almost 20 years ago. I still remember it so it had to have had quite an impact.
Hey, Joni - do we get to tell of our own favorites on these topics? Joan
One of my votes for an empowering book would be Eat, Pray, Love by Elizabeth Gilbert. Achieving a sense a balance is a quest for many women today. I think this book is a wonderful illustration of one woman’s journey toward balance in her life.
I haven’t read Katherine Graham’s Personal History yet, but there is a quote by her that I keep on my desk and absolutely love.
"To do work you love and feel that it matters; how could anything be more fun?"
Thanks to Sara Nelson for this list.
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Katharine Graham’s book is amazing. A book that inspires me is Iran Awakening by Shirin Ebadi. In the UK, Amnesty is focusing on violence against women for International Women’s Day. We’re asking people to change their Facebook status, Myspace headline and tweet to raise awareness of the fact that each year, around 1 in 10 women in Britain experience rape or other violence. Please visit www.oneten.org.uk
How could we all have forgotten the absolute most obvious and important Book of all! Thank you for the reminder :)
Some oldies but goodies.. I find these books empowering and they are wonderful(in my opinion)
A Tree Grows in Brooklyn-Betty Smith
The Color Purple-Alice Walker
To Kill a Mockingbird-Harper Lee
In This House of Brede-Rummer Godden
Suze Orman? Are you kidding me? Here books and advice are horrible! If you don’t believe me - read this analysis:
http://www.erictyson.com/articles/20090127
There are many good financial authors out there who have training, knowledge and expertise - Orman ain’t one of them!
I am less concerned about the details of Suze’s biography than the passion behind her mission. She educates people in the basics of personal finance, in a clear, caring and compassionate way. I am surprised people consider her bluntness mixed with kindness "off putting".
Her manner shows she cares about educating the public, the very public who got sucked into subprime mortgages, interest-only mortgages and ARMs that they didn’t understand. If these people had watched and learned from Suze, the greedy predators in the mortgage and credit card industries would not have been able to bring our economy down.
Why is there so often a backlash against strong, successful and caring women?
There are many books I have been inspired by and recieved empowerment from, but as a young woman Rita Mae Brown’s "Rubyfruit Jungle", as well as Jeanette Winterston’s "Oranges Are Not the Only Fruit" were as moving to me as they were entertaining. Unlike their dour predecesser "The Well of Lonliness" by Radclyffe Hall (which was an undeniably brave tome for its time), "Rubyfruit" and "Oranges"—while not denying or shrinking away from the difficulties encountered by gays and lesbians—celebrate gay identity and give hope to their readers. Both books convey a similar message: Happiness can be found through self acceptance, and, while being gay is not always easy, it is neither sad nor shameful. Because they give such hope, I would have to say that both these books are LIFESAVERS!