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Liz Smith | 08/14/2008 2:55 pm

Liz Answers wOw Critics of the John and Elizabeth Edwards Story

John Edwards '08
Dear wOw readers:

I’d like to answer some of you today – actually I’d like to answer all of you, but I only have one life to live. So just to hit the heights. 

I’m in the news business and in the commentary business. So I would say to those of you like NP — if you don’t want to read comments on the Edwards story, go directly to The New York Times and follow "the issues of the day." Don’t keep reading when you see the word "Edwards." The press is never going to serve up only issues stories and you know it, but some of you wouldn’t miss a thing as long as you can read it and keep deploring it, as if that lifts you above it. OK. I happen to think John Edwards’s hypocrisy is an "issue" story. The man was running for president when all this happened. He was as culpable as Clinton in the White House.

And Kelly Kelley who is so tired of the Edwards story — well, honeychild, it’s only been in the major media for about six days. What kind of shelf life would you like to give to major public figures in trouble where all the facts don’t come out at once?

JJGB asks if I would admit to adultery in public and I can only say that during the times I was married I wasn’t important enough for anyone to care. I was faithful during my marriages but I have had plenty of other scandalous negatives to talk about before and since. Read my memoir Natural Blonde if you want the lowdown and dirty on Liz. I tried to tell it all without involving innocent persons who might prefer never to have encountered me.

NP asks why I would be glad that Edwards wasn’t the Democratic nominee. Because it has been revealed that he is a lying hypocrite. And as for all of you who now want me to attack John McCain, I don’t know for sure the truth of any bad things I’ve heard about the McCains. I try not to get into hearsay; I never wrote about the Edwards story even though I had heard all about it. But because I couldn’t prove any of it, I never mentioned it until after he spoke himself on "Nightline" last August 15. By then, even The New York Times couldn’t avoid dealing with this.   

And I do think Mrs. Edwards was unwise in "enabling" him to go on campaigning when she’d had his bad character revealed by his confession to her. They could then have easily dropped out of the race with no explanation other than her illness, thereby saving themselves and their children from the current unpleasantness. I am betting that Mrs. Edwards now wishes that is what she had insisted on.

I am not at all "focused" on John Edwards. I never was. I always liked her having met her, but I didn’t care for him from the beginning. Too slick and self-regarding. But believe me, now he’s toast.

And my main consideration wasn’t that he "unzipped his pants" as one reader says.  It’s just that his hypocrisy, bad character, disregard for wife and children and his own legacy, and his lying to the American voter have been revealed. 

I have tremendous sympathy for Elizabeth Edwards and will say again how much I like and admire her. But she was wrong to let him go on attempting to be president of the U.S. And she would have better protected his children by convincing him that she wouldn’t go along with his campaign to achieve that goal, given what she then knew. 

This is very much like the criticism received when we write about Madonna. It only makes me wonder why, when you see a headline about Madonna and you don’t care, you bother to say, "Who cares?" and then attack the press for what it reports. Just ignore what you don’t care to know about. My love and good wishes and my hope for tolerance from each and every one of you.

Liz Smith

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216 Reader Comments (so far…) Sign In or Register to comment

beth willis
Point taken, Lorraine. Thank you for responding. Peace and grace
By beth willis on 08/15/2008 8:59 am
beth willis
Elizabeth, I’ve always had great respect for your posts, but you are too intelligent not to realize that yours is one opinion. You’ve stated it. No one here is right or wrong; all are opinions. Politicians always advance their agenda. We’ve heard a great many interesting opinions about the Edwards’ revelations and their consequences. Now is the time to move forward and begin a dialogue about the platforms of Obama and McCain. Let’s do this in a dignified manner, with respect for one another and the importance of the goal. Health Care is a concern for all Americans; let’s start there. Peace and grace
By beth willis on 08/14/2008 8:40 pm
Elizabeth Bennett
Beth, I was actually trying to answer Lorraine’s question, but maybe it was rhetorical. Anyway, there are a number of threads on health care issues; maybe we should move over there to discuss Health Care?
By Elizabeth Bennett on 08/14/2008 10:36 pm
DeBúrca obj
I for one don’t see any reason why Elizabeth Edwards should have been required to or expected to divorce him over the affair. There are many reasons why people stay and work things out and love is one of them. However, I do think as a potential First Lady and as an active part of his campaign she should have urged him not to run in the first place, actually they both should have known better, and by choosing to be an active part of the campaign she is an accomplice in risking the White House had they won the nomination. Because like it or not, the fact is, this coming out now if he had won would have surely blown the election.
By DeBúrca obj on 08/14/2008 7:35 pm
Star Lawrence
Who advocated her divorcing him—though this has been suggested in these pages to other political wives. What I objected to was her going along with his second bid, knowing this had to be a liability that would hurt people’s feelings, hurt the Dem party, and damage those who contributed, and so on. They could have said in March that her cancer had apparently recurred and he was leaving the race. If she wants to leave her kids with a father if her life is to be shortened by this, that is a fine decision—though even the younger ones will find out eventually what happened. .
By Star Lawrence on 08/15/2008 10:02 am
DeBúrca obj
I was referring to and agreeing with the comment in the above post stating “I don’t think we really want a rule that says all political spouses must shun the cheat for all time or divorce them, or otherwise issue a press release that cheating was going on.”
By DeBúrca obj on 08/15/2008 10:39 am
Trish Vernazza
Well put! Interesting Hillary gets cheated by two cheating men. How Ironic. I lost repsect for her long long ago and did I ever and still want a woman president in the future.
By Trish Vernazza on 08/15/2008 12:03 am
JJ GB
I stand corrected Liz and my apologies to you if you were offended. I am not important enough that anyone should or would care about my private life, but when my husband was cheating and if anyone had cared to ask, I would have denied it and demanded proof to avoid the shame and humiliation I felt and it would have affected his career and in turn, my family’s financial security which I wanted to protect. The children found out in time, but it was kept a private family affair and he wouldn’t have admitted any wrong doing if anyone had asked, me or anyone else for that matter. I saw that going on around me and I never saw anyone admit to that publicly.
By JJ GB on 08/14/2008 6:59 pm
DeBúrca obj
JJ GB, also, how would you have felt if the people at your husband’s job and any higher ups, felt it was their business to know this information and discuss it amongst all the employees to decide if it reflected upon your husband’s ability to do his job?
By DeBúrca obj on 08/14/2008 7:31 pm
Lorraine Bates
Sorry JJ and De, but I beg to differ. When you hold the power in your hand to control my safety (i.e. national security), my bank account (i.e. taxes), my health (i.e. healthcare), I get to know it ALL. It’s just not the same as talking about an employee or a boss of a business.
By Lorraine Bates on 08/14/2008 7:39 pm
DeBúrca obj
All I want to know is what is relevant to that person doing a good job. His sex life isn’t as far as I am concerned.
By DeBúrca obj on 08/14/2008 8:45 pm
Lorraine Bates
Again, De, no, it’s not, but lying, covering up and - now in the news today, paying off your mistress out of PAC money - is VERY, VERY relevant.
By Lorraine Bates on 08/15/2008 8:42 am
DeBúrca obj
Now that is a different story and IS relevant. But I still don’t think the sex, even the lying about it is our business or relevant. Because that would mean every person in public life could be asked “Have you ever had an affair” evidence or not… and if they said no and later it turned out not to be true, everyone could say it was “relevant” just because they lied. The affair wasn’t our business to begin with. Using PAC money is a different story.
By DeBúrca obj on 08/15/2008 8:49 am
mary lou s
lorraine, you say:”When you hold the power in your hand to control my safety (i.e. national security), my bank account (i.e. taxes), my health (i.e. healthcare), I get to know it ALL.” do you feel the same way about how john mccain conducted himself with respect to his wives?
By mary lou s on 08/23/2008 12:28 am
JJ GB
They knew and like the “good ol’ boys society”, they covered his a— and theirs, especially since many of them were involved in affairs, too. That was the amazing part of it, he did a great job at work and was well liked and respected by his employees and his superiors, but they didn’t live with him.
By JJ GB on 08/14/2008 8:21 pm