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Entertainment | 07/02/2008 12:00 am

The Silver Tsunami: Is Gray the New Power Hair Color for Women?

By The Staff at wowOwow.com
Meryl Streep as the quintessential powerbabe Miranda Priestly

in "The Devil Wears Prada" © Getty

This is not a beauty story about glamour. It’s a beauty story about power.

And how somehow, suddenly, women are showing up in boardrooms and on red carpets with the most unexpectedly fierce fashion accessory of all: the Power-Gray head of hair. It’s a watershed moment in the popular culture, a reminder of our aging population and a baby boomer generation that’s not about to stop changing and breaking the rules.

Click here for wowOwow’s photo gallery of ferociously fabulous gray-haired beauties.

Power Gray: It’s not your mother’s soft, silvery tresses. It’s a fashion statement with a purpose. It takes the ultimate symbol of aging — gray hair — and literally stands it on its head, declaring it an asset rather than something to be colored away. It allows the wearer, when walking into the room, to subliminally convey the notion: “You think growing older is a bad thing? Think again.”

Power Gray. It's not your mother's soft, silvery tresses. It's a fashion statement with a purpose.

And its powers also carry weight with the laws of attraction.

Anne Kreamer, whose authoritative book, Going Gray: What I Learned about Beauty, Sex, Work, Motherhood, Authenticity, and Everything Else That Really Matters, says that staying or going gray is a way for women to “rediscover their generation’s youthful embrace of honesty and authenticity and to swim against the tide.” While Kreamer is happily married, for the book she performed a simple market research test on the computer dating site, Match.com. She posted the same profile of herself twice: once with a picture of herself with brown hair, another with an image of herself gray. Unexpectedly, three times as many men responded to the gray-haired profile than they did to the version of Anne with brown hair.

Power-Gray hair is often paired with the Rule-Breaking Cut. Forgetting those dated nostrums against long or short after a certain age, these new gray-haired beauties often intentionally embrace radically younger hair styles. In fact, it is wearing exactly those unexpected-after-40-or-50 cuts that make gray hair less of a symbol of aging and more one of confidence and power. The Power-Gray-haired woman intentionally pairs her natural color with the most contemporary haircut money can buy.

For decades, the silver-maned male has ruled as the icon of American power in the boardroom, in politics, even in the cockpit.

Joining him? The new silver tsunami of confident gray-haired women.

Click here for wowOwow’s photo gallery of ferociously fabulous gray-haired beauties.

 

 

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Brooklyn Gal
When my grays come in, my whole face looks washed out. Unfortuantely it does nothing for me, and I have no intention of looking old before my time. But some women look marvelous in gray, and some do not. So I keep the shade of my brows because that was the color I was born. It brings out the color of my hazel eyes while gray just washes it away.
By Brooklyn Gal on 07/02/2008 10:00 am
No Way-No How -No McCain
Barbara- “I would kill to have Fabrikant’s hair, so shiny, smooth and blonde” —doesn’t she have perfect hair! Sharon Stone said the best hair in Hollywood is Gena Rowlands (love GR)…Geraldine Fabrikant’s is right up there too.
By No Way-No How -No McCain on 07/02/2008 12:32 pm
Diana T
I cannot believe they left out one of the world’s most beautiful women, Carmen Dell Orifice. She had a major Vogue career going back to the 50’s, and I guess if she isn’t 80 now, she soon will be. I have always seen her with the pure white hair, and she is stunning to look at. Go to Google Image if you want to see what I mean. Anyone should look so good at her age now!
By Diana T on 07/02/2008 9:31 am
beth willis
The first thought that came to me after reading this question was a line I heard from some movie: “Just because there is snow on the mountain doesn’t mean there ain’t no fire in the furnace.” I immediately broke into song, “I feel pretty, oh so pretty…” with a melancholy refrain of “It ain’t necessarily so,” humming in the background. If life may not always be a “Cabaret”, selective scenarios along the journey require music….and dance productions if you can ever get the shoppers in the mall to cooperate. Anywho, I do appreciate the “silver fox” look. As my dear hair-challenged husband replies when I bemoan my hair transition, “At least you have some hair.” There you have it. To paraphrase: I cried because I had gray hair until I met a man who had no hair. Everything is relative; in this case the relative is my husband. I never even notice he is bald. Well, except when using that shiney pate to apply my lipstick on a hot summer’s day. I’m joking, always with the joking. Peace and grace
By beth willis on 07/02/2008 9:45 am
phyllis Doyle Pepe
And I knew a man, Beth, that was always joking, always smiling. He was the director of a large center for disturbed kids and was my boss and my dear friend. The kids would always say, “Mr. Helfer, why you always joking? Why you always smiling?” He’d pat their heads and say, “If I wasn’t joking, if I wasn’t smiling, I’d be crying all the time.”
By phyllis Doyle Pepe on 07/02/2008 10:20 am
beth willis
Hmmmmmmm, Phyllis, thank you for sharing that insight, sincerely…sometimes on this site, one isn’t always sure about the sincerity factor. I particularly like this question: If you were charged with being kind, would there be enough evidence to convict. Phyllis, I think they’ve got you on the kindness charge. Peace and grace
By beth willis on 07/02/2008 11:23 am
phyllis Doyle Pepe
Thank you, Beth for responding. It was just that your last words–––”always with the joking”––––brought up such memories of someone else always saying that. Humor is so crucial to maintaining a semblance of sanity. Morty Helfer, the man I was referring to had much of his family wiped out in the Holocaust and spent most of his adult life working with these children whose spirits were broken because of inept, abusive parenting. It is not a job for the faint hearted and you tend to burn out after some years––I lasted only seven. His humor saved him as it does many. Anyway––keep joking, always with your peace and grace.
By phyllis Doyle Pepe on 07/02/2008 5:39 pm
K O
Judith Martin belongs in the pictorial. Great style. Smart, witty and classy.
By K O on 07/02/2008 9:47 am
phyllis Doyle Pepe
Kitty, of course.
By phyllis Doyle Pepe on 07/02/2008 10:24 am
Chris Broersma
I have been gray after coloring for years. It’s wonderful, no major coloring work simply cut, style, and keep it from yellowing! We have well water - nuf said. But I love the look I sure wish I had done it years ago. (I’ve been gray since I was in my early thirties.)
By Chris Broersma on 07/02/2008 10:34 am
Lena B
This hair color gets attention. I want all of my gray, salt and pepper and silver haired sisters to know that we younger women are watching you. You are totally flaunting your new feminine power. I really like it- it’s inspirational. I particularly like it when a sister sees me staring and we share a knowing smile.
By Lena B on 07/02/2008 12:34 pm
Agyness O
Lena, you always say such nice things in a thought provoking way. Makes me want to celebrate my age and get my hair lighter and whiter!!
By Agyness O on 07/02/2008 1:26 pm
Lena B
Strut your stuff Sister agyness!!
By Lena B on 07/02/2008 5:21 pm
Dab-a- do
I can’t speak for the gray haired ladies in the photographs but for 5 years I was gray and had a lot of compliments because it was so healthy and “different” for someone my age. I did not have to color it or do other things that damage hair. Towel dry and a short hair blow on warm to finger comb the style in it. One guy dated me because he was first infatuated with MY hair, lol. Anyway, I felt that in the working world I was making myself appear older than I was becasue at that time younger people just saw the gray and thought “old”. Unfortunately, I colored it blond. Then Meryl did “The Devil Wears Prada”. My granddaughters begged me to let my hair grow back to it’s natural color. They thought it was sooo cool that I had her hair.They even started telling me their favorite colors I wore with the gray hair. Purple won hands down. I’m trying to do it again but the process of letting it grow out naturally is hard. I know from my previous experience of going natural that the hair cut made all the difference. Thanks for the post. For some reason every time I come to this site I read something that I need to read for me. Thanks.
By Dab-a- do on 07/02/2008 1:28 pm
Karen Batchelor
I’m surprised you haven’t mentioned Maggie Crane in any of your articles on the highlights of gray hair at midlife. Maggie is author of the new book “Amazing Grays” where she talks not only about going gray but feeling beautiful at this age”. For more on Maggie and to buy the book, visit http://www.maggiecrane.com . — Karen from Midlife’s A Trip at http://midlifesatrip.com
By Karen Batchelor on 07/02/2008 7:48 pm