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A Friend Stopped By | 09/03/2008 5:30 pm

Judy Bachrach: When McCain Offered Palin Second Place on the Ticket, She Had a Choice

By Judy Bachrach
McCain and Palin
McCain and Palin © AP

EDITOR’S NOTE: Judy Bachrach writes for Vanity Fair, and is the creator of thecheckoutline.org, an online advice column for friends and relatives of the terminally ill.

Although this election season is brimming with hair-raising revelations – Joe Lieberman can keep nighttime viewers awake! Cindy McCain had a major hand in choosing her husband’s running mate! John Edwards’s baby isn’t his! Sarah Palin’s baby isn’t hers! – none is more dubious than the Right’s recent insistence that the press is responsible for the 15 minutes of bad awful fame just visited on young Bristol Palin, who is pregnant and unmarried.

To take one example, Nancy Pfotenhauer, a McCain adviser with about as much media savvy as Bristol, called the coverage of the 17-year-old “over-the-top” and “hysterical.”  Nicolle Wallace, a McCain spokeswoman, suggested reporters were behaving much as they once did when “Princess Diana died in a car crash.”

Now let’s get this straight. The Sage of Wasilla has a record of opposing not only abortion but any school-based sex-education programs other than those that promote abstinence. She is governor of Alaska. She accepts McCain’s offer to be his vice-presidential running mate. In her first national speech, she throws both Hillary and Geraldine Ferraro as sops before the women voters who, despite her stances, she hopes to woo.

And then she throws her teenage daughter to the wolves.

Like all of Wasilla, the governor knows that her daughter is pregnant. Like all of America she knows the candidate on a national ticket isn’t the only person scrutinized. When McCain offered Palin second place on the ticket, she had a choice.

She could have just said no.

47 Reader Comments (so far…) Sign In or Register to comment

Kathrine Gluvna
That is one thing my mother and my sisters and I were talking about this weekend. Palin knew her daughter is pregnant. She knows intense scrutiny any policital figure and his/her family gets. She knew her daughter’s story would hit the airwaves. Why would she put her daughter in that position (the publicity not the pregnancy)?
By Kathrine Gluvna on 09/03/2008 4:59 pm
Lynn Marie
Isn’t thats what it is about for women now? We have CHOICES in all areas. Gov.Palin knows her life and what she can and can’t handle. Personally I do not care if her daughter is pregnant. It is none of my buisiness. It should be interesting to watch her speech tonight to see how she feels about the ISSUES ! No one ever asked Robert Kennedy how he could be a good father with 11 children??Odd?
By Lynn Marie on 09/03/2008 5:16 pm
Dona Howlett
Hey Lynn, I don’t know how old you are………… Lots of comments were made over the years about the amount of children Kenndy had. But people also knew he was a wealthy man and could afford as many Nanny’s as needed to take good care of his children. Plus he had a good wife Ethel who bore most of the responsibility. Life is different for the Wealthy…………. They have servants that take care of all the mundane daily tasks. . When people start comparing women to men they need to remember we have the same rights but we are not alike………..men don’t produce the children………we do……….our bodies go through 9 month of preg……….giving birth………hopefully raising our own children/with the help of others if we can afford it. To even make this comparison is way out of line.
By Dona Howlett on 09/03/2008 6:44 pm
Lynn Marie
I am 50——I have a 28 year old son I raised alone from the age of 2. men and women are not alike Men CAN care for the kids and family—I have many fellow nurse friends who do just that, they work full time and the huy stays home with the kids and does the housework etc…………. I doubt Palin is ”poor”I am sure there will be a nanny…….housekeeper etc….. How exactly is it out of line to think Palins husband cannot care for his family? I am sure Ethel had nannies raising all her kids……by the way I am 1/2 Irish catholic and from Massachusetts—I grew up on the Kennedys—haha,,,,,,Not sure what point you are trying to make??
By Lynn Marie on 09/03/2008 7:19 pm
Dona Howlett
Lynn, Congratulations on rearing your son by yourself. I was a single Mom for 5 years and know how difficult that job is. When I say Men and women are not alike……….I qualified my statement. Of course men can give loving satisfactory care to their children. I never said other wise. I also stated that Ethel had nannies. You are the one who brought up Robert Kennedy. To even compare Sarah Palin to Robert Kenndy is pitiful. Had Robert not been assassinated he would have made a good President for our Country. I just hope and pray if McCain wins with her on the ticket she doesn’t decide to continue having more children. Believe you me as a woman I don’t think a pregnanat woman would be in a position to fullfill her job as VP……….. Yes, now woman will say well other woman hold down jobs while preg. Yes they do, (generally because they have to) But the Office of VP is not like any other job in the World. Not sure what point you are trying to make………….. My point is simply that I dont think Sarah Palin is quailified to be the VP of our Country.
By Dona Howlett on 09/03/2008 8:18 pm
A N
Very good point, Lynn! Is this the site I thought it was? Women bashing other women because they “work” and are still able to manage a family? I could understand it better if these remarks were coming from men. Are we living in the 1960’s? And another thing, why on earth do most of you want to ridicule this woman? Hey, the Dems decided not to go with Hillary at the top of the ticket, and Mr. Obama ignored 18,000,000 of her supporters and CHOSE not to put her on the bottom of the ticket…who’s Obama’s CHOICE? Biden, one of the “good ole boys” who received only 9,000. You can RESPECTFULLY disagree with Sarah Palin’s political beliefs but give credit where it is due..this the first time the Reps put a woman on the ticket (no matter what their intentions…they had the guts to do it!) And after witnessing the sexism and the misogyny that went on with Hillary, I would think that many of you would be fighting this treatment, not applauding it! OMG, let’s celebrate the fact that we have a “woman of substance” running for the Vice Presidency of the US.
By A N on 09/05/2008 7:13 am
J B
In a word…Ego. Also, power is a powerful aphrodisiac, even if it is VP “World Leader Dies, VP Flies” power. Hindsight is 20/20 and I think there is a LOT of buyer’s remorse going on in the McCain campaign right now.
By J B on 09/03/2008 5:19 pm
sibelle daubigne
Why should she No when she wants to say Yes? lol
By sibelle daubigne on 09/03/2008 5:26 pm
Dona Howlett
She should have said no because if she’s as intelligent as they claim then she knows she’s not qualified………it’s just that simple Her qualifications are lacking………… Her family problems (it seems To me) should be her first priority. She’s got a cushy job right where she is. It’s pure and simple EGO. If she put her COUNTRY FIRST (as the banners are stating) she would know she is not capable of doing the job………. My prayer has been Please God let Obama win Now it’s changed to. Dear God if Mc Cain wins please let him love forever.
By Dona Howlett on 09/03/2008 6:32 pm
sibelle daubigne
Do you realize it’s just simply your opinion?
By sibelle daubigne on 09/03/2008 7:08 pm
Chris Broersma
No, it is not simply her opinion.
By Chris Broersma on 09/03/2008 7:40 pm
Dona Howlett
Sibelle, May I politely ask who’s opinion am I supposed to write. Your’s? I dont think so……….. That’s what these exchanges are……..a sharing of each others opinion. My god the world is filled with millions of different opinion. Are we all supposed to just read yours and not have an opinion of our own. Did someone make you the ruler of this site. I hadn’t been notified about that. Perhaps I will be getting an email from Joni informing the rest of us to all agree with sibelle daubigne No more individual opinions!
By Dona Howlett on 09/03/2008 8:01 pm
sibelle daubigne
Let’s focus here.You seem to be confused about expressing an opinion and passing a judgement. You ,me and everybody else has an opinion,so does Sarah Palin.She can say Yes or No. As far as reading my posts, no one is asking you to.So next time ,leave me alone, ignore me,that is plain simple.
By sibelle daubigne on 09/03/2008 10:26 pm
Dona Howlett
You focus all you want………..I can express my opinion You are telling me what to read. You think you can tell me not to read your posts… I think the last Dictator I know of is no longer here. You are the one who responded to my comment………… So now we learn something else about you.. Dont read sibelle daubigne……..leave her alone, Ignore her. It’s not that plain and.simple Believe me there are alot of other people on this site who don’t agree with you. If you dont want an exchange of opinions then go somewhere else where every one thinks exactly the same as you. Goodluck……. Most of us enjoy the exchange of opinions even when they are different.
By Dona Howlett on 09/04/2008 12:07 am
Dona Howlett
sorry (sp) Live forever………….love forever is OK too!
By Dona Howlett on 09/03/2008 6:34 pm