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Julia Reed | 11/21/2008 11:55 am

Julia Reed: Laura Bush Has a Thankless Job

Julia Reed
Yes, I’m interested in reading Laura Bush’s autobiography. She’s a lovely, strong, interesting woman who handled a thankless job incredibly well. I also don’t think she’s been given enough credit for some of her activities while in office. She has done far more than read to grade-school children. She has actively supported the people of Burma, speaking out against the prolonged detainment of Aung San Suu Kyi and protesting the treatment of peaceful protesters by the ruling junta. She has urged the international community not to buy Burmese gemstones — which prop up the regime — and has visited the refugee camps on the Thai-Burmese border. Her own private library foundation is responsible for the rebuilding and restocking of countless libraries on the Katrina-ravaged Mississippi Gulf Coast and New Orleans, where she has made 23 visits and also driven school recovery efforts. She has focused attention on two of her husband’s better ideas, the President’s Malaria Initiative (PMI), and the President’s Emergency Plan for AIDS Relief (PEPFAR), the largest international health initiative in history to fight a single disease, and has visited ten of the 15 PEPFAR focus countries and ten of the 15 countries aided by PMI.

I could go on about her work, but that’s not what makes her interesting to me. She is warm, has a great sense of humor that few have seen and has a core group of good friends she has known since childhood and to whom she is extraordinarily close and supportive. The first time I did a story on her for Newsweek when she was still First Lady of Texas, we went to lunch with two of these women and I had a blast. They were as bright and warm and hilarious as she is. Every year they take a trip together and go hiking in some national park or whitewater rafting, which I don’t think most people can imagine her doing. 

Also, no matter what you think of the administration, it’s important to have a record of people’s time in the White House. I was at lunch at the White House about three weeks ago. There were some writers like me, some historians, Cokie Roberts, Dee Myers. It was very relaxed and we sat around in the exquisitely restored Green Room downstairs, where she has hung some beautiful 20th-century works of art, and one of the historians urged her to write her memoirs because, he said, the president’s and First Lady’s official papers aren’t released for years, and it is vital for them to put down in their own words their experiences.

Further, it is absurd to transfer the feelings one might have about the president to his wife — or to be rude to her because of him. Once, about two years ago, I had dinner with Mrs. Bush and two other women at Galatoire’s in New Orleans. She had instructed the Secret Service to hang back as she just wanted to relax and have a few laughs before getting up at dawn to go to some schools along the Gulf Coast. And we had barely sat down before the parade started. A man came up and told her that he wished her husband would be tortured like they tortured the prisoners at Abu Graib. It went on and on. When one guy came by and told her that while he thought the president was a monster, he had always liked her, she waited until he had walked off and looked at me and said, "And that’s supposed to make me feel better?" I was embarrassed to my core for my city — hell, for my fellow man. I have enormous respect for her and now I would love to hear what she has to say.

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Kryssi K
Hah, that was cute! “I can pronounce NUCLEAR” - lmao!!! I wonder why someone seemingly decent like her would stay married to a petulant war-mongering primate like George…
By Kryssi K on 11/23/2008 5:23 am
DeBúrca obj
In case you haven’t seen this, here is your laugh for the day: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B34oBiDVpcg&feature=related
By DeBúrca obj on 11/22/2008 3:46 pm
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Hysterical….Bill Maher is such a riot.
By Delete This on 11/23/2008 12:50 pm
Barbara Taylor
Hi Julia, Thanks for the wonderful insight on Laura Bush. She handles a difficult job with grace.
By Barbara Taylor on 11/21/2008 3:20 pm
beth willis
Julia, I have a sincere question for you. How much does place of birth and parental influence actually play in an individual’s political affiliation? I do think on a personal, nonpolitical basis Laura Bush probably possesses a witty personality AND she was/is a secret smoker, which I was for years. I have to agree with Lady Gator, can’t assign the president’s misdeeds to her. Peace and grace
By beth willis on 11/21/2008 3:32 pm
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How would you feel, Beth, being married to someone who lied to start a phony war that killed, unnecessarily, 1 million innocent civilians, displaced 2.3 M more, used depleted uranium on civilian populations, backrupted our country, and created havoc all over the world while enriching his friends and wasting opportunity time/assets on important matters. How would be feel with hubans like that? How divorced from their own sense of humanity does a person need to be to be married to the world’s most despised and imbecilic sociopath? Even GOP dirty tricks operative Roger Stone…says he deeply regrets helping Bush get elected with all the damage he’s done. Over 4.500 US troops are needlessly dead because of that slimeball Bush and she’s married to him. How does any woman even let a thing like him even touch her. It’s incredible the inhumanity of Republicans. Paul Krugman has it right the last 8 years was the ‘Monster Era’ and Laura Bush was right there supporting it. Like her mother in law who said, “Why should I trouble my beautiful mind with body counts and body bags?” What an absolutely heartless, cold, monster thing to say. Legions of babies, children, women….troops are dead or horribly injured because of that war criminal. Jackie Kennedy said she’d hear about people in trouble and be blue all day. She was so shocked by the poverty she saw in West Virginia that she selected all stemware from glassmaking plants there to create jobs knowing that Americans would then buy the same glasses. State Dinners were set not with fine expensive crystal….but ordinary attractively designed glasses to help the people in West Virgina. During the Vietnam War she was so uoset that she beat then DoD, a friend, on the chest, cried and exclaimed “Stop the killing!!! Stop the killing!!! The GOP is one heartless bunch….and Laura is right there supporting it all including the evil use of depleted uranium…that won’t just impact generations of Iraqis….but US and foreign troops there too. ie Bush is using WMD against Americas….it is diffuse in the air, soil and water as soon as it hits a target. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rLsZOjWPaRA I doubt that Laura could be witty….wit requires intelligence, sophistication, erudite knowledge..she is an exceptionally ordinary individual and not sophisticated in the least. A typical, dowdy Methodist.
By Delete This on 11/23/2008 9:56 pm
beth willis
Suzanne, I’ve often said that I cannot imagine being married to someone who does not share my political views, because the ideal of politics, at the risk of creating an oxymororn, is the demonstration of one’s deepest core values. As incongruent as you want to believe, I do think that among those in her comfort zone; although, that zone, I imagine, has remained loyal over the last 8 years. ‘Typical, dowdy Methodist’….Suzanne, you are prone to stereotypes, which to my mind, always delude anyone’s argument. If I were to express a losely shaped stereotype for you: rich, intolerant, great significance given to upscale name brands, but I choose to see the more wide-ranging Suzanne, who frequently shares some idea without the need to comapare or condemn. “The GOP is ONE heartless bunch”, maybe one time, but life is not that simple anymore, and we can il afford to draw lines in the sand. Always one of my favorites, Suzanne, even if I find you irascible at times. Peace and grace
By beth willis on 11/24/2008 4:28 am
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Beth— You’re right I am completely intolerant of mass murdering sociopaths. I don’t have the difficulty translating to what they did here to how I’d feel if it were done to us; I don’t have that total disconnect Republicans have with humanity out of their immediate realm of experience. What Bush Inc did and people like Elaine, Lady Gator et al….cheerlead is the equivalent of another—infinitely more powerful nation—-ignoring all International law, and with triumped up lies to steel our natural resources—-came here and slaughtered 30 Million ++ of our citizens…destroyed our infrastructure, destablized the western hemisphere, poisoned our environment for 4.5 B years which is the half-life of the depleted uranium we’ve poured into Iraq a nation 2/3s the side of California. I wouldn’t be interested in the book by the Mob Moll married to all of that…and the equivalent to our own nation. If there were a teaspoonful of actual grace in these people, they’d hang their head in shame, get off the national stage, and without hawking a $15 million dollar book contract. But there is no actual grace. And there will be none for them in the next life where they will pay in eternity for their OUTRAGEOUS lack of humanity. Barbara Bush is the one who said on GMA ‘Why should I bother my beautiful mind with body bags, body counts. I mean it isn’t relevant.” That sociopathic statement runs like an undercurrent of sewage throughout the Bush Family. All these so called ‘Christians’ ought to contemplate the river of blood and destruction they’ve wrought for lies and imagine what Jesus would say. He went and threw out the ‘money changers’ in an angry fit. He was executed for being an organizer for social justice. What is ABSURD to quote Julia Reed is to be so thick headed not to see what they’ve done and while hiding behind the cover of ‘Christians.” Why is it OK in vast parts of the American public to mass murder brown people in the cradle of civilization and destory all of their artifacts….and build the largest embassy in the history of the world in that small country. What is absurd is the lack of logic in the very thesis of this thread. No, I have no tolerance whatsoever for mass murders and their cheery supporters.
By Delete This on 11/24/2008 12:19 pm
beth willis
Although I do not step back from the substance of my remarks, I’m amazed you could find a cogent thought in there. The ideas were so poorly expressed. You trivialize when you use huge generalities, Suzanne. Obviously, mass murdering people in the cradle of civilization is atrocious, an abomination. (And according to the Book of Discipline of the United Methodist Church, war is incompatible with Christianity…that move is on Bush, not the Methodist Church). Arguments addressing mass murder, acting with indifference and entitlement, cavalier stupidity? You know I cannot, will not defend the Bush administration; our country has been brought to its knees, young people killed or maimed for life in a ‘mistake’ manipulated by greed. But I don’ attach all of that responsibility to ALL Republicans. Throughout the discourse here through the primaries and the campaign, the Dems trampled the Reps with rude comments, disrespect and ridicule. Civil pertains to all the world, Suzanne. Another point in the article that I took issue with was the headline: “Laura Bush Has aThankless Job”. well, lots of us, teachers in particular, have thankless clothes. We just have to do them in less stylish clothes, without the benefit of a private chef. Peace and grace I
By beth willis on 11/24/2008 2:48 pm
beth willis
Promise to preview in future. thankless clothes should be thankless jobs Please carry on Peace and grace
By beth willis on 11/24/2008 2:59 pm
beth willis
What a mess, started at 4:30am. meant Among her comfort zone, lifelong friends, I would think that Laura Bush would be quite humorous, even bawdy losely should be loosely il should be ill
By beth willis on 11/24/2008 2:53 pm
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And what were you saying about content….ie typing fast while doing three other things at the same time? Who gives a load of merde about Laura Bush’s sense of humor. Other countries are decimated including this one because of her idiot mate…..what kind of gutless wonder stays married to a war criminal?
By Delete This on 11/24/2008 3:05 pm
Ms. Dee
I’m sure she’s a lovely woman, she just doesn’t strike me as a woman of candor.
By Ms. Dee on 11/21/2008 3:43 pm
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She strikes me as Emelda Marcos with less hairspray.
By Delete This on 11/24/2008 12:00 pm
Carla Altland
I have not been reading much on the wow forum ,since before the election and this is why>>> There is not much positive or kind things said about anyone that has been in the lime light of politics. I do believe that we had an elegant first lady ,but also a very well read woman. I would love to hear her humorous stories of living in the White House and anything she has to write about ! Positive and rewarding too.. Sincerely, Carla
By Carla Altland on 11/21/2008 3:48 pm