Remembering…?  If you live in the "now" you don’t have to remember anything.  There’s nothing good about growing old, but not remembering too much sometimes does help.  Think about it…to have some moments where you are really not thinking of a thing.  Ahhhhhh…Bliss!  Live for the moment!  I’m with you, Lily.  Oh, do you remember me looking for my grey sweater that night in Carbondale, IL?  You said to send you my name and phone number.  Now hon, if I knew where to send it, I’d send it.  BTW, with your magnanimous help, my sweater was recovered.  To everyone else who reads this, Lily hugged me three times….yes, THREE.  Now doing something three times,,,could that make me a lady.  You know, "once, twice, three times a lady"?   Did Lily make me a lady?  Could I be her lady?  Oh and she rubbed my arm too!  Made shivers go up and down my spine to be touched by an untouchable celebrity like that.  And did I mention that my friend acted like she was "family" to get to see Lily?  All I did was wander around looking for my grey sweater and had her asking for my name and address.  Hi Lily, it’s me, Oh Char!  ‘wave, wave’.  Oh and the number thing you have…just give up on that.  Everything’s happening like it’s gonna happen anyway.  Maybe it’s not, but to think that way, takes the jitters away.  Just think, if we got carried away too much about numbers, we wouldn’t have been destined to meet!  Now that would have been a tragedy.  Keep up the good work about elephants, and all the animals.  Oh, and let’s go let out all the lobsters in RED LOBSTER!  And join Bea Arthur’s legacy about banning Kentucky Fried Chicken.  Has anyone seen a chicken breast lately from the grocery store?  They look like large turkey breasts!  Seriously, something has to be done, and it can all start with each of us.  Don’t eat animals!