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Daily Deed Reader Inspiration | 12/28/2008 3:10 pm

Mugsy Peabody's Daily Deed Idea: Playing the cards in front of you

Small deeds become large actions when practiced by an entire community of caring women
By Mugsy Peabody
The Daily Deed, the wOw Community Forum for Personal Advocacy, is where readers can share ideas for practical, personal acts of kindness that can not only help individual victims of the economic slump … but also begin a women-led movement that can transform our society into a more human, humane, positive place for all.  As your ideas come in, we’ll pull a several forward into inspirational individual posts such as this one …

Posted by Mugsy Peabody on 12/26/2008 5:08 pm

I bugged one of my neighbors for a few bucks and we went in together to get our homeless guy some food and a room for the night. I paid for the room and bought the food so I wasn’t worried about the money going awry. (I just don’t buy alcohol anymore, for anyone.) That kind of thing is a bandaid, but the homeless guy wasn’t complaining. That’s the kind of stuff I think, playing the cards in front of you, in your neighborhood, your life, your block.

 

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phyllis Doyle Pepe
That’s such a good idea. Did you know this guy? I mean you say “our homeless guy” so I gather he hangs around your vicinity. I’d be interested in knowing what his reaction was? I try and put myself in that situation and I think I would ask you if I could help you in any way to repay your generosity.
By phyllis Doyle Pepe on 12/28/2008 5:18 pm
Mugsy Peabody
His reaction is to tip his hat to me when I go by. And to bless me.
By Mugsy Peabody on 12/28/2008 8:24 pm
Emcye Edwards
May I just acknowledge you, Mugsy - and wOw - for this section. There is a need for readers to have a warm room to stretch out in, too. Love seeing Mugsy’s name on the doorplate.
By Emcye Edwards on 12/28/2008 5:35 pm
Susan B
Emcye, you’re avatar is new, no? Love it.
By Susan B on 12/28/2008 6:24 pm
Brooklyn Gal
Great idea Mugsy!!
By Brooklyn Gal on 12/28/2008 6:12 pm
Mugsy Peabody
Phyllis, this guy stands in the same spot every day selling the homeless newspaper. I often think how few of us work as hard as he does. He always says hello to pretty much everyone, and remembers the “regulars.” Piedmont Avenue is a major commercial strip in Oakland, with many of the best restaurants, so there’s a lot of foot traffic, hence a lot of panhandlers. I always pass out doggie bags when we go out to eat. But I also just watch the situation. Like there was a mother and two kids on a really hot day, sitting on a bus bench, so I bought the kids some Gator Ade and a six pack of water for them. I don’t have much money, but I do have old shoes, clothes that don’t fit, etc. So I just try to pay attention. And thanks to Emcye and Brooklyn as well. I really appreciate our little community here!
By Mugsy Peabody on 12/28/2008 6:20 pm
Susan B
You’re paying attention to the right things, Mugsy. I know that area on Piedmont you’re talking about, and one doesn’t have to look far to find others. There’s a guy at the foot of the escalator leading down to the BART station on Powell St., right next to the cable car turnaround, who always has Street Sheets in his hand and a friendly smile on his face. He’s a hard-worker, too. You’ve given me an idea, you good-hearted woman!
By Susan B on 12/28/2008 6:32 pm
phyllis Doyle Pepe
Remember the time when you and I had our little discussion over Dr. Mark Kline? I guess I was giving him the benefit of the doubt, throwing a few crumbs his way and you finally said, “Well, so you’re a good egg.” After reading the above I’d say you’re the good egg a thousand times over!
By phyllis Doyle Pepe on 12/28/2008 10:30 pm
phyllis Doyle Pepe
The above is for Mugsy.
By phyllis Doyle Pepe on 12/28/2008 10:31 pm
Mugsy Peabody
Of course I remember, Phyllis. You are a good egg.
By Mugsy Peabody on 12/29/2008 3:40 pm
Belinda Joy
Mugsy you are so funny. You say “our homeless guy” like he’s th neighborhood puppy. :-) I think what you did is so wonderful and so thoughtful. It may have been for only one night, but he is going to remember your generosity for the rest of his life!
By Belinda Joy on 12/28/2008 6:57 pm
Sherrie Crews
Mugsy, you’re one of the good people. There are people who say all the right things and do some of the right things but not for the right reasons. They’re the “wanna be seen as good guys”. You’re an authentic good person.
By Sherrie Crews on 12/28/2008 7:44 pm
Mugsy Peabody
Awwww. Funny, you know, I was thinking about pretty much the last thing my mother asked me to do was “for after” to take her clothes to the local Catholic Worker. The apple doesn’t fall far from the tree. I can’t think of any time I’ve ever reached out to someone like that that I wasn’t the one who benefitted. Belinda, that’s a good call. Someone who had been homeless once told me she knew she was going to be okay when people again began calling her by her name. Happy new year, and much love to you guys.
By Mugsy Peabody on 12/28/2008 8:23 pm
Ann Coulter Crazy, Souless, Evil B*tch
Mugsy, That’s so nice of you, and to think of the man having a respite and some food. Feel so sorry for the homeless…and agree that those selling the ‘Street Sheet” are working hard. When first moved to SF was appalled by how many were on the street so started a policy of giving x amt to the first person who asked every day and then said to the others that because there are so many have that policy but hopefully tomorrow I’d encounter them first. Over ten years talked to a lot of the homeless and at least 30% are vets, and many others just circumstances. A woman whose last three paychecks bounced, then the company closed its doors, and she wound up within months living in her car….then got parking tickets she couldn’t afford to pay so it was impounded and she was on the street, etc. At least Gavin Newsom has been very activist and has gotten a lot of people into housing. And in SF there were some homeless ‘adopted’ by the neighborhood, one man started doing odd jobs, people would give him clothes, money and food and encourage him, and eventually he did get into housing. He’d gone to Berkeley and was a nice guy….but after his wife and two kids were killed in an accident he just spiraled down. And now tent cities are sprouting up all over due to the epidemic of foreclosures: http://www.rogerstriffler.com/AIDSRide7/31-Tent%20City.jpg http://www.wsws.org/articles/2008/apr2008/tent-a07.jpg http://frecklescassie.files.wordpress.com/2007/01/tent-city.JPG Wish Obama would start a program of building those tiny studio cottages like they did after the 1906 Earthquake…it got people out of the elements and safe, and created building jobs, and when times got better many of those units wound up as playhouses/storage sheds in people’s backyards, etc. http://www.littlediggs.com/littlediggs/images/asset_medium2.jpg And from the example of the City being nearly destroyed in 06 and grandly rebuilt by 1915 for the World’s Fair with incredible designs proves what can be done with a plan and some leadership. There is so much need today for emergency housing, and also for jobs….I don’t know why Congress can’t put together a program that would solve both problems when they can give $700B to the banks that created much of this mess. If anyone in Northern Calif ever wants to create something like that they can present a plan to the Tides Foundation to become a non-profit under their umbrella and get office space support in the Presidio. http://www.tides.org/ And then can use The Foundation Center [one of largest in US] resources to get grant money easier as the majority of grants go to non-profits and organizations not individuals. http://foundationcenter.org/sanfrancisco/ Three cheers, Mugsy.
Christine Cline
Camel-by-the Sea, I have a slight problem with the second half of your last sentence. There are many, many charities out there taking advantage of ‘accepting donations while they do not give handouts’. What it means for people like me is that we go hungry everyday, in desperate need of clothes, furniture, etc. while the charities are raking in the money. The money is going in; but, it is not coming back out, at least noit to those of us that desperately need it. Not all charites are like this; but, many are, enough that many thousands of us cannot get any help at all because everyone assumes that we must already be being helped, when the truth is that we are not. Don’t get me wrong I am not asking for people to go randomly handing out money to people. I myself wouldn’t know where to start if someone gave me a hundred dollars. Do I by food for this month, do I add to my one pair of jeans, get the car worked on, furniture?, clothes for my granddaughter that I am raising, a new adjustible cane, work on finding a gallery to show my art?, etc. No, if possible I would rather get the item itself or be taken to pick it out. Mostly I would like help getting my career started with any money that may be involved to be handled directly by my helper. I think a lot of people in my shoes would feel the same way I do.
By Christine Cline on 12/30/2008 6:43 pm