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Mary Wells | 09/12/2008 12:00 am

Mary Wells: Princess Grace, As I Knew Her

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Editor’s Note: November 12 marks the birth date of Princess Grace Kelly, the Princess of Monaco. wowOwow’s Mary Wells shares her personal memories of the princess as she knew her in Monte Carlo.

Grace. I’m sitting here tonight thinking about how disappointed she was. She looked so serene, so smoothly above the disappointments. I didn’t know her in Hollywood. I met her in Monte Carlo when we bought the house, La Fiorentina. Lynn Wyatt and I were the only other blonde Americans in the neighborhood.

Lynn was closer to her than I was – I was working all over the world those days – but she and I understood each other well enough for her to complain. She may have been a royal Princess but she had the problems a lot of women have. Her husband was depressed and although he had a curiously charming personality that would come out and surprise you, he was not a happy man. As most of the world suspects they weren’t made for each other. She had solid support from friends in California – they came and lived around her but she was a responsible woman in Monte Carlo, she understood her job.

She would come as a guest when I had clients at the villa and she knew what they wanted her to be like and she was that dream for them. La Fiorentina in summer had magic in every view and there was a sea wall around the property you could sit on with a full moon to light you. Princess Grace would sit there given a halo by the moon saying mildly suggestive things like, “Let’s skinny dip tonight in the full moon,” and my guests thought there was always the possibility that she was serious. But I knew she was giving me a gift — The Princess Came to Dinner — for my clients.

When we went shopping at the bridge in San Remo for copies of handbags or we just did nothing and talked she had so many ideas of how she would become happy one day, what she would do, where she would live. She kept saying the day would come when she would do what she wanted to do. My husband and I had dinner with her and her family in a local restaurant a week before she died. Stephanie had a concussion, she told us, and couldn’t drive, so she had piled the family into an old car that could go unnoticed up and down the coast. She announced to me in my ear that she was about to have her own time, a life in which she did what made her happy. She was joyous that evening. She was making plans. She was going to work in art seriously. Her time had come. She was very beautiful. She had always been beautiful but there was a new light, a young joy.

When I heard about the accident I had a terrible reaction. I wanted her to have that joy so much. So many people appear glamorous to us but have to work hard to be as lovely as they know we think they are. I think of her so often and pray that wherever she is, she is laughing.  

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gulliver fourmyle
let me crank the ‘way-back-machine’—-is this about Ms. Kelly? no doubt she was among the epitome of class—-time changes some people—-some not—-i’ve changed—-seems you’re going way-back to when my objection to wOw was it seemed ‘the men’s club’ redux—- ‘closed’ groups bug me—-bugged Mozart—-few get the drift of The Magic Flute (no opera comes close), was actually his case for The Masons to allow women—-didn’t work, and he’s dead—- as for homeless? been there w/8 children, sneaking into Cal parks, leaving before the Rangers woke—-rich/broke/rich/broke, many times—- seen both sides—-what-to-hell am i doing here? at 1st i wished to check out what seemed ‘one-more sexist site’—-yet i soon made friends, enemies—-and found it one of the most intriguing of ‘forums’—-an odd thing of men, they’re great at figuring new ways to ‘blow-up’ the place—-but ‘gossip’ really seems a big chunk of lady’s DNA—-it took a bit of thought, observation-over-decades—-i’m slow on some things—-now i see it as a ‘stress-reducing’ ritual—-like men and sports—-both annoyed and mystified me—-until i saw the ‘stress-help’ aspect—-in this world? comes in handy—-cheers—-i’ll pop open a Guiness and toast a great Irish Lady—-‘Here’s to ‘em—-‘
By gulliver fourmyle on 11/15/2008 10:51 pm
Bella Mia
My husband and I are enormous fans. I have noticed that beautiful women become the targets of powerful men who must posses them. Most of these young women do not have the insight to see beneath the surface of most men on the hunt who are very determined to hide their true selves. The men’s goal is acquisition of the prize, and they are willing to make themselves appear to be whatever it is that will attract the gorgeous woman of their dreams. Beautiful women must always be on guard for this dynamic. She was taken from Hollywood too soon. She had many more good movies in her, that never came to fruition which is our tragedy and hers. I was looking at a coffetable book of pictures of Grace, and I said to myself, “This is how I know that God exists - to have create a creature of spectacular beauty.” (Originally I chose an avatar of Grace Kelly, and then I thought it was too hubristic of me.) I found this site that has some of the most remarkable pictures of her I have ever seen start here an scroll down and go through the following pages: http://www.thefashionspot.com/forums/f95/grace-kelly-4010-250.html
By Bella Mia on 09/12/2008 1:23 am
gulliver fourmyle
you forget, the same goes for handsome men—-a two-way street—-‘Hell hath no fury?’ as a ‘hunk-youth’ in the music-biz, or a senior years later—-if i ‘miss’ the ‘Come-Hither’ they ‘present’? well, next time i see ‘em comin’—-i better run—-‘looks’ easily may become a trap, for the naive—-most use them—-Ms. Kelly was one beautiful, class-act, perhaps as naive as i—-unlikely for an actress. at 20 i wed the daughter of a math/economics prof—-i wanted intelligent children—-imagine my feelings, after 9, and 30 years hearing her telling 2 of 5 daughters, ‘i married your father because he was good-looking.’—-boy howdy—-i never guessed—-reduced to a chunk of meat—-two-way-street? yes—-
By gulliver fourmyle on 09/12/2008 6:20 am
N P
She announced to me in my ear that she was about to have her own time, a life in which she did what made her happy … ” Mary, thank you for sharing this beautiful, intimate moment with us. I’m glad to know of her joy on that evening.
By N P on 09/12/2008 1:26 am
No Kill and Drill Palin
Mary, Her cultivated voice was so mesmerizing. Esp loved her in ‘High Society’ which I’ve seen so often could probably recite the entire script. Her dresses in it were such confections, and the ambiance of that film I just loved. She grabbed the eye in every scene. I admired her discipline and determination tremendously. She had so many trials with her rather dysfunctional family; her mother kind of sold her out, her father was a put-down artist in many ways. I remember in your book (may have this wrong) that she was in a beautiful flowing pink chiffon gown and could see the setting from your description and also there was a picture of your gorgeous property. Jackie and Audrey seemed to insist more when they were older to live as they wished. Grace and Babe Paley seemed to accept stullifying roles, however gilded the cage. I do think Rainier appreciated and loved her despite their differences. He seemed truly crushed and bereft at her death. And it’s nice to know she was feeling joyful at the end. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aX1y0Uv9gfY
By No Kill and Drill Palin on 09/12/2008 1:28 am
phyllis Doyle Pepe
Yes, your comment about Jackie and Audrey–––both women of such substance. Audrey working tirelessly with third world children and adoring her own children so much showed such character, and to think both these women succumbed to early deaths from cancer. The Paley babes were another whole bag of beans–––was it Grace or Babe that wrote poetry? Grace Kelly–––elegant, poised, a kittenish sexiness, and absolutely beautiful and she marries a prince. The stuff of fairy tales and Greek dramas.
By phyllis Doyle Pepe on 09/12/2008 9:50 am
No Kill and Drill Palin
Phyllis, Babe Paley was a fashion editor at Vogue and as Truman Capote said she had one flaw, “She was perfect. Other than that she was perfect.” Probably remembering that wrong. She also died at 63, Jackie and Audrey at that same age and Grace at 52. She loved poetry and recited it….I don’t know if she wrote it. Here’s a poetry reading: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=D7sJVkE5SZA&feature=related And an interview where she displays her passable French making me feel better, if Grace Kelly can botch it up…. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QB6WBqD6AeE&feature=related And how she wished to be remembered: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hJaW2DYw62Y&feature=related Jackie and Audrey had such substance, so true. To think of the misery Audrey lived through in occupied Holland…the Nazis tore down bridges in the winter to prevent food deliveries. She saw people pulled out of houses and shot in the street, her uncles were taken away and shot, her father leaving them. She carried messages for the underground in her shoe and was grabbed and put on a line for a bus to a work camp that was guarded by Nazis with machine guns….but when one looked away she ran and hid in a cold wet basement full of rats for a week before she ran home…her mother was so afraid that she was dead too. But in a relative short time aft the war…Roman Holiday, Gigi on Broadway. Incredible. She spent 7 months out of each of the last five years of her life traveling in the worst places for UNICEF….leaving her beloved Swiss home. She and Jackie were more stalwart, they kept themselves completely…and were both a lot more comfortable in their own skins, both moved forward. Jackie at heart was always a 16 year old girl…threw herself into things with such enthusiasm…ie when she was editing Peter Sis books she went to Prague to absorb the energy, look and feel, the sense of place and his illustrations really convey all that. As an artist herself she could offer real insights after going there. She was amazing. The book Bridesmaids by one of Grace Kelly’s six bridesmaids was just really fun. That was another era. Now am reading ‘Wikinomics” sheesh…
By No Kill and Drill Palin on 09/12/2008 11:09 am
Susan B
When I was a little girl, my mother pointed to Grace Kelly as my aspirational model. The strength, intelligence and poise she projected impressed her greatly, I think. Perhaps some of it was due to my features, too. Not nearly as exquisite, but the same face type and blonde hair. I look at old photos of myself at age 7, and I often see a little Grace Kelly — right down to the hairstyle and the full skirted sleeveless dresses with white gloves, ankles crossed demurely. :-) I still admire the class and sophistication of her personal style. Few women dress, speak and comport themselves that well anymore.
By Susan B on 09/12/2008 12:36 pm
No Kill and Drill Palin
Susan, That’s so true. When I look at family photos, my grandmother, mother my sisters and I…everyone looks polished. It was a lovely life…everything is so coarse today. A rush to the bottom, who can be the biggest Hun. “The strength, intelligence and poise she projected” she did. I admire that so my in my mother too. She has been unfailing a lady, not one moment in her life has she been other than who she is. That is an achievement. I cannot say that about myself, and that is sad. We only have one life and it is wonderful when it can be a through course. “Few women dress, speak and comport themselves that well anymore.” And when they do, and when it is authentic—-what a complete delight. I know women like that, thank god.
By No Kill and Drill Palin on 09/12/2008 2:35 pm
Susan B
Ya know, they’re puttin’ me through a crash-course finishin’ school these days. I’m tryin’, praise God, but I still can’t figure out how to do my hair without usin’ a butterfly clip or teasin’ a big bump into my ponytail.
By Susan B on 09/12/2008 3:42 pm
Rainbow Power
Mary…thank you. Grace Kelley was always one of my most favorite actresses in old time movies. I remember in high school, our school put on the musical comedy “High Society”. I got to play Grace’s part, Tracy Lord. I loved her even more after that. I remember the day of her death so well. Another lovely great princess whose life was shorten by an accident. Her soul lives on and her memories remain in my heart.
By Rainbow Power on 09/12/2008 8:01 am
Meg Madison
I had the great good fortune of being introduced to Princess Grace at a reception following a poetry reading she did in Detroit years ago. The room in which the reception was held could only be accessed through a walkway that was under construction and one felt a hard hat would have been in order in some spots. Undaunted, she was social and polite to everyone there, when I can only imagine that she would have wanted to flee to her beautiful hotel room. I will never forget her beautiful porcelain skin. So lovely. And, Gulliver, please feel free to travel on!
By Meg Madison on 09/12/2008 1:18 pm
Bonnie Oliver
I loved her in Mogambo - also Ava Gardner, another beautiful woman and then, of course, Clark Gable. Does anyone remember the “I Love Lucy” episode when both Lucy and Ethel were trying to imitate the slicked-back hairstyle and ‘look’ of Grace Kelly? Wonderfully funny but also showed us what a true beauty Grace Kelly was.
By Bonnie Oliver on 09/12/2008 3:00 pm
Jeannot Kensinger
She was born to be a Princess , it does not mean that she was born to be happy.
By Jeannot Kensinger on 09/12/2008 3:30 pm
Chrome Toe
wow… that’s really heartbreaking. I am so thankful for my authentic life.
By Chrome Toe on 09/12/2008 3:57 pm