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Entertainment | 01/13/2009 7:30 am

Singer Phoebe Snow Discusses Living Life After Daughter's Death

By The Staff at wowOwow.com
Phoebe Snow's been through a lot since her career began in the 70s. © Getty

“It’s a tribute to my daughter. It’s a love letter to my daughter.”

So says legendary chanteuse Phoebe Snow of her latest aural offering, "Live." Her daughter, Valerie, died last year at the age of 31, and Snow hasn’t been the same since. And who can blame her? No mother wants to bury her daughter, especially a daughter with whom she lived her entire life. Though their time together may have been short, the two women formed a bond that defies definition. In fact, Snow can only describe their relationship with eight words: “We were madly in love with each other.” Despite her heartbreak and months of anguish, Snow’s determined to find new life in this new album – and a few other projects. Here she tells us how she’s coping, debates the virtues of therapy, and explains why she’ll always respect Miley Cyrus.

wOw: Hi Phoebe!

Phoebe: I made it. I’m a little late. Sorry.

wOw: That’s OK. It’s only four minutes. I draw the line at five. So you’re lucky. Happy New Year.

Phoebe: Yeah. Happy New Year. Happy whatever.

wOw: Yeah, 2009. All that. All right, let’s start this conversation a few New Years ago, when you were a child. I understand that you always had music in your household, but what is the first song or record that you remember clearly?

Phoebe: That’s a great question. Probably Little Richard’s “Tutti Frutti.”

wOw: Yeah?

Phoebe: Swear.

wOw: Did you know that you wanted to be a singer from day one?

Phoebe: To be fair, yes. Well, not a singer necessarily. I just knew I wanted to have something to do with whatever that exciting thing was. But there was another really transitional moment when I was a little older, when I think my father took me to City Center to see “Porgy and Bess.”

wOw: Oh, yes!

Phoebe: And I heard the overture and I had the same feeling of like, “Wow.” And, this is true, I turned to my father – I was probably about five or six years old – and I said, “Dad, I think I know what I want to do when I grow up.” I swear. It’s a true thing.

wOw: Was it the fact that you felt like you had something to say or that you wanted to entertain people? Because, you know, people go into the arts for different reasons.

Phoebe: Whatever that sound was that I was hearing, I wanted to contribute to it. I guess I didn’t even think of it in terms of entertaining or making a statement. So, if I had to pick one of those two things it’d probably be more like saying something, you know?

wOw: Who really influenced you, other than Little Richard?

Phoebe: Well, when I really started to get into it and really started to have a musical instrument, which was a guitar that I practiced every day, I would have to say that the really influential thing would be these great old blues record reissues, like Blind Lemon Jefferson and Big Bill Broonzy. Some of these people, a lot of people now don’t even know about. But Willie Dixon – you’ve certainly heard of Willie Dixon.

wOw: Yep. Fats Domino, maybe?

Phoebe: Yeah, absolutely. And all of that great R & B-like rock stuff that was just — you know, it was kind of a predecessor to what we call rock and roll now. Chuck Berry, you know, all of those …

wOw: Of course! I love Chuck Berry.

Phoebe: We couldn’t be here without Chuck Berry.

26 Reader Comments (so far…) Sign In or Register to comment

Oh! My Favorite
I’m your girl, your little girl, then and now and always. You’re my world, my little world, ceilings, floors and hallways.” —“Little Girl” from her 1990 album “Something Real”. Your loss makes me sad, Phoebe. Your perseverance makes me inspired.
By Oh! My Favorite on 01/14/2009 6:05 am
Oh! My Favorite
I’m corrected. Title is “I’m Your Girl”. Found a live performance where she is obviously singing to Valerie because she changes the lyrics ot “you’re my little girl” : http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jpZtspnHO9Y
By Oh! My Favorite on 01/14/2009 6:30 am
Brooklyn Gal
Phoebe Snow was always a great talent, and now I see a dedicated mom. My heart goes out to her.
By Brooklyn Gal on 01/19/2009 9:36 pm
Annie Katz
Did you take down the story? All I see are comments.
By Annie Katz on 01/20/2009 6:21 pm
Patricia Partin
I see all these comments. But I have yet to see the article. As a mother who lost an 18 child to an unsuspected brain tumor I would have liked to have seen how she coped.
By Patricia Partin on 01/21/2009 8:37 pm
Martha Eddy
I too am so saddened by your loss. I can only hope that the solace that you have been able to provide so many through your ballads and blues and uplifting songs too come right back at you ten thousand fold, from friends, artists, family and your many admirers. Carmella B’han has written the book Mourning has Broken about the loss of her seven year old son in a river accident. Her spiritual process with moving through loss of a child has helped many people find deep meaning in difficult times. Warmly, Martha Eddy
By Martha Eddy on 01/22/2009 10:15 pm
Martha Eddy
I too am so saddened by your loss. I can only hope that the solace that you have been able to provide so many through your ballads and blues and uplifting songs too come right back at you ten thousand fold, from friends, artists, family and your many admirers. Carmella B’han has written the book Mourning has Broken about the loss of her seven year old son in a river accident. Her spiritual process with moving through loss of a child has helped many people find deep meaning in difficult times. Warmly, Martha Eddy
By Martha Eddy on 01/22/2009 10:23 pm
gayle thomas

I’ve grown up listening to Phoebe Snow and her sultry voice that I love so much. I have every CD of her later albums and I will buy her new one. I saw her in concert in Cincinnati, and the thing I loved about her is, she came to sing she wasn’t into all the glamor and sparkles only her songs. I still listen to them today. I’m so sorry for her lost but I know she’ll get stronger. I know this because of her strength in her songs. I’ve written a fiction novel and in that novel i mention her name and a favorite song….I Don’t Want The Night To End. God Bless You PS!I love you!

By G. Thomas 10/05/2009 1:54 PM

By gayle thomas on 10/05/2009 12:57 pm
gayle thomas
Correction, I have all of Phoebe Snow’s earlier alubums which are now CD’s. Just wanted to clear that up. I sured would like to see her in concert again!!!
By gayle thomas on 10/05/2009 2:16 pm
gayle thomas
I have all of Phoebe Snow’s earlier albums (oops! Forgot to ck sp) which are now CD’s. Again I’m sorry for your loss Phoebe. God Bless!
By gayle thomas on 10/05/2009 11:28 pm
Denise Wexler
May God Bless you Phoebe as He holds your daughter in His loving arms.
By Denise Wexler on 10/21/2009 1:01 pm