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Politics | 09/02/2008 10:40 am

Moms: Can Palin Pull Off Motherhood and Vice Presidency?

By The Staff at wowOwow.com
Sarah Palin holding infant Trig/AP

When John McCain announced Sarah Palin as his running mate, many hailed his choice as brilliant – a young, working hockey mom who wasn’t afraid to take on the Establishment.

But The New York Times reports that some mothers across the country are doubting whether the Alaska governor — who has five children, including an infant with Down syndrome and a pregnant teenage daughter — has enough time to take care of her family and be the country’s vice president.

Plus, some say they are worried that any campaign stumbles might hold consequences for other working mothers.

"There’s nervousness among working moms of both parties that how she does in this race will reflect on the overall ability of working moms," Cindi Leive, the editor of Glamour magazine and a mother of two, told the Times.

Social conservatives, usually staunch advocates for stay-at-home motherhood, are mostly defending her, while some others, including some working mothers, worry that she is taking on too much.

"How is this really going to work?" said Karen Shopoff Rooff, an independent voter, personal trainer and mother of two in Austin, TX. "I don’t care whether she’s the mother or the father; it’s a lot to handle."

But Lori Viars, a mother of two and evangelical Christian from Lebanon, OH, cheered the candidacy as well as the decision of both Palin women to keep their babies. "The whole family is pro-life, and they put that into practice even when it’s not easy," Viars said.

Within minutes of Friday’s announcement that Palin was joining the Republican ticket, administrators of one website, D.C. Urban Moms, said they had received hundreds of postings about Palin and her family stresses, more than on any other political issue this year. Many women, citing their own difficulties with less-demanding jobs, said it would be impossible for Palin to succeed both at motherhood and in the White House.

"You can juggle a BlackBerry and a breast pump in a lot of jobs, but not in the vice presidency," said Christina Henry de Tessan, a mother of two in Portland, OR, who supports Sen. Barack Obama.

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Susan B
Maurine, how do any of us know what their “real” situation is. She’s been politically packaged, just like any other candidate. I say, let the Palins worry about their personal life. I’m worrying about her professional credentials to be VP of the USA.
By Susan B on 09/02/2008 11:52 pm
Maurine H
Absolutely agree with you Susan. Soon enough we’ll get a picture of the real Sarah Palin.
By Maurine H on 09/03/2008 12:39 am
Kathrine Gluvna
Kelly, you are my hero. You said it perfectly. I can’t believe we are even asking this question. We didn’t ask any of the male candidates.
By Kathrine Gluvna on 09/02/2008 5:02 pm
Zera Lee
Hi, Kelly. Last Thursday, Beau Biden, Joe’s son, made it abundantly clear that Sen. Biden was far from an absentee father. He decided to turn down the job and skip the swearing in. He had already been elected at the time of the accident. He was talked into taking the job by some real heavyweights, but did not take the oath in DC. He took his oath in the hospital, at his son’s side. He took the train every day to be there for his kids, then and now. Check out Beau’s speech on YouTube. It was a great speech. Biden is not being called a bad dad because it has been firmly established that he is a very good dad. Sarah Palin, on the other hand, is a total stranger in 49 states. For her, the vetting process has only begun. I am glad you brought up one thing that’s annoyed me about this discussion. You are the first one to mention Palin’s husband. They are treating her like a single mom, and she is not. The whole mommy-track/professional woman debate has been resurrected, but where is Mr. Mom? Now Palin is in trouble with the party for skipping out on an award ceremony aimed at her. She had to finish her acceptance speech so she sent Michelle Bachmann at the last minute to accept in her place. Ready On Day Two.
By Zera Lee on 09/02/2008 9:29 pm
Elizabeth Bennett
Biden was a good dad, came home every night—and his sister moved in with him to pitch in to raise the kids. He was ready to leave the Senate right after getting elected. Mansfield told him to give it a few months and see how it went. So he did. What Biden was not, was the mother of an infant and the mother of a troubled pregnant teen, and so forth. I seriousy do not understand a mother willing to leave her five month old baby for two months to run for veep. It is not the same as being governor, not the same as most other jobs. That her oldest daughter is also pregnant and getting married suggest Palin is not going to be able to have her mind on her job. [And if I were that daughter, I would want mom close by to help plan the wedding.] Palin is a lightweight. That she has only been governor a few years, and her mayor and council membership amounted to 90 days per year and the town was very small, and very few accomplishments to speak of. She was not thoroughly vetted for the job. The FBI admits they were never asked to run a check on her—so even more weird stuff could come out in the future. Sometimes it seems that McCain named her simply because he was charmed and because she was prolife and female. There is no way that she is ready to be vice president. So it is a good thing that we are going to elect Obama overwhelmingly.
By Elizabeth Bennett on 09/02/2008 10:01 pm
Chrome Toe
Man I wish I could write as well as some of you. I’m not sure I even got my point across when I re-read the above.
By Chrome Toe on 09/02/2008 12:09 pm
K O
Hi Kelly, Your point came across loud and clear.
By K O on 09/02/2008 12:11 pm
Leslie W
Yes, Kelly, your point was well made.
By Leslie W on 09/02/2008 2:20 pm
C Hardy
Kelly Kelly…I couldn’t agree with you more…Why is she getting so much flack for doing what the men have always done? B/C she is the Mom? Who cares? My daughters father, my Fiance’, does just as much with her as I do and I can tell you I get flack for that from older ladies I work with…I mean he takes her places and puts her to bed, cooks, cleans, does the laundry, gives her baths…then there are times when I do it all b/c of his work schedule as a cop…it takes both a father and mother to raise a child and i have so many single mother friends that I am just sooo Thankful for what my Fiance’ does with OUR daughter…I didnt get pregnant alone! Too many fathers thing bringing home the bacon is all they have to do…My Dad was one of them…so I didnt like it and went out and found a man not like my Dad at all…broke that cycle. If my daughter finds a man like her Dad, she will be just as lucky as I am… If Palin’s husband is just as good as mine, Great for HER! She found herself a great man and father.
By C Hardy on 09/02/2008 2:43 pm
Kathy Sluiter
Woman have been fighting for their rights much longer than any other minority group. Still today we make $.70 for every $1.00 a male makes. I really feel sorry for that teenage girl. Has anyone wondered what it feels like to be that child? I the media who is attacking this issue needs to keep that in mind when talking about this issue.
By Kathy Sluiter on 09/02/2008 3:51 pm
Diana T
Kathy, Financially, Palin can do okay by doing both. But, what about the poor girls that can’t even find a place to live nor get any help? Too bad she did not give them the same consideration when she had the chance. http://voices.washingtonpost.com/the-trail/2008/09/02/palin_slashed_fund…
By Diana T on 09/02/2008 7:40 pm
Elizabeth Bennett
Diana, thank you for posting that link. Sometimes the contradictions are more interesting than the consistencies.
By Elizabeth Bennett on 09/03/2008 11:09 am
Diana T
The double standards of the right wing are truly amazing and mind-boggling to my way of thinking, Elizabeth. Now, they want to blame the press and hide from them because of all the revelations coming out. Read the editorial in today’s NYTimes.
By Diana T on 09/03/2008 11:35 am
Elizabeth Bennett
Thanks, good editorial. Great debate on The View right now about whether questioning Palin’s mothering responsibilities is sexist.
By Elizabeth Bennett on 09/03/2008 12:14 pm
Chrome Toe
CO - I think the entire debate is not only sexist where women are concerned but sexist where men are concerned. What… are men only valuable in a family in terms of bringing home the bacon? I mean really? Is it somehow noble and okay for a man to pursue a career that takes him away from his family for huge amounts of time as long as it pays well and is respectable? The truth is… there are a lot of choices in this world and a lot of ways to parent kids. And frankly our influence on our children is just that… “influence”. We don’t make all of their choices either. Palin’s daughter was well old enough to decide to use birth control. And whoever the father was is also well old enough to both know about birth control and know where to find it. It just makes me really really angry to see us using this particular piece of information to villify a woman who regardless of whether or not she’d make a good vice president or even a governor is a working mother who has a family she cares about and children she loves. Ooohhh just don’t let me keep going on this my blood pressure rises when I talk about it! LOL
By Chrome Toe on 09/02/2008 4:37 pm