Relationships | 02/03/2009 10:45 am
TV Star Kate Gosselin Says Octuplet Mother Nadya Suleman Went too Far

Kate Gosselin, star of TLC’s popular reality show "Jon & Kate Plus 8," knows from big, chaotic families. As the title of her show suggests, Gosselin’s the proud mother of eight children — a set of twins and sextuplets — that she and husband Jon care for with a mix of teamwork, efficiency and a whole lot of love.
Like Nadya Suleman, the unmarried California mother of six who just gave birth to eight babies, the Gosselins used fertility drugs to conceive their big family — but they knew when to stop. Though she has no regrets, Gosselin thinks unemployed Suleman went too far and today offered some harsh words via the New York Post. Here are some highlights:
Q: Do you think Nadya did the right thing in having these octuplets, after already having six children?
Kate: I believe that every life that is created has a purpose. However, personally, I would never have set out to even have a seventh child — especially if I was a single parent!Q: Nadya is not married, and there’s no father that we know of. Is this a problem?
Q: How do you think this will affect her other children?
Kate: Absolutely. The workload that Jon and I share is often even too much for us! It is unimaginable the amount of work she will have to bear as a single mother raising eight preemies as well as six other children.
Q: Do you think Nadya is cognizant of what’s in store for her?
Kate: No. I can honestly say that no amount of planning ahead prepared me for what I faced. And in comparison, I had three-year-old twins and six preemies … and a helpful husband. And we struggled in every way — physically, emotionally and financially.
Kate: There will be various reactions, ranging from helpfulness, involvement to resentment of the complete chaos and lack of attention the older six will now receive.
We’re curious, readers, what are your thoughts on Suleman’s decision?























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I don’t think it’s "sister bashing" to say Suleman "went off the deep end", to say "the light is on but, nobody’s home", " a few brick shy of a full load"…etc….OK, say it simple = Suleman is nuts.
Suleman is irresponsible. Suleman is mentally ill. Suleman is a user of people, a con artist, a leach.
This woman was deceptive to everyone that was trying to help her in conceiving these children……..or they were all hoping to profit from it. Anyway, since Suleman is mentally ill they all took advantage of the mentally ill.
IF you have the money to have 14 children….you can house them, feed them, pay their medical insurance, buy transportation big enough to transport them, clothe them, send them to school…..then, by all means, knock yourself out…just don’t ever die or get sick…..make sure you have a trust set aside in advance to support them in case you die or become disabled.
What makes anyone think they can just take and take and never give back? This woman needs a JOB……from that JOB she needs to save enought for an apartment…and pay her medical insurance…and buy her food……then, the state can let her take 1 child home (all under close supervision and with mental health counseling for Suleman)…..once she can prove she can support herself and 1 child in total without taxpayer support…then let her take a second child home….etc. Give her 1 year to be in total support and have money/income in place to support the rest…..if she can’t do it, then, adopt the remaining children and give them achance…no need for them to be punished for their foolish mother and her absurd idean/plans.
I’m 59 and would like to retire…..but, who is going to pay my insurance, buy my food, pay my taxes, repair my auto, etc? Hurt almost two years ago with bad neck and back injuries, but, I am working, and not using taxpayers dollars (doubt I could get them anyway)….how can we keep paying for people to do crap like this? It really does need to stop…it’s stupid. Helping stupid, irresponsible people to do stupid, irresponsible things like this.
Complain people….call Children & Family services and plead theses children be removed from Suleman’s care…….complain about payinng taxes to support these nuts.
You just don’t do this if you can’t afford to raise the children.
I am so tired of people bashing the Gosselins. They are not monsters exploiting their kids. These kids are very much loved and well taken care. Yes these kids are making money, but most all of it is used for their benefit. They have wonderful lives and get to experiance so many things that they may never have gotten if it were not for the show.
Has it ever occured to any of you that maybe they did this show to provide their children with a better future? The kids will be able to go to college because of this show. Do you have any idea what it would have cost them to put eight kids through college?
I am also sick of people saying they do not work. Kate is a mother to eight children! SHE WORKS! As far as Jon goes, he free lances from home. He has a job with an income. They also did not have all these children because they were seeking fame.
And honestly all of you haters who are bashing the Gosselins, if you were offered a TV deal that would insure your children’s future, most of you would jump at the chance!
Let me start by saying I am not supportive of Nadya Suleman in any way. I have two special needs children and can’t see how one person could possibly be capable of caring for 14 children, some with special needs, on her own. It is going to be nearly impossible for her to provide each one of them with as much attention as they each deserve.
However it makes my blood boil to read Kate Gosselin’s comments about this woman. Hey Kate, did you ever stop to think you and your greed influenced this woman and who knows how many others like her that we’ll hear about in the future? You are famous and for what? Having a uterus? You didn’t even try to conceive naturally. You had a feeling it would be difficult to conceive because of your condition and just jumped on the fertility bandwagon without even trying. You have no special talent or gift you are sharing with the world. You aren’t even filming episodes in line with your show’s mission statement anymore. Didn’t you create this show to show the world what it’s like to raise two sets of multiples? What other family with multiples lives like yours? You are hardly ever shown on camera actually playing or interacting with your children. You’re constantly yelling at them to get away and give you your space. You take lavish all expense paid trips to Hawaii, California, Utah, and Disney World just to name a few. Your family gets private backstage tours at museums, aquariums, and just about any other place you go. Your children are always dressed in Gymboree clothing. Even on sale one outfit even from a Gymboree outlet can cost $30+ and you are putting all eight of them in Gymboree on every episode? You yourself are a walking advertisement for Ann Taylor. How many times have we seen your linen closet with a lifetime supply of Johnson’s bath products? The list of freebies goes on and on.
I watched Jon & Kate from the beginning. The family is not the same. The kids are not the same. It’s clear some of them don’t want to be involved in the filming anymore but as proven by the season finale Kate doesn’t care. Their family has everything handed to them on a silver platter. They purchased a 1.3 million dollar home before they even sold their old one. They are well off enough, and have been for a long time, to turn away donations that aren’t brand new, color coordinated, latest fashion, all matching sets. They have fame, fortune, and wealth. Taxpayers may not have had to pay Kate’s medical bills but anyone who supports the show is essentially supporting that family. Neither parent has a real job outside the home yet somehow they must still have a nanny…wait, sorry, I mean a “helper”…to take care of their kids. To someone like Suleman who is clearly obsessed with celebrities,fame, and children, I’m sure she was somehow influenced by families like the Gosselins. Their show makes it look so easy. All she had to do, based on Kate’s example, was have a set of multiples and wait for donations to start pouring in. Sadly despite all the bad press she’s getting, she is actually getting what she desired. She’s turning away donations (except financial ones) because she supposedly has no room for them. Shame on you Kate for criticizing Suleman when from where I’m sitting you may very possibly have influenced her to have this many children.