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Julia Reed | 11/21/2008 11:55 am

Julia Reed: Laura Bush Has a Thankless Job

Julia Reed
Yes, I’m interested in reading Laura Bush’s autobiography. She’s a lovely, strong, interesting woman who handled a thankless job incredibly well. I also don’t think she’s been given enough credit for some of her activities while in office. She has done far more than read to grade-school children. She has actively supported the people of Burma, speaking out against the prolonged detainment of Aung San Suu Kyi and protesting the treatment of peaceful protesters by the ruling junta. She has urged the international community not to buy Burmese gemstones — which prop up the regime — and has visited the refugee camps on the Thai-Burmese border. Her own private library foundation is responsible for the rebuilding and restocking of countless libraries on the Katrina-ravaged Mississippi Gulf Coast and New Orleans, where she has made 23 visits and also driven school recovery efforts. She has focused attention on two of her husband’s better ideas, the President’s Malaria Initiative (PMI), and the President’s Emergency Plan for AIDS Relief (PEPFAR), the largest international health initiative in history to fight a single disease, and has visited ten of the 15 PEPFAR focus countries and ten of the 15 countries aided by PMI.

I could go on about her work, but that’s not what makes her interesting to me. She is warm, has a great sense of humor that few have seen and has a core group of good friends she has known since childhood and to whom she is extraordinarily close and supportive. The first time I did a story on her for Newsweek when she was still First Lady of Texas, we went to lunch with two of these women and I had a blast. They were as bright and warm and hilarious as she is. Every year they take a trip together and go hiking in some national park or whitewater rafting, which I don’t think most people can imagine her doing. 

Also, no matter what you think of the administration, it’s important to have a record of people’s time in the White House. I was at lunch at the White House about three weeks ago. There were some writers like me, some historians, Cokie Roberts, Dee Myers. It was very relaxed and we sat around in the exquisitely restored Green Room downstairs, where she has hung some beautiful 20th-century works of art, and one of the historians urged her to write her memoirs because, he said, the president’s and First Lady’s official papers aren’t released for years, and it is vital for them to put down in their own words their experiences.

Further, it is absurd to transfer the feelings one might have about the president to his wife — or to be rude to her because of him. Once, about two years ago, I had dinner with Mrs. Bush and two other women at Galatoire’s in New Orleans. She had instructed the Secret Service to hang back as she just wanted to relax and have a few laughs before getting up at dawn to go to some schools along the Gulf Coast. And we had barely sat down before the parade started. A man came up and told her that he wished her husband would be tortured like they tortured the prisoners at Abu Graib. It went on and on. When one guy came by and told her that while he thought the president was a monster, he had always liked her, she waited until he had walked off and looked at me and said, "And that’s supposed to make me feel better?" I was embarrassed to my core for my city — hell, for my fellow man. I have enormous respect for her and now I would love to hear what she has to say.

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lynn burghoff
Carla you are right, this is a hateful site. These liberal women are just not happy people. And Julia Reed you look like Sarah Palin with you hair up and glasses. You look up to her right? Admit it.
By lynn burghoff on 11/28/2008 1:47 am
Irish Eyes NY
Julia, Thank you for the kind words for Laura Bush. There are too many posters on this site that have nothing kind to say about Laura or any other conservative/republican that posts on here. Again, thank you for your kindness
By Irish Eyes NY on 11/21/2008 3:54 pm
Allene Swienckowski
I am one of the members who will not read Laura Bush’s upcoming book. I have been married to the same man for forty-two years and it is difficult to separate us on ideology or issues of morality, or for that matter immorality. I don’t know Laura Bush personally, and I would have never been invited to the White House, because my political views are far too liberal. Regardless of how “liberal” one may or may not be, it is impossible not to judge Mrs. Bush by the actions of her husband, even if she was Mother Theresa. Part of the problem that we face as women, that is, being accepted as effective political beings, is that fact that we, as a group, still judge women with a different set of rules than we use to judge men. If Laura Bush had been president and George Bush had been her mate (read First Dude), many, many women would have demanded that “the kind and gracious First Dude divorce the most hated woman on the face of the earth.” You doubt the veracity of my words? Then think back to just a few short years ago to the saga of Bill and Hillary Clinton. How many women demanded that Hillary divoce Bill because of his infidelity? It is often true that if a person continues to live with a monster, then just by staying in that relationship could also be judged as tacit acceptance of the behavior of the monster. Think of a woman who maintains her relationship with a known child molester. She might be a very nice person, but her continued relationship with a known child molester taints any credibility the woman may have had. As a free woman, Laura Bush has the right to leave, and yet she has chosen to stay.
By Allene Swienckowski on 11/21/2008 8:16 pm
Irish Eyes NY
I’m speechless for a change. I can’t even respond to the idioticy of your post. ……………………..and yet she has chosen to stay. Yea, dummy just like Hilary and thousands of other wives who stay with their husbands. She can’t tell him how to run the country, DUH
By Irish Eyes NY on 11/23/2008 6:15 pm
Delete This
Allene, Exactly…..something is very wrong with the character of an individual who’d stay married to a mass murdering sociopath responsible for the needless death of over 1 million innocent civilians. She put her foot down when he was drinking and said stop it or I leave. So the drinking that had personal impact on her was problematic…..but the war profiteering, war mongering, bombing nations and torture etc all the rest all against International law…that’s fine. It is truly dysfunctional, demented, and sick. And people who think not are those who do not question ‘authority’ or have led very circumscribed lives. The more educated, informed, and with a world social justice view people are… the more they oppose Bush.
By Delete This on 11/23/2008 10:03 pm
DeBúrca obj
Laura Bush is married to a war criminal who has caused this country more trouble than we could have even dreamed of 8 years ago. It is not “absurd” to judge Laura Bush in relation to her husband… we wouldn’t even know who she was if it wasn’t for W!
By DeBúrca obj on 11/21/2008 9:10 pm
Dianne Lopp
Ms. Reed: I agree with you regarding Mrs. Bush and I would love to read her memoirs. However, I have a slight bone to pick with you. I have thoroughly enjoyed your writing and I own and have enjoyed all three of your books. Through your writing I have gleaned that you come from a privleged background and consider yourself to be somewhat of an arbiter of good taste and manners—-hence your embarrassment at the treatment of Mrs. Bush in New Orleans, your city. I am a proud Oklahoman (who loves New Orleans, by the way). In your book, The House on First Street, you discuss the Oklahoma National Guardsmen who protected your home in the wake of Hurricane Katrina; you write of feeding them ( a truly lovely thing to do) then snidely (in my opinon) slag the home state of these good people, speaking of Oklahoma as being “culinarily deprived.” Have you ever set foot in Oklahoma? I assure you, you’ve never had a steak at the Polo Grill in Utica Square in Tulsa (recognized in Southern Living as one of the ten best restaurants in the South) and you are more than welcome to come to my home where you shall have fried chicken (my grandmother’s recipe), fried green tomatoes, squash casserole, mashed potatoes and homemadepecan pie (Karo syrup’s recipe) with sweet tea for supper. If you come for lunch the next day, you shall have grilled tilapia with salsa fresca, chopped salad with aged balsamic and fresh pasta pesto. There is no greater or more deserving object of social pity than the ignorant snob——please correct yourself.
By Dianne Lopp on 11/21/2008 11:39 pm
M L Staats
Dianne, I would LOVE to eat at your home! If this is what you’re serving, “… fried chicken (my grandmother’s recipe), fried green tomatoes, squash casserole, mashed potatoes and homemadepecan pie (Karo syrup’s recipe) with sweet tea for supper. If you come for lunch the next day, you shall have grilled tilapia with salsa fresca, chopped salad with aged balsamic and fresh pasta pesto. You sound like a heck of a good cook and a lovely, generous hostess. I do have to say I find Laura Bush an enigma; rather like my own mother who stayed with a man I would not have in a million years. That said, I see a sparkle in her eyes, a gracious manner to her and she seems genuinely kind and sweet. I don’t know why she loves the man she does or how she sees what he has done to this country with loving eyes, but I will respect her desire to do so. Just as I did not get on the wagon telling Mrs. Clinton she should divorce her philandering husband. I do not support being rude to anybody and I can’t imagine were I to meet Laura Bush that I would rush up to her and list all my complaints and criticisms of her husband, although I certainly have many. I do not know what their relationship is but she must love the man to stay with him and I don’t understand nor do I blame her.
By M L Staats on 11/22/2008 8:30 pm
Dianne Lopp
Dear Ms. Staats: Thank you for your kind words. I do love to cook and the above mentioned meals are often on the menu at my house! I was afraid that what I had written was a bit too tart so I am glad to see that you read it in the spirt it was intended!
By Dianne Lopp on 11/22/2008 11:55 pm
Irish Eyes NY
dianne———- Okay, when do we eat, yum!
By Irish Eyes NY on 11/23/2008 6:18 pm
J Holmes
Dianne, OK is a nice state! I had the pleasure of being invited by the University of Tulsa to dine at the Polo Grill - very nice restaurant and was impressed with the city and university (my daughter applied and was accepted by decided to stay in TX). I have been lucky to have lived in various parts of the country (IN, NY, AZ, TX, CA) and hate it when people make unkind generalizations about an area - great people everywhere.
By J Holmes on 11/22/2008 2:28 pm
Dianne Lopp
Thank you for your recognition of Oklahoma! I agree completely—-great people (and good food!) can be found everywhere—-if you know where to look!!!
By Dianne Lopp on 11/22/2008 11:58 pm
M L Staats
Dianne, one thing I have discovered in my travels is that there ARE great people and lovely food all over this wonderful country. And if one is polite and interested, one can come across both in quantities. I love to get out and admire peoples’ gardens and chat and ask where people think are the best places to get fancy and just plain yummy food. I’ve been known to send postcards to people whose gardens I admire when I visit a city. I appreciate great food, the effort some put into their gardens and I always enjoy meeting people and getting to know their ideas and their cities and towns. To me, it’s one of the very upsides to being human. Sad that others don’t always see it that way. And I do recall some very friendly, helpful, and talented people in your state.
By M L Staats on 11/23/2008 12:43 am
Char Star
Laura Bush’s phony lamenting about Burma & Kyi was nothing but a symbolic gesture she was told to say by handlers. It was aimed at improving the international image of the US & her husband as defenders of freedom & human rights—to blunt the negative criticism George got for attending the opening of the Olympics in Beijing—not to mention his own war-mongering foreign policies. Laura sure picks & chooses who she laments over! Get this—Laura says, “I’m very concerned about the teak forests & the Burmese people’s patrimony being sold”. What about the priceless antiquities that WERE in Iraq museums, Laura, when George invaded them for no reason & have now disappeared—PLUS—the Iraqi peoples patrimony from THEIR oil being sold? HUH Laura?! Another ironic & phony concern of Laura’s—She said, “I learned of Myanmar’s (Burma’s) regime who PURPOSELY FAILED TO WARN the people of the imminent danger of Cyclone Nargis” & many died. Did Laura ever hear of HURRICANE KATRINA in her own country—no body warned them that the levees had burst—even though THEY knew. Here’s a big laugh from phony Laura—She said, “I learned about the fact that Aung San Suu Kyi’s party won the election & never had the opportunity to have power at all.” Laura—you mean like our 2000 & 2004 ‘elections’? When Gore won but never got power because Bush got the Supreme court to stop the Florida hand count, because Bush was losing votes as they counted & would have lost to Gore if it was not stopped mid-count? Or how Florida’s Sec of State, Katherine Harris (she was also the head of Bush’s election campaign in Florida at the time)—wiped thousands of voters off the voting roles—only in the poor counties (mostly Democrats) —-saying it was a computer error later—-so they were not allowed their right to vote that day? Later the NAACP SUED Harris in a court of law for loss of their voting rights & WON. The court made Florida put all those thousands of voters BACK on the voter roles—but of course, the election was over—Bush stole the election & stole power from the Democratic party. Laura Bush was talking about Burma’s problems to make her husband look good in the eyes of the world & no other reason—-as if a Bush has ever cared about human rights & freedoms! She’s not so stupid that she doesn’t know what Bush has done. She was doing what she could to help her husband’s popularity which was hovering around 27% approval at the time. Despicable.
By Char Star on 11/23/2008 3:46 pm
Delete This
Thank you for your intelligent post, Char. She is a self-interested Married to the Mob woman, period. I’ve known women like her that turn blind eyes to whatever their husband’s do in order to maintain their perks. She is highly, cynically selective in what she does. i.e. running to the Middle East to promote Breast Cancer awareness while her husband is poisoning it with depleted uranium, a WMD with a shelf life of 4.5 billion years and the DU babies born are horrifically deformed. The 2.3 M++ people displaced from Iraq by her imbecil husband have put severe stresses on Jordan and other countries. He took a the largest surplus in US history….over $260 B and turned it into a trillion dollar deficit and is leaving the US in worst shape than when FDR took office.
By Delete This on 11/23/2008 10:12 pm