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A Friend Stopped By | 07/03/2008 12:30 pm

An Expat's Patriotism, by Susan Train

By Susan Train

Susan Train was the bureau chief in Paris for American Vogue from 1949 until last year. She is a revolutionary dame and a longtime Democrat.

There’s a strange feeling in America that expatriates living and/or working outside the boundaries of the US of A are somehow to be viewed with suspicion and even considered unpatriotic if not actually treasonable. As a longtime expatriate (and yes, I am "still" an American), I freely admit that my point of view on American policies is conditioned by the fact that I live abroad, and can see and judge for myself how those policies are affecting others. If I judge these policies severely it is precisely because I am an American, I care deeply about the future of our country and I want to be proud of America and her actions.

We expatriates are uncounted (estimated  at 4.3 to 7.2 million), we are taxpayers both at home and in our countries of residence, we are  ineligible for Medicare — although we have paid into the system. We have to deal with ridiculously uncoordinated rulings in states across the country in order to vote at all, never mind feeling confident that our votes will be counted. We are each of us an unofficial ambassador to our country of residence, in some small way showing our colors and bringing our American values to the lives we lead abroad, while learning to accept "differences" and respecting another culture in all its complexities. 

We all want to be proud of our country and defend its actions, but the past seven years have made it very, very difficult to do so. I will of course vote for whichever candidate wins the Democratic nomination but my personal preference is for Barack Obama because I think he has more understanding of the world outside the USA and more empathy with differences. He seems to THINK and reflect  before acting, rather than automatically reacting to a situation, which bodes well for dealing with the excruciatingly difficult decisions ahead. I feel sure he will surround himself with the many excellent Democratic political leaders (Biden, Richardson, Dodd leap to mind), and draw on their experience to counteract the inexperience with which he is taxed, so I am not worried.  His judgment so far has proved better than many more experienced heads.

The America of my dreams will once again stand for liberty (a society open to the world) and justice (restore habeus corpus) for all. It will not cower behind walls both mental and physical but will truly be the land of the free and the home of the brave. It will apply its moralizing to itself rather than to others and instead of talking religion it will live it. Talk about daring to dream!

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No Way-No How -No McCain
Dear Ms. Train— I recall the lovely photo of you in a rose garden in Style’s ‘Ageless’ edition. My son is a US-French citizen who was educated in and has lived in Paris half his life. Like you, he is a good Ambassador for the US that has acted so badly for the past 7 years. Thank for the unvarnished truth, I agree completely. Cordialement.
By No Way-No How -No McCain on 07/03/2008 12:35 pm
Maurine H
During the two years I served as a Peace Corps Volunteer in Colombia, I often found myself reaching to defend American foreign policy and continually trying to present a truer picture of my country to Colombians whose vision of America was often distorted in one direction or another. These experiences actually caused me to focus on what it meant to be an American, especially an American living abroad. I came to love Colombia and Colombians- those warm, welcoming people who live in a deeply fractured society where the very wealthy and the very poor outnumbered the middle class. The juxtaposition of American and Colombian values made me ask some hard questions about things I’d always taken for granted - the role of women being one paramount issue. In the end, I think I absorbed some Colombian traits and customs (e.g. living in the present moment, giving “time” less importance and my five senses more) and brought them home with me, but what has never changed is that, as an American woman, I can speak my mind. I treasure that right. And I am particularly happy today that Ingrid Betancourt has been freed and is reunited with her family. Gracias a Dios!
By Maurine H on 07/03/2008 8:16 pm
K O
Hi Maurine, I join you in treasuring the right to speak our mind, and thank you again for your service to our country through the Peace Corps.
By K O on 07/06/2008 1:46 pm
Maggi D
Ms. Train - you do not dream alone. Maybe if more of us held on to the same dream our politicians would react differently.
By Maggi D on 07/04/2008 4:36 am
Sandra Robinson
Dear Susan, You have mirrored my feelings exactly, I too know the feelings of living abroad most of my life and I certainly will vote Democrat and for Obama.
By Sandra Robinson on 07/04/2008 10:41 am
Eve Fulton
As an ex-pat myself I must admit I almost lunge for the New York Times every morning. I was so disappointed when Kerry didn’t make it. And was horrified again when Bush was reelected. (funny how every one you spoke to didn’t vote for him). I just hope those who are working with Barack can make sure he doesn’t do too many flip flops as the Republicans will have a field day. Please don’t let the Democrats shoot themselves in the foot again. The world needs a strong American leader in power. I’m sorry Hillary didn’t get the nod but we have to stand behind Barack now.
By Eve Fulton on 07/06/2008 7:49 pm
Shooz
Eve Fulton, I love your Canadian flag. Spent my grade school and high school years there. It’s interesting to see how Americans behave when they’re tourists; many of them behave badly, arrogantly. I’m not speaking of those who live elsewhere; I’m talking of those who spend a few weeks feeling superior to those they’re visiting.
By Shooz on 07/07/2008 2:25 pm
Dab-a- do
Talk about daring to dream!” Oh, my, but aren’t we all at this critical time in our dear US of A. I was SO for Hillary. Her loss hurt so much that it was a physical pain. Now I am trying to find out all I can about Barack and hope it is good. Unfortunately, he is so young he doesn’t have much of a history for us to examine. I dream and I pray.
By Dab-a- do on 07/08/2008 8:00 pm
Kathleen Haley
I lived in Europe for 7 years and can relate wholeheartedly. I must say I lost some of my patriotism in that time and gained a good amount of cynicism as I saw the effect of my government and my country’s actions on the rest of the world. It would do the US good if moer Americans would live or at least travel abroad to understand the repercussions of our actions and gain insight from distance.
By Kathleen Haley on 07/11/2008 1:43 pm