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Liz Smith | 07/25/2008 1:44 pm

Marilyn Monroe -- The Way She (Really) Was

Parade Magazine

Back in Hollywood, Marilyn found herself married to a man who resented her stardom and loathed her image (“Who did he think he married, when he married me?” she would ask friends as the relationship faltered.) And her studio was up to its old tricks. She would appear in a corny musical extravaganza, “There’s No Business Like Show Business.” Oh, no she would not. Oh, yes she would—and if she did, Fox would give her the screen version of the Broadway hit, “The Seven Year Itch,” to be directed by Billy Wilder. She agreed, though she hated the “Show Business” script, which mocked and degraded her. As she toiled—and frequently collapsed—on this set, she thought more about the aspirations of photographer Milton Greene, who had suggested Marilyn form her own production company (with him, of course) and leave Hollywood. Her pivotal crisis arrived twofold. When she came to shoot location scenes for “Itch” in Manhattan, DiMaggio showed up just in time to catch the famous skirt-blowing scene; her scanty panties transparent under the klieg lights. The exhibitionist in her adored the attention; the actress, struggling to control her image was torn. She fought with Joe and they soon separated. Then came the release of “There’s No Business Like Showbusiness.” She was criticized for vulgarity—indeed, how her pelvic-centered “Heat Wave” musical number escaped the censors is astonishing. Marilyn realized her career would soon be over, or certainly not the career she wanted, if she continued to give in to Fox. She rejected another script, and then, without warning flew to New York, breaking her contract, declaring herself free from the studio.

No star of Marilyn’s caliber—a sex-symbol—had dared to defy Hollywood. Who did she think she was—Bette Davis? (And Davis had actually lost her famous battle with Warner Bros.) Marilyn had only been a real star for less than two years! Zanuck said he would keep her off-screen; she was no longer young (28), she would be ruined. Marilyn went ahead. She formed her company, Marilyn Monroe Productions with Greene, and then, putting a fine point on her independent stance, began to study with Lee Strasberg and the Actor’s Studio. Lee and his wife, Paula, became Marilyn’s new security blankets. She discarded her old drama coach, Natasha Lytess; she steeped herself in “motivational” acting exercises and Freudian analysis. (Naturally inclined to morbid self-examination, these were perhaps not the best avenues for her.) Yet, while pronouncing herself eager to star in the film version of “The Brothers Karazamov,” Marilyn also appeared at Madison Square Garden atop a pink elephant, wearing a showgirl outfit; bosoms pushed high. Did she contradict her desires to be taken seriously? Yes. Maybe. “No matter how much a person learns about acting, that person is not going to dye her hair black and wear dresses up to the neck,” Marilyn said, attempting to explain sex and sensibility. Her natural desire to exploit her most negotiable assets would never fade—and why should it?

“The Seven Year Itch” was the comedy smash of 1955. 20th Century Fox capitulated (helped by Darryl Zanuck’s withdrawal as studio head) and Marilyn Monroe returned to Hollywood in 1956 with a new contract that that gave her more money—though that was never the primary issue—and control over almost every aspect of her work, including director approval. She had also bought the rights to Terrence Rattingan’s play “The Prince and The Showgirl” which she would produce. Her leading man—and the movie’s director—would be Sir Lawrence Olivier. She had come a long way from “Heat Wave.” (But at their joint press conference, Marilyn allowed the strap of her tight black cocktail dress to snap—a wink and a nod to her blue-collar fans, “Don’t worry, I’m still Marilyn!”)

“Are you the boss lady?” asked a female reporter of Marilyn upon her return to Los Angeles. “I am the president of Marilyn Monroe Productions,” she replied sweetly, “and Mr. Greene is the Vice President, and there are other people…” The woman persisted, “You are wearing a high-necked suit, very different from the last time I saw you. Is this a new Marilyn, a new you?” Marilyn threw back her head, “No, I’m the same person. But it’s a different suit.”

Fox, now headed by the less combative Buddy Adler, offered Marilyn the screen version of William Inge’s Broadway hit, “Bus Stop.” She accepted, and approved Josh Logan as her director. Logan was unusually sensitive to his star’s mounting terror in facing the cameras—this was her “comeback” and she was at the crossroad age of 30. He also tolerated with grace her reliance on the oppressive Paula Strasberg. The result of Logan’s care was Marilyn’s spectacular performance as Cherie, the beat-up hillbilly “chanteuse” who improbably yearns for Hollywood stardom. The film was a critical and box-office success, but Monroe would be denied the Oscar nomination many felt she deserved—though her co-star, Don Murray nabbed a nod. Hollywood was serving notice: we still don’t respect you.
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Lorraine Bates
Very interesting piece, Liz. Thanks for sharing it with us. I have always thought that the studio system of old reeked havoc with sensitive souls who found their way to Hollywood to try and find what was missing from their childhood or personal lives. The Machine took some of the most sensitive and poigniant actresses of the time - Marilyn Monroe, Judy Garland, Dorothy Dandridge. Sad that they didn’t live long enough to achieve all they could have.
By Lorraine Bates on 07/25/2008 6:46 pm
Elizabeth Bennett
Thanks for this. She was a wonderful actress. Performances that did win oscars in the fifties and sixties are forgotten faster than her performances in Some Like it Hot and Bus Stop and Gentlemen Prefer Blondes. I liked Marilyn when I was a little girl. She was trying to do a good job. With style. I remember feeling a little thrill when visiting Hollywood for the first time to find her hands were the same size as my own. [Graumann’s Chinese Theatre.] Anyway, I loved the biography of her written by Gloria Steinem, too. Thanks for a good article with a lot of insight. I was sorry to learn that she suffered from so much pain and insomnia; it explains a lot of her so called difficulty. These days, she would have the ADA on her side.
By Elizabeth Bennett on 07/25/2008 7:02 pm
kim speight
Yes a fascinating article with many things I didn’t know about our poor Marilyn. I esecially appreciate the asides such as … she steeped herself in “motivational” acting exercises and Freudian analysis. (Naturally inclined to morbid self-examination, these were perhaps not the best avenues for her.) …. they lent a particular sensitivity/filling out to the article.
By kim speight on 07/25/2008 7:28 pm
Rita T
What a great article, Liz. Thanks so much for sharing it with us before it comes out in print. I have always admired Marilyn and thought she was a good actress who wasn’t taken seriously enough because of her looks. She is a prime example of how life can go horrible wrong when you are beautiful and people don’t or won’t take you seriously in whatever job or profession you have.
By Rita T on 07/25/2008 7:54 pm
DeBúrca obj
I always like her. As a little girl, she was one of my favorites and I can’t really explain why.
By DeBúrca obj on 07/25/2008 9:06 pm
Beinta F.
just love her
By Beinta F. on 07/25/2008 11:58 pm
Chrome Toe
I absolutely loved the line about Marilyn being a “working woman”. I totally get that. the woman was a working woman. and rather progressive in some ways apparently. It made her seem more human and female than anything I’ve read about her before.
By Chrome Toe on 07/25/2008 11:43 pm
Diana T
She was such a talented actor and such a very messed up person. And she had wonderful comedic ability and timing. LIke so many before her, there was so much wasted, and that is very sad.
By Diana T on 07/26/2008 12:04 am
Bonnie Oliver
Liz, you have written a very kind article about Marilyn Monroe. I know her movies but as to her personal struggles, I have only heard a few words here and there through interviews I have seen on TV with Robert Mitchum, Shelly Winters, Hope Lang and Donald O’Connor. Jack Lemmon was kind and Tony Curtis was barely polite when asked about the movie Some Like It Hot. As an actress, I think she was almost as insecure as she was as a person. Her love affair with JFK is now, I guess, an accepted fact of history. However, I did not know that an affair with Robert Kennedy was as yet an accepted fact. Peter Lawford, in an interview, did not confirm or deny the fact. And you add, that the relationship with RFK was more tumultuous? Does anyone know a source for these “accepted” facts?
By Bonnie Oliver on 07/26/2008 1:44 am
sherry roemer
I am the product of the affair between Marilyn and JFK. Bobby used to spend time with Marilyn because he was appointed my legal guardian after JFK was killed. I’m sure that my mother and Bobby never had an affair!!!
By sherry roemer on 07/29/2008 5:14 pm
Bonnie Oliver
Ms. Roemer, I hesitate to reply inasmuch as your birth is not acknowledged. I fear you are living a fantasy or do you have a story to tell?
By Bonnie Oliver on 07/29/2008 9:21 pm
Dona Howlett
Like all beautiful and fragile beings…………when they are gone we sit back and speculate and wonder. I loved her as an actress and admired her spunk. I think those who had the power (over actresses) in those days used and abused the women. I always felt, if she had really had just one true friend she would have survived. I like so many others look back with sweet memories of the joy and pleasure she gave us with her beauty and talent. Some times women can be too beautiful…jealousy raises it’s ugly head and tries to destroy what it can’t have or control…………. I still feel a pang when I think of her tragic death. She was loved and hated…………..I was one of those who loved her. Thanks for such a great article Liz.
By Dona Howlett on 07/26/2008 2:35 am
Maggi D
This article was written with great compassion. And if nothing else, she deserves that. Thanks for a sad trip down memory lane.
By Maggi D on 07/26/2008 3:01 am
Bella Mia
To have been in orphanages and foster care, Marilyn did an extraordinary job of controlling and amplifying her life in a brutal, shameless, toxic business. And all those miscarriages which deprived her of being a mother, must have been devastating to her. Her production company showed her business acumen. But she should be a symbol to all young women who allow powerful men to bed them and manipulate them: it does not end well.
By Bella Mia on 07/26/2008 4:16 am
Dab-a- do
Well said Bella Mia. I was very young and saw her for the first time in “The Prince and the Showgirl” with Sir Lawrence. She was luminous. The raw, powerful acting in “The Misfits” was extraordiary. She never got her due in life as an actress but I think we all can say she certainly entertained us. As time has gone by we now realize she was more than good as she perfected her craft. And had more than just a little impact in the world she lived. There are only a few entertainers that leave a mark on our consciousness and she is one.
By Dab-a- do on 07/26/2008 8:42 am