Sign in to wowOwow

Enter the email address that you used when registering at wowOwow.
The password field is case sensitive. Click here if you have forgotten your password.

Please register for wowOwow

Newsletter subscriptions
Sign up to receive wowOwow's weekly newsletter and get our best picks delivered right to your inbox. Our newsletter content is hand-picked by the wowOwow editorial team and provides the top features, news, and commentary from our site. Subscribing to our newsletter is free and safe. We will never share your email or other information with a third-party without your direct consent.
By registering, you indicate that you have read and agree
with our privacy policy and terms of service.

Julia Reed | 11/21/2008 11:55 am

Julia Reed: Laura Bush Has a Thankless Job

Julia Reed
Yes, I’m interested in reading Laura Bush’s autobiography. She’s a lovely, strong, interesting woman who handled a thankless job incredibly well. I also don’t think she’s been given enough credit for some of her activities while in office. She has done far more than read to grade-school children. She has actively supported the people of Burma, speaking out against the prolonged detainment of Aung San Suu Kyi and protesting the treatment of peaceful protesters by the ruling junta. She has urged the international community not to buy Burmese gemstones — which prop up the regime — and has visited the refugee camps on the Thai-Burmese border. Her own private library foundation is responsible for the rebuilding and restocking of countless libraries on the Katrina-ravaged Mississippi Gulf Coast and New Orleans, where she has made 23 visits and also driven school recovery efforts. She has focused attention on two of her husband’s better ideas, the President’s Malaria Initiative (PMI), and the President’s Emergency Plan for AIDS Relief (PEPFAR), the largest international health initiative in history to fight a single disease, and has visited ten of the 15 PEPFAR focus countries and ten of the 15 countries aided by PMI.

I could go on about her work, but that’s not what makes her interesting to me. She is warm, has a great sense of humor that few have seen and has a core group of good friends she has known since childhood and to whom she is extraordinarily close and supportive. The first time I did a story on her for Newsweek when she was still First Lady of Texas, we went to lunch with two of these women and I had a blast. They were as bright and warm and hilarious as she is. Every year they take a trip together and go hiking in some national park or whitewater rafting, which I don’t think most people can imagine her doing. 

Also, no matter what you think of the administration, it’s important to have a record of people’s time in the White House. I was at lunch at the White House about three weeks ago. There were some writers like me, some historians, Cokie Roberts, Dee Myers. It was very relaxed and we sat around in the exquisitely restored Green Room downstairs, where she has hung some beautiful 20th-century works of art, and one of the historians urged her to write her memoirs because, he said, the president’s and First Lady’s official papers aren’t released for years, and it is vital for them to put down in their own words their experiences.

Further, it is absurd to transfer the feelings one might have about the president to his wife — or to be rude to her because of him. Once, about two years ago, I had dinner with Mrs. Bush and two other women at Galatoire’s in New Orleans. She had instructed the Secret Service to hang back as she just wanted to relax and have a few laughs before getting up at dawn to go to some schools along the Gulf Coast. And we had barely sat down before the parade started. A man came up and told her that he wished her husband would be tortured like they tortured the prisoners at Abu Graib. It went on and on. When one guy came by and told her that while he thought the president was a monster, he had always liked her, she waited until he had walked off and looked at me and said, "And that’s supposed to make me feel better?" I was embarrassed to my core for my city — hell, for my fellow man. I have enormous respect for her and now I would love to hear what she has to say.

88 Reader Comments (so far…) Sign In or Register to comment

Frannie Em
Suzanne You really think I care if you respect or admire me? I could care less. What difference does it make? What are you so upset about? You address me at times, not much, but you do. Your post was directly addressing what I said, like that is hard to figure out? So don’t put a name on top, what difference does it make, you were still addressing what I was saying. Go for it, why not? They are just typed words on a screen. I don’t think any of us are doing anything that earth shattering here. We enjoy the conversation or new ideas and the way people express themselves. Earth shattering would be to go to Iraq and make a difference. You have a wit and flair that is enjoyable at times, so sue me.
By Frannie Em on 11/24/2008 3:25 pm
Delete This
This is a public post and I will post as I wish within the rules and guidelines of WoW…without your overbearing sanctimony and impertinent and rude instructions which bring to mind Barbara Bush referance to HRC. A witch with a capital B.
By Delete This on 11/24/2008 2:13 pm
Frannie Em
Suzanne, LOL, you never cease to amaze me on how little you really follow what I am saying. I didn’t ask you to leave. Are you volunteering? I just suggested that you might want to take some more productive action for all that you believe in and what is important to you. You would be an asset to getting organizations moving in a beneficial way. I don’t address you because there is nothing much to say to you, as I assume that is why you don’t address me. I don’t have a problem with it. You do your thing, and I do mine.
By Frannie Em on 11/24/2008 3:36 pm
Lady Gator
Frannie Em —- Thank you for your post. I do so agree with you. It’s time to let it go. Some of us have heard this statement in regard to the new President Elect — we’ve been told “It’s time to let it go”. How can we get to this low of lows when we are discussing whether we want to read a book? We have heard all of this for months — As I read the post below regarding your comments from someone — I almost want to say “I give up” — however, with good thinking and informative posts, you will always have my respect. I guess the best thing we can hope for is to just ignore. Again, thanks for your posts. Peace to you!
By Lady Gator on 11/24/2008 3:20 pm
Frannie Em
Hey Lady Gator What are you up to? I am feeling good today, my son gets leave to come home for Thanksgiving. We are going to my brother’s and we always have a great time there. My sister-in-law is one in a million. Love all my nephews. I don’t think my nieces will be there. I have been hoping for rain, but now I want shine because my son is flying in from Tacoma where it has been raining constantly. Little breaks here and there. Frank would know. What are you doing for Thanksgiving?
By Frannie Em on 11/24/2008 4:21 pm
Lady Gator
Frannie ….My brother (Catholic Priest) came in last evening to spend Thanksgiving with us. And, he will spend another week and leave around Dec. 4. So, there will be approximately 6-7 people at our house for the “thanking” feast. It seems the number grows by the day!LOL — My husband and I never refuse anyone — I’ve never been able to stand the thought that someone might have to spend the holiday alone. My husband cooks almost all of the dinner — with a few dishes brought in by the other partakers. So we will have much to be thankful for. I know you will have a blessed day with your son at home. Give him my best — tell him I pray for him, and all of his fellow military each day! We owe them so much. Blessings on Thanksgiving to you and yours.
By Lady Gator on 11/25/2008 10:02 am
Frannie Em
Lady Gator, How nice for you to have your brother join you. Our family has always been the same way. If someone doesn’t have a place to go, we just have them come over and just let them melt right in with us. As I said we are going to my brothers and when I asked my sister-in-law for a head count so I would know how many potatoes to bring she said 40. I started out with about 20 and over the last two weeks it has doubled. God bless them. It is always fun. Thank you for your sweet wishes for my son. I appreciate it and so does he. When he comes he sometimes reads the threads because all of the women have cared so much about him through these pages. So I really appreciate it. Sometimes he will post. It is funny. Have a great holiday and back atcha with the blessings.
By Frannie Em on 11/25/2008 4:13 pm
Char Star
Frannie—You say there’s a possibility that the total number of dead people could be less than a million? Well, that makes all the difference in the world. It might be only 800,000—nothng to get upset over……
By Char Star on 11/24/2008 2:48 pm
Delete This
Char—Not to mention totally ignoring ALL the quality of life issues mentioned, and poll opinion numbers of the Iraqis themselves as posted above. Mental lightweights are so tiresome.
By Delete This on 11/24/2008 3:16 pm
Frannie Em
Suzanne LOL. Ooh I’m scared. LOL. So you can copy facts and you think that makes you intelligent? If it were only so easy. I don’t see cognitive argument on your part. You disagree with something and then rather than discuss, you march in with your cross and attack with spiteful putdowns. As long as someone agrees with you, you are okay. All I am saying is if you believe in it so much, go over to the Middle East and do something about it. You can continue to post from there. Go to Lebanon it is beautiful, they speak French, then work your way into Iraq and show them how it is done.
By Frannie Em on 11/24/2008 3:58 pm
Frannie Em
Char Star Go read my other comments and then you will understand how that comment or argument does not work with me. There shouldn’t have been one dead, as we shouldn’t have been over there. Read my response to Suzanne, yes it is long, sorry, but I get that way sometimes. No number is okay, can you change what has happened? I can’t, I wish I could, but I can’t. Can you change what Saddam did, or what is happening in all of the hotspots around the world. I would love to, but there are more players than just me. Yes the blogs are a release unless it is the same obsessive argument over and over again that only increases someone’s inner resentment or feelings of domination. You missed my point.
By Frannie Em on 11/24/2008 3:46 pm
Char Star
Frannie—I’ve been on other blogs where the point is to prove who is right—with quotes, facts, dates etc. (In fact I argued this very point—to the inth degree—of how many were actually killed in Iraq, Lancet study vrs. Iraqi organizations themselves etc about 3 yrs ago against the Michael Medved people—when his blog was still open.) But this blog is not a place to “argue” points. (Except maybe red vrs coral lipstick etc) It’s a place to express what’s in our heart. I know full well that this “Julia” is horribly wrong about Laura Bush. Julia is one of those people put in place to make sure Laura Bush & her ilk appear respectable to others. I can’t sit here & agree. She’s the wife of a man who has stolen our money, lied to us, killed, tortured, spied, trashed our Constitution, ruined the environment, drove the value of our dollar down, & singlehandedly collapsed our financial system. She’s not worth buying a book from & giving our money & respect to any more than Al Capone’s wife was. In fact, I like Capone’s wife better—at least she wouldn’t pretend to be cultured, kind, sensitive, etc——-something she isn’t. Tell me in one sentence Frannie, what IS YOUR “point” on here?
By Char Star on 11/25/2008 12:13 am
Frannie Em
Char This blog is about whatever anyone wants to put on it. A topic article is presented and, as you know, threads have a life of their own. Many of the threads include posters trying to prove “rightness” (or leftness for that matter) with quotes, facts and dates. Others would rather have discussions and explore opinions and insight on a subject. Everyone plays it the way they want to. We follow what interests us. You decide for yourself. If you want to be in constant contention with other posters, go ahead. If domination of a thread with links to opinion pieces is what turns you on, who is to stop you? If you state something, people might join the conversation and question it or comment on it. Or, if it is always contentious, they will just scroll over you. You wanting to prove you are right has nothing to do with me, that has to do with the progressive climax to crisis and then the unravelling of your own ego. This “Julia” person is Julia Reed. I believe that she is one of the women that put up the money to establish this website. We have dubbed them “the founders.” Essentially, you and I are a guest on her site. So although you believe you have the moral high ground with your numbers and links and anger and resentment, she has given you space to express them and room for freedom of speech. If you believe that you have a right to suppress her freedom of speech, I think you are mistaken. As to expressing what is in our hearts, that can only happen if you have a heart. As to what my point is, Char you would be the last person that would understand what I am about. Here is a link to some background on her. If you google Julia Reed, you will find many links for her. http://www.newsweek.com/id/35939
By Frannie Em on 11/25/2008 4:50 pm
Char Star
No, Frannie. The point you were trying to make on 11/24 at 4:45pm. (I knew you couldn’t do it in one sentence anyway—I was just hoping…) I expressed my opinion about Bush killing people for no reason in our name—you’re the one that jumped in to quibble over how many were actually dead—a discussion that is neither here nor there to the point I made—& when I said so—you popped up with this, “That argument won’t work with me” routine. No one was arguing with you. Whoever owns this site contacted me & asked me to contribute. I’m doing it. I’m sure the more people they can get posting on here serves to bring them more money—because if they can prove they have a wide readership—they can charge more to advertise on here. Don’t be so quick to fight & say nasty things to people—it doesn’t become you.
By Char Star on 11/25/2008 6:26 pm
Frannie Em
Char Trust me. This is no fight. I can say as much as I want. If no one wants to read it, they don’t have to. It’s all good. I said what my point was three times. I understand you disagree, and you have a right to. Okay. So? So I don’t even know why you asked again except that you wanted to put a dig in. You set the parameters of the game. I also understand the value of the number of posters to blog sites, it goes without saying they like the advertising. Anything else?
By Frannie Em on 11/25/2008 7:59 pm