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Liz Smith | 07/25/2008 1:44 pm

Marilyn Monroe -- The Way She (Really) Was

Parade Magazine

Still, she had that contract. A small but showy role in “All About Eve” attracted attention. Zanuck was forced to admit she “had something.” Though he didn’t put her on par with the studio’s blonde bonanza, Betty Grable. Or even with the pallid June Haver, who was being groomed to replace Grable, when Betty grew too mature. (The studio system was nothing if not pragmatic.) Marilyn was cast in tiny roles which were little more than window dressing. The public responded. Zanuck, whom Marilyn would come to feel was her professional bete noir, was increasingly irritated by the young actresses’ issues and problems—her demand for an acting coach, upon whose opinion she over-relied, her trouble with remembering lines or (even more galling) her insistence on asking for more takes, when it looked to others that the scene had been perfect. Great directors such as Fritz Lang and Joe Mankiewicz found themselves faced with a girl who looked like cotton candy. Underneath were her demons. And beneath that? Titanium. But Marilyn, despite her unusual work methods, suddenly became a force, a public relations bonanza, an all-American success story; the Cinderella of cheesecake. There was something oddly mournful behind her eyes, even then. Her mother’s mental instability—locked away in a sanitarium—gave Marilyn’s image an interesting psycho, as well as sexual twist. The story of little Norma Jeane having been molested when in foster care—remember, this was decades before such matters were discussed—also put a forgiving gloss to her florid display; she was damaged, and therefore not responsible.

When the tale of her nude calendar photos surfaced, she defied the studio and owed up—why, she was just a hard-working girl getting by. She was not ashamed. They were only nudes, after all. And just to prove she was really a good girl with a body she couldn’t help, she began dating recently retired baseball icon Joe DiMaggio. Surely, if Joltin’ Joe thought she was okay…(Decades before Madonna, it was Marilyn who was the mistress of media manipulation.)

Having watched Marilyn survive the nudes and observe how cleverly she handled the press, Zanuck began to push her into high gear. She was cast as a mentally disturbed babysitter in “Don’t Bother To Knock,” a daffy secretary in “Monkey Business” a murderous femme fatale in “Niagara” and finally the role she was born to play, Lorelie Lee, in what is probably her best, most joyously entertaining film, “Gentlemen Prefer Blondes.”

Now she was a great star—unique and undeniable. But almost as soon as the glitter settled, Marilyn was troubled. “Blondes” was followed by “How To Marry a Millionaire,” in which she played another dizzy girl out for big bucks. Fox then cast her in “River of No Return” as a saloon singer in the Old West—out for big bucks. Her on-set clashes with director Otto Preminger became legend—she won them, too! Then she was ordered into a musical with Frank Sinatra, “The Girl In Pink Tights.” Marilyn declined. She sent Zanuck a telegram: “I have read the script. I do not like it.” The studio put her on suspension. What big sillies! Marilyn decided this would be the perfect time to marry her boyfriend of two years, Joe DiMaggio. And so they wed, to screaming headlines. The couple traveled to Japan for their honeymoon, where Joe D. was distressed to be pushed aside while thousands literally rioted for his bride. She then accepted an offer to entertain the soldiers in Korea. Joe did not tag along. Her appearances were a sensation, causing the NY Times to reprimand Army officials for allowing the G.I’s to “behave like bobby-soxers.” Fox had no recourse—how can you punish a girl who just gave her all, on her honeymoon, to America’s fighting troops? Her suspension was lifted.

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Lorraine Bates
Very interesting piece, Liz. Thanks for sharing it with us. I have always thought that the studio system of old reeked havoc with sensitive souls who found their way to Hollywood to try and find what was missing from their childhood or personal lives. The Machine took some of the most sensitive and poigniant actresses of the time - Marilyn Monroe, Judy Garland, Dorothy Dandridge. Sad that they didn’t live long enough to achieve all they could have.
By Lorraine Bates on 07/25/2008 6:46 pm
Elizabeth Bennett
Thanks for this. She was a wonderful actress. Performances that did win oscars in the fifties and sixties are forgotten faster than her performances in Some Like it Hot and Bus Stop and Gentlemen Prefer Blondes. I liked Marilyn when I was a little girl. She was trying to do a good job. With style. I remember feeling a little thrill when visiting Hollywood for the first time to find her hands were the same size as my own. [Graumann’s Chinese Theatre.] Anyway, I loved the biography of her written by Gloria Steinem, too. Thanks for a good article with a lot of insight. I was sorry to learn that she suffered from so much pain and insomnia; it explains a lot of her so called difficulty. These days, she would have the ADA on her side.
By Elizabeth Bennett on 07/25/2008 7:02 pm
kim speight
Yes a fascinating article with many things I didn’t know about our poor Marilyn. I esecially appreciate the asides such as … she steeped herself in “motivational” acting exercises and Freudian analysis. (Naturally inclined to morbid self-examination, these were perhaps not the best avenues for her.) …. they lent a particular sensitivity/filling out to the article.
By kim speight on 07/25/2008 7:28 pm
Rita T
What a great article, Liz. Thanks so much for sharing it with us before it comes out in print. I have always admired Marilyn and thought she was a good actress who wasn’t taken seriously enough because of her looks. She is a prime example of how life can go horrible wrong when you are beautiful and people don’t or won’t take you seriously in whatever job or profession you have.
By Rita T on 07/25/2008 7:54 pm
DeBúrca obj
I always like her. As a little girl, she was one of my favorites and I can’t really explain why.
By DeBúrca obj on 07/25/2008 9:06 pm
Beinta F.
just love her
By Beinta F. on 07/25/2008 11:58 pm
Chrome Toe
I absolutely loved the line about Marilyn being a “working woman”. I totally get that. the woman was a working woman. and rather progressive in some ways apparently. It made her seem more human and female than anything I’ve read about her before.
By Chrome Toe on 07/25/2008 11:43 pm
Diana T
She was such a talented actor and such a very messed up person. And she had wonderful comedic ability and timing. LIke so many before her, there was so much wasted, and that is very sad.
By Diana T on 07/26/2008 12:04 am
Bonnie Oliver
Liz, you have written a very kind article about Marilyn Monroe. I know her movies but as to her personal struggles, I have only heard a few words here and there through interviews I have seen on TV with Robert Mitchum, Shelly Winters, Hope Lang and Donald O’Connor. Jack Lemmon was kind and Tony Curtis was barely polite when asked about the movie Some Like It Hot. As an actress, I think she was almost as insecure as she was as a person. Her love affair with JFK is now, I guess, an accepted fact of history. However, I did not know that an affair with Robert Kennedy was as yet an accepted fact. Peter Lawford, in an interview, did not confirm or deny the fact. And you add, that the relationship with RFK was more tumultuous? Does anyone know a source for these “accepted” facts?
By Bonnie Oliver on 07/26/2008 1:44 am
sherry roemer
I am the product of the affair between Marilyn and JFK. Bobby used to spend time with Marilyn because he was appointed my legal guardian after JFK was killed. I’m sure that my mother and Bobby never had an affair!!!
By sherry roemer on 07/29/2008 5:14 pm
Bonnie Oliver
Ms. Roemer, I hesitate to reply inasmuch as your birth is not acknowledged. I fear you are living a fantasy or do you have a story to tell?
By Bonnie Oliver on 07/29/2008 9:21 pm
Dona Howlett
Like all beautiful and fragile beings…………when they are gone we sit back and speculate and wonder. I loved her as an actress and admired her spunk. I think those who had the power (over actresses) in those days used and abused the women. I always felt, if she had really had just one true friend she would have survived. I like so many others look back with sweet memories of the joy and pleasure she gave us with her beauty and talent. Some times women can be too beautiful…jealousy raises it’s ugly head and tries to destroy what it can’t have or control…………. I still feel a pang when I think of her tragic death. She was loved and hated…………..I was one of those who loved her. Thanks for such a great article Liz.
By Dona Howlett on 07/26/2008 2:35 am
Maggi D
This article was written with great compassion. And if nothing else, she deserves that. Thanks for a sad trip down memory lane.
By Maggi D on 07/26/2008 3:01 am
Bella Mia
To have been in orphanages and foster care, Marilyn did an extraordinary job of controlling and amplifying her life in a brutal, shameless, toxic business. And all those miscarriages which deprived her of being a mother, must have been devastating to her. Her production company showed her business acumen. But she should be a symbol to all young women who allow powerful men to bed them and manipulate them: it does not end well.
By Bella Mia on 07/26/2008 4:16 am
Dab-a- do
Well said Bella Mia. I was very young and saw her for the first time in “The Prince and the Showgirl” with Sir Lawrence. She was luminous. The raw, powerful acting in “The Misfits” was extraordiary. She never got her due in life as an actress but I think we all can say she certainly entertained us. As time has gone by we now realize she was more than good as she perfected her craft. And had more than just a little impact in the world she lived. There are only a few entertainers that leave a mark on our consciousness and she is one.
By Dab-a- do on 07/26/2008 8:42 am