Ivana Trump's Cougar Catastrophe: To Divorce New Husband

This has very little to do with age. This has everything to do with maturity levels.

You got that right Elaine.

Ivanna is a wonderful businesswoman…great head for business. However this is her 4th marriage. There is an old story about the guy that goes to his psychiatrist and complains “Doc, I’ve been married 9 times but I can’t seem to find the right woman….what’s wrong with the women I keep choosing? They are all crazy.”

Motto of the story is, if you’ve been married 9 times, chances are it’s not the women, it’s you. And so to is the case with Ivana. She makes horrible choices in terms of the men she picks for a husband. And this is just Belinda Joy showing her stuffy side again, but by the age of 59 she should have learned the life lessons she needs to guide her through the affairs of the heart. Learned to be more discerning when choosing a mate. There will be husband 5 and 6 I am sure, and chances are they will be younger and younger. My hope for her is that she will take some of her own advice she is quick to give to other women and apply it to her own life.

I remember seeing footage of this wedding—and over the top it was—and thinking “What is she thinking!!!?”

She seems to have a sense of self, and I just hope she didn’t feel she had to outdo The Donald. She has wonderful, talented children, a career and more money than she can burn. I think she will learn to find happiness within herself and better relationships without another marriage.

You know, I am a strong proponant of equal marital rights for my gay community because it is a civil rights issue NOT because I am a fan of the institution of marriage in and of itself…SO all I can say to Ivana is I am sorry for your romantic woes but remember the old saying: Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me! After FOUR marriages I’d advise you to approach future romances with your head as well as your heart, and leave the issue of marriage out of it!

Geez! This woman(among many others) would do well to read David Richo’s book on Adult Relationships and to listen to the companion CDs. Besides, why do people think they have to marry after a certain age in order to have a good relationship with someone?

She is an admirable and likable, if over the top, lady in many ways. Why any woman wants to marry their son is beyond me. And he just didn’t seem sincere when they married, his body language/facial expressions said to me “user.” The man was practically looking at his watch as if he wanted to escape. Like my former finance who called me from Hawaii on his honeymoon and said he made a terrible mistake and could we have ‘Taper-off sex”!!! Very amusing, but No!!!

I don’t believe that marriage has EVER been a boon to womankind! We women, all, are better off without it. These days we no longer even need the institution to protect us financially. But I know that so many woman still buy the “love” angle that traps a woman into servitude. They long for the “companionship and love” (and many other angles) which the male culture dangles before us as motivation to “take care of their lives”. Wise up, Ivana.