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Gypsy's Luxe List | 09/26/2008 9:00 am

Mary Wells: The Women Shouldn't Have ALL the Fun ...

Only 91 days until Christmas! wOw’s Gypsy introduces the best luxuries for the special men in your life.

I thought they were kidding me when a friend in a man’s clothing store in Barcelona told me to expect to see men’s pajamas worn under jackets at dinners – and, they said, as few men had pajamas good enough to go out in, pajamas would make a good gift. I heard the same thing in Rome but then I read that Jerry Kalinsky, who owns Jeffrey in New York and can be counted on, said he was taking a pass on pajamas as a fashion trend. I find that it is remarkably easy to get a couple of men into a wordfight over wearing pajamas in a restaurant. So I will pass, too. But luxury pajamas to wear out are around.

Click here for photos of special gifts for special men.

Golf lovers I know told me to suggest The Downhill Lie, a wonderful Carl Hiaasen story of his return to golf after 32 years. Zero Restriction makes the best rain gear specifically for golf, I think, and golfers seem to know that. Lobb makes custom golf shoes but that is not a little luxury. That’s $3500 for shoes!

However a lady can give sport shoes as a gift without looking as if she has bigger ideas and Louis Vuitton and Prada make the best-looking men’s sport shoes by far – Nike be damned. I love Nike shoes and almost anything Nike makes, but Nike shoes are just not a Christmas treat! Although Justin Timberlake wears them. But Louis Vuitton makes running shoes look dangerous, the way women love men to look! The right man could wear them with black tie. And Prada sport shoes make men’s feet look like fun.

No matter who I asked about men’s watches I got Patek Philippe for an answer and noticed that Carla Bruni-Sarkozy gave her husband a sleek one — the newest one is superthin — but we aren’t going up into that stratosphere on this Christmas list. Maybe the next one.

Hermès has great men’s belts and this season’s classic Hermès zip shearling jacket looks much more expensive than it is. Burberry suddenly has the clothes-aware male crowd ahhhing over its sleek winter line, especially the coats, but you have to know a man’s sizes very well to dare — although if you do know them and you own the lad, well, you might want to splurge. This line is really smart so be sure that he’s up to it or he will think you are having a mental disorder.       

Best might be a Nintendo Wii with a golf game ready to go. You won’t believe the fun two grown-up golf nuts can have with each other on a Wii or how happy a golf fanatic can be all by himself practicing golf on a Wii.   

Warren Buffett has a new book every man who knows that he himself is smart with money will want to be seen with: The Snowball. That’s an inexpensive but very flattering gift. As is Thomas Friedman’s new Hot, Flat and Crowded: Why We Need a Green Revolution — and How It Can Renew America.

More to come!

More From Gypsy’s 2008 Luxe List

Click here for Part One of Gypsy’s Luxe List: Tasty Temptations for Under the Tree.

Click here for Part Two of Gypsy’s Luxe List: From Stems to Sunglasses to Sparkles.

 

7 Reader Comments (so far…) Sign In or Register to comment

Barbara
This is just a bit sad. Exemplifies the big divide between the haves and have nots. I live in an area hard hit by the economic woes and know too many people with houses in foreclosure, out of work, back living with parents. I know the super wealthy don’t feel the brunt of this but there are a lot of people who will never be in a position to enjoy any kind of luxury like this. It just seems silly to hear about people who think about wearing pajamas under jackets. A totally different and disconnected lifestyle.
By Barbara on 09/26/2008 10:30 am
Elizabeth Bennett
True. In my neck of the woods people are just exchanging cookies and books for Christmas, none of this spend-as-though-the-money-will-never-end kind of thinking. Most people do not have enough of a retirement nest egg saved. So maybe skipping a couple of high spending gift shopping holidays would be a good thing.
By Elizabeth Bennett on 09/26/2008 5:02 pm
Sam Mirando
Indeed, I agree. Overconsumption, mostly on credit, has got us into this mess. The premise of all “What to give X for Christmas” articles is that X has everything already. As I suggested earlier, when X was female, give male X a bunch of microloans on www.kiva.com and let him use them to help the LESS fortunate who probably need shoes for their children (not to mention, themselves) for Christmas. And, if “charity begins at home,” make a gift to (or, better yet, spend part of Christmas Day) at a homeless shelter or soup kitchen. You and your significant other/friend/family member will have a much more joyful celebration, I PROMISE YOU, if you use the money that you would otherwise spend on unnecessary gifts for each other to do GOOD. As my children were growing up, we all realized that they had everything that they needed so, at Hannukah, I told them to choose their favorite charities and I made a donation to each one’s. From the age of ten, or so, they spent a long time trying to decide whether it is better to heal the sick, help the homeless, look for a cure for cancer, educate prisoners, etc. etc. In the end, our favorite charity became the Grameen Foundation, which makes microloans all over the world (www.grameen.com). My granddaughter, now 5, has spent the last two mornings of Dec. 25 taking toys, which she buys with her father on Dec. 24, to children in the local hospital. Wake up, Mary Wells, to the realities of 2008.
By Sam Mirando on 09/27/2008 7:45 pm
Elizabeth Bennett
One of the coolest gifts I got one year from a friend was a donation of a goat to Heifer International to a poor family in my name. Heifer is a very interesting charity as the recipients are required to participate in further charity by donating offspring of the goats to other families. I checked out Grameen and was surprised to see that they are now self sufficient and are no longer accepting donations. Which makes a lot of sense, actually. There is a sentence from Dr. King’s Letter from a Birmingham Jail which often runs through my mind: “We are caught in an inescapable network of mutuality, tied in a single garment of destiny. Whatever affects one directly, affects all indirectly.”
By Elizabeth Bennett on 09/28/2008 6:43 pm
Sam Mirando
Elizabeth Bennett, I am sorry, I made a mistake with the website. You can donate to the Grameen FOUNDATION (which makes microloans etc.) at http://www.grameenfoundation.org/get_involved/donate/
By Sam Mirando on 09/29/2008 7:21 am
Amelie Poulain
Mary, I challenge you to change up this luxury thing a little bit. LOVE LOVE LOVE the chi chi poo poo toys. Yum. I realize you are a business woman and that you are making HUGE dollars by baiting us to click on each of the links for all your favorite designers. Bravo to you. Hope you get even more billions in all sincerity. I do. And I am trying to not even be envious that you likely get massive freebies as a result of having agreements to promote all these fabulous luxury toys. Lucky you! I marvel at your good karma. I live in Vancouver, and if you find the postman is getting mad at you for all the deliveries from all your promos on this site, then I’d be happy to give you my address to take some of the handbags, shoes, and cashmere sweaters off your hands, for example. :) You can likely find my postal code by checking the BG in your files…. OK now all kidding aside, I challenge you to put in every Holiday (politically correct term for Christmas) Card you send this holiday season, a note and the photo of a woman you will get that you sponsored in the name of each of your LUCKY friends who gets a card from you. At www.womenforwomen.org you can sign up and painlessly have a credit card deduction for about 26/mo (USF which is really a bargain these days) you can sponsor traumatized woman in a war-torn region like the Congo to go to school for one year. Its only one year, and she gets the tools to help lift herself out of poverty. It would be a nice addition to the stocking stuffers too, no? Caroline Kennedy is one of the key players in this organization. Now I highly doubt you will respond to this as Liz and Joani are the only ones who seem to respond directly to us plebs. But if I can help one more person by inspiring someone else to do what I did then it was worth sharing my sardonic sense of humour with you :)
By Amelie Poulain on 10/01/2008 4:54 pm
Carrie Stuart
Pajamas - Oh please this is the laziest thing ever. Here in the SCV, supposedly grown women wear them outside the house. This started with the tweens holding sleepovers and going to breakfast the next day in their jammies. Every time I see it, I think LAZY!
By Carrie Stuart on 10/01/2008 7:52 pm