Younger women can be trophy wives and have babies. It is a harsh status symbol and can create a shallow relationship. What do the kids learn about that?

Real men want women equals in their relationships, Joan. They enjoy relating to women that have something in common with them just like we do. If a man is “afraid”(I prefer to say intimidated) with me, I stay as far away from him as possible. Perhaps they are just immature.

I’d like to share a writing from my book, Moments. “A man falls in love with his eyes, a woman falls in love through her ears” Speak to me, make me feel my world through words. Help me to laugh at both of us. Tell me sweetness, let your heart talk. Don’t think, don’t measure, don’t be fearful…speak to me. Words can warm a room, brighten the light, touch my heart and make it skip a beat. We hold those words too close, not opening them up…giving them wings to fill our lives. So maybe love looks different to men and women…youth looks good to men, but older women have better hearts. Bobbi