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Julia Reed | 11/21/2008 11:55 am

Julia Reed: Laura Bush Has a Thankless Job

Julia Reed
Yes, I’m interested in reading Laura Bush’s autobiography. She’s a lovely, strong, interesting woman who handled a thankless job incredibly well. I also don’t think she’s been given enough credit for some of her activities while in office. She has done far more than read to grade-school children. She has actively supported the people of Burma, speaking out against the prolonged detainment of Aung San Suu Kyi and protesting the treatment of peaceful protesters by the ruling junta. She has urged the international community not to buy Burmese gemstones — which prop up the regime — and has visited the refugee camps on the Thai-Burmese border. Her own private library foundation is responsible for the rebuilding and restocking of countless libraries on the Katrina-ravaged Mississippi Gulf Coast and New Orleans, where she has made 23 visits and also driven school recovery efforts. She has focused attention on two of her husband’s better ideas, the President’s Malaria Initiative (PMI), and the President’s Emergency Plan for AIDS Relief (PEPFAR), the largest international health initiative in history to fight a single disease, and has visited ten of the 15 PEPFAR focus countries and ten of the 15 countries aided by PMI.

I could go on about her work, but that’s not what makes her interesting to me. She is warm, has a great sense of humor that few have seen and has a core group of good friends she has known since childhood and to whom she is extraordinarily close and supportive. The first time I did a story on her for Newsweek when she was still First Lady of Texas, we went to lunch with two of these women and I had a blast. They were as bright and warm and hilarious as she is. Every year they take a trip together and go hiking in some national park or whitewater rafting, which I don’t think most people can imagine her doing. 

Also, no matter what you think of the administration, it’s important to have a record of people’s time in the White House. I was at lunch at the White House about three weeks ago. There were some writers like me, some historians, Cokie Roberts, Dee Myers. It was very relaxed and we sat around in the exquisitely restored Green Room downstairs, where she has hung some beautiful 20th-century works of art, and one of the historians urged her to write her memoirs because, he said, the president’s and First Lady’s official papers aren’t released for years, and it is vital for them to put down in their own words their experiences.

Further, it is absurd to transfer the feelings one might have about the president to his wife — or to be rude to her because of him. Once, about two years ago, I had dinner with Mrs. Bush and two other women at Galatoire’s in New Orleans. She had instructed the Secret Service to hang back as she just wanted to relax and have a few laughs before getting up at dawn to go to some schools along the Gulf Coast. And we had barely sat down before the parade started. A man came up and told her that he wished her husband would be tortured like they tortured the prisoners at Abu Graib. It went on and on. When one guy came by and told her that while he thought the president was a monster, he had always liked her, she waited until he had walked off and looked at me and said, "And that’s supposed to make me feel better?" I was embarrassed to my core for my city — hell, for my fellow man. I have enormous respect for her and now I would love to hear what she has to say.

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She has actively supported the people of Burma, speaking out against the prolonged detainment of Aung San Suu Kyi and protesting the treatment of peaceful protesters by the ruling junta. She has urged the international community not to buy Burmese gemstones — which prop up the regime” Maybe she should have actively supported the people of Burma and helped curtail the home imprisonment of the nation’s democratically elected leader, Aung San Suu Kyi, by her huband not having the Halliburton CEO/VP whose company’s gas pipeline building in Burma helped keep the junta in power. Maybe instead of touring the Middle East promoting breast cancer awareness she should have been getting her war mongering sociopath of a husband not to use Depleted Uranium with a shelf life of 4.5B…and a WMD, and a war crime….against the civilian population in Iraq….causing a generation of horrific birth deformities and huge cancer spikes. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P-8PlJVhogs Maybe you should ask her why any woman would be married to an international thug, the number #1 executing governor, who spied against his own people, denied due process, and has all but destroyed the US. We have the Good America back after 8 years of hell and occupation by these idiot, greedy thugs. Any woman married to all of that has serious problems.
By Delete This on 11/21/2008 12:13 pm
Sherrie Crews
I’m just shaking my head in disbelief. I don’t know what to say except, “when you lay with dogs you get fleas”, “when you roll with the pigs you get covered mud”. She’s done both.
By Sherrie Crews on 11/21/2008 12:53 pm
Lucinda Herbert
Julia, Mrs. Bush has only demonstrated grace, warmth, and intelligence. Clearly too many fellow-posters, and that includes some of the wOw founders, seem to lack that and what I consider and you consider to be good manners. I will read her autobiography with great interest.
By Lucinda Herbert on 11/21/2008 1:07 pm
kermie b
Good Mannners!?! Good lord. What her husband has done is beyond treason—and you talk about good manners. Oy.
By kermie b on 11/22/2008 12:00 am
Lady Gator
Julia Reed —-Thank you. I will definitely read Laura’s book. Thus far I have read every book that has been written by the First Ladies of this country. Laura Bush has always facinated me. I met her when the President was running for office in 2000. She was the speaker at a luncheon — I loved her sense of humor — loved her warmth. At first, I thought she was very shy and a bit reserved — not so. She is definitely her own person. And, when she speaks to you personally her eyes sparkle. I look forward to reading about her life. Knowing her it will be written with honesty and, hopefully, some of her incredible humor. I think she will be remembered by many as a “True Woman from Texas. Years ago I had the opportunity to meet Lady Bird Johnson. (I did not like LBJ) however, I loved “Bird”. She was also a lively, humorous lady with a lot of good Texas “Grit”. Although many (I’d say 95%) women on this site will demean Laura because she is married to the President — I say “don’t condemn anyone until you’ve had to walk in their shoes”. She is a wonderful lady in her OWN right! Thanks for your words on Laura.
By Lady Gator on 11/21/2008 1:18 pm
beth willis
Hello, friend, I agree with your sentiments. My attorney grew up with Laura and George in Midland. Going to see Patti LaBelle next month. Happy Thanksgiving. Peace and grace
By beth willis on 11/21/2008 3:35 pm
HA BIBI
Hi Lady, LOL, 95% of women on here couldn’t cut walking in her shoes!
By HA BIBI on 11/21/2008 5:52 pm
DeBúrca obj
Well I disagree. I don’t believe 95% of the women on here would stay married to a war criminal.
By DeBúrca obj on 11/21/2008 9:11 pm
Char Star
That’s Right Elaine—95% of the women on here are far too decent to stay married to a war criminal & pretend all is well.
By Char Star on 11/23/2008 4:27 pm
Susan B
I’m with you on this one, Lady Gator. We all know wonderful women (and men) who are married to monsters and/or losers. I refuse to judge Laura Bush based on what little I know of her personally, and I’m really taken aback by the hateful comments of some of the posters with whom I usually agree. While I share the anger many have toward W, I also know that many of us have been trapped — if even for a short time — in relationships with men who weren’t fit to lick our boots. I see a lot of misbegotten judgment going on here.
By Susan B on 11/25/2008 1:04 am
Deb K
Julia - Thank you for your honesty - while most of us may have certain opinions towards Mr. Bush it is truly unfair to transfer those feelings to Mrs. Bush. She deserves to be treated with respect as we all do - and to disrespect her because of her husbands actions is just totally unfair and certainly uncalled for.
By Deb K on 11/21/2008 2:05 pm
Kate Phelan
Have you seen her interviewed?? She has absolutely nothing interesting to say. Of course, I wouldn’t be interested in reading her book. She would have absolutely nothing to say in print, either.
By Kate Phelan on 11/21/2008 2:51 pm
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Yes, here she is talking at a WH journalist dinner about GWB milking a ‘male horse’ being a ‘Desparate Housewife’ going to Chippendale’s with Lynn Cheney whose Secret Service code name is ‘dollar bill. So classy, so dignified, so First Lady appropriate, such a high minded talk and what a wonderful example for children. Can just imagine multi-lingual/Vassar graduate Jackie Kennedy stooping so low. If a woman in any group I belonged to got up and spoke like that she’d be a laughingstock, as she’d deserve to be. And here she and the audience are laughing at GWB making a joke about no WMD. They all should be very ashamed of themselves to be in the presence of/and supporter a war criminal….let along laughing at the imbecile making a joke with over 1M dead civilians, 2.3M displaced and over 4,500 dead GIs and 85K injured for life. How low can these people sink? http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YjXPOxnu2N8&feature=related http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HH02pp3sM3I Truly crass, ignorant and disgusting.
By Delete This on 11/21/2008 11:10 pm
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Forgot the link with Laura Bush talking about GWB milking a ‘male horse’ etc. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EQv0v3Xme0I
By Delete This on 11/21/2008 11:18 pm
DeBúrca obj
I heard about this speech she made, but never heard it. She was absolutely hilarious… and you can tell she means it, that’s why it’s so funny. You’ve got to hand it to her on comic timing.
By DeBúrca obj on 11/22/2008 3:34 pm