Leo DiCaprio is not sexy to me. Brad Pitt is cute which has nothing to do with sexy. We all know the glossy lure and sad reality of cute men. The dream is a mature man who knows what he likes, knows himself, has seen what life does, but still can laugh and has kept up his hope and is not bitter, who is curious, enterprising and strong. Who does not depend on: painkillers, Viagra, Zoloft, lithium, alcohol, his therapist, his ex-wife, a coterie of men to whom he tells all, who works out just enough and doesn’t talk about it, who is etc. and etc. and etc., and doesn’t get hypnotized by your younger female friends. And if you find one, get me two.