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Joan Juliet Buck | 05/21/2008 4:45 pm

Two Words to Describe Ted Kennedy: Winner, Leader

Joan Juliet Buck

Democratic Convention, 1988, Atlanta.

The city was so hot that the air seemed on fire, but inside a monster hall called The Omni the convention was tepid. The candidate was Michael Dukakis. I sat high up over the hall in the press box and listened. You couldn’t hear very well up there, and the speakers droned terribly. Everything I heard was either corny, cheap or lame. I went into a haze to the sound of knocking consonants.

Way down below a burly speck moved to the podium. I was still half asleep when I found myself responding to cadences that resonated with a practiced rhythm. That guy can speak, I thought. His words were clear, sharp with a slight nasal twang. He pleaded for health care and knocked George Bush. I awoke. This man meant what he was saying. He really meant it. Cogent, sincere, convincing. This was the guy! Here was the real candidate, the sure thing, the winner, the leader. Suddenly wild with excitement, I sat forward. At last, we were listening to an articulate, passionate, practiced, fully engaged politician.

“Why isn’t he running?” I asked the journalist next to me.

“Don’t be an idiot,” the man said. “It’s Teddy Kennedy.”

He ended his speech: “Some men see things as they are and say ‘Why?’ We dream things that never were and say ‘Why not?’ Now is the time.”

18 Reader Comments (so far…) Sign In or Register to comment

Charles Dance
We love Ted Kennedy,sad,sad day.Don’t like to think of politics without him.Courage, recover and be well you lover of life,you!
By Charles Dance on 05/20/2008 8:21 pm
Ms. Dee
Beautiful, beautiful, CC. My sentiments precisely.
By Ms. Dee on 05/21/2008 9:52 am
Maggi D
The news has stated that this is a very agressive form of cancer and I hope that Kennedy’s words come back to him. If there is a cure - Why not?
By Maggi D on 05/21/2008 12:47 am
Dr. Mark Klein
Why isn’t he running?” I asked the journalist next to me. The reason was Mary Jo Kopechne.
By Dr. Mark Klein on 05/21/2008 10:05 am
Frank Peterson
Mark: do you have the concept of forgiveness and compassion in your life? From all your posts I doubt it. Most things are forgivable—It’s been 40 some years now since that accident happened. And now Senator Kennedy is in a fight for his life. I seriously doubt he’d want a Doctor like you to treat him. A person who doesn’t have compassion in his heart must be a poor human being at best.
By Frank Peterson on 05/21/2008 2:44 pm
M L Staats
I would have to agree with you, Mr. Peterson in regard to compassion and forgiveness. One could argue that Senator Kennedy easily could have retreated from public life after that terrible accident; lived off his family’s money and ended his days without having contributed. Instead, he devoted himself to public service, championing those who needed his help. I don’t know if I could have lived with myself had I made such a costly mistake, let alone remain in the public eye to be judged for decades. Horrible things happen sometimes and I doubt he intended to do his secretary harm. I feel he did his best to rise above his disastrous actions and I’m quite sure he has not spent a day without the horrific memory of that night. Perhaps the hardest thing we can do is forgive ourselves and then continue fighting the good fight knowing full well we are being judged by those who have no idea what they would have done in the same situation. I believe it takes a rare person to continue on and do good after something so horrible. Give the man that much credit and my wishes are that he enjoy every moment he has left to the fullest. After all, we have only now. The past cannot be undone and none of us knows what the future holds.
By M L Staats on 05/21/2008 9:19 pm
beth willis
M L, thank you for your insight into perspective on Senator Kennedy’s fortitude in overcoming immense tragedy and public condemnation to dedicate the next 40 years to commendable service in ways that touch us all. In addition, he has servd as a father figure to the children of his fallen brothers, and while the youngest member of his family he has, over the years, heroically accepted the role of family patriarch. “Live Strong,” Senator Kennedy. God bless you. Peace and grace
By beth willis on 05/25/2008 8:50 am
Pdr de
Thank you, M.L. Staats - I agree wholeheartedly.  Who among us hasn’t made at least one disatrous mistake in our lives.  I believe Sen. Kennedy spent his entire life doing pennance for that horrible, tragic mistake.  He grew up very fast and the Kennedy family has paid and paid with the lives of their loved ones - three in two generations who died in planes, two brothers who were assinated; Kennedy’s own sun had a leg removed because of cancer.  It’s time for forgive even if people won’t forget.
By Pdr de on 08/26/2009 12:45 pm
Pdr de
Sorry…I was upset when I wrote this (still am).  I do know how to spell "disastrous" and "son". 
By Pdr de on 08/26/2009 2:10 pm
Randa P
Yesterday I heard parts of some of his recent speeches about raising the minimum wage, and health care. What a magnificent person he is. You are so right about his speaking skills, he is spectacular. Thanks for this.
By Randa P on 05/21/2008 12:52 pm
brad berger
Ms. Beck you like Ted Kennedy great. Now why don’t you do something good? Quoting Dr. Bernadine Healy from an article she wrote in U.S. News & World Report February 19, 2008 : “There’s an argument out there that oral sex is not sex….To some young people , oral sex preserves virginity – technically speaking – and allows for what is perceived as risk-free sexual intimacy. From a medical perspective, however, this is sex – and generally, as practiced, it’s unsafe. People seem clueless that sexually transmitted diseases such as herpes, gonorrhea, chlamydia, and human papillomavirus [and also syphilis] can take hold in parts of the oral cavity during sex with infected partners and that the oral contact can infect the genitals, too….Granted, the major risk for STDs comes with vaginal sex, but the relative ease and growing frequency of oral sex among those engaging in casual “hookups” is a virtual epidemic in the making. Providing our young people with graphic medical information and stern parental and medical guidance is long overdue. ” This information has not been provided to young people and should be provided immediately.
By brad berger on 05/21/2008 5:12 pm
Mugsy Peabody
Brad, this thread is about the tragedy of Sen. Kennedy’s brain tumor. This website is for women over 40. Perhaps you might find more of your audience on youtube or myspace.
By Mugsy Peabody on 05/21/2008 8:01 pm
Mugsy Peabody
Please remove this from the Joan Juliet Buck thread: It is vile, and has no place in our discussion. Dr. Mark Klein - 5/21/2008 10:05 AM “Why isn’t he running?” I asked the journalist next to me. The reason was Mary Jo Kopechne. reply
By Mugsy Peabody on 05/21/2008 8:12 pm
theCHEROKEErose
mugsy…AMEN….i wish mark klein would take a LONG walk off a SHORT pier (as they used to say in new joisey)…..at least you have to admit he hasnt moved off being a chauvinist…have to admire him for that, i guess…
By theCHEROKEErose on 05/21/2008 8:19 pm
C A Rose
Brad, it is a shame you are placing your personal and irrelevant post under this article, or for that matter here at all.
By C A Rose on 05/22/2008 3:02 am