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Politics | 07/25/2008 11:00 am

Woman Wins $150,000 in Lawsuit Over Being Dumped by Fiancé

By The Staff at wowOwow.com
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Love ‘em and leave ‘em? Then you better be ready to pay ‘em.

That’s the verdict a jury in Hall County, GA, handed down, giving RoseMary Shell an award of $150,000 after she sued her former fiancé for canceling their wedding.

"I am thrilled to death. This has been the most difficult thing I’ve ever had to do and I think justice has been served," Shell told WSB TV.

Shell sued her ex, Wayne Gibbs, after he broke off their engagement in 2007. Shell argued her fiancé’s promise of marital bliss amounted to a binding contract and that she was not simply a woman scorned. She said she took a $50,000-a-year pay cut to move from Florida to Georgia just to be with Gibbs after he proposed in October 2006, and that she has suffered financial losses since their breakup. She also said she has suffered emotionally. Her lawyer said Gibbs never intended to marry her.

"Financially he destroyed me," Shell said. "People shouldn’t be allowed to do that and hopefully he’ll think twice before he does it to someone else."

During the three-day trial, Gibbs testified that he had taken Shell on trips and paid $30,000 of her debt while they were engaged. He said that in December 2006, when he found out she had even more debt, he left a note in the couple’s bathroom expressing second thoughts about the marriage. He broke off the engagement for good in March 2007.

Gibbs’s attorney, Hammond Law, argued that a verdict in favor of the plaintiff would send the wrong message.

"You would be sending the message that if you have a dispute with somebody and you think they have been a scoundrel, go get a lawyer and hope the Brinks truck backs up to the jury room," Law said during his closing argument to the jury. "If you award one penny, you’re saying, ‘file frivolous lawsuits.’"

Some observers said the fact one can sue another for a breakup was "outrageous."

Read more about: Georgia, lawsuit, Love, Marriage, News, Wedding

15 Reader Comments (so far…) Sign In or Register to comment

Bonnie Oliver
Perhaps if he told her in person he wanted to break up instead of leaving a note in the bathroom, she might have been less angry.
By Bonnie Oliver on 07/25/2008 5:33 pm
Rita T
Good for her!
By Rita T on 07/25/2008 8:02 pm
kermie b
Wait, let me get this straight. He left a note on the bathroom mirror saying he had second thoughts about the marriage because she had debt? He knew she had debt before, because she left a lucrative job to be with him. Would a woman do that to a man? Would a man leave a lucrative job for a woman? Isn’t marriage about sacrifice and your problems being mine and vice versa? I am in a long-term relationship and it has more substance than this supposed marriage. Good for her.
By kermie b on 07/25/2008 9:33 pm
Zera Lee
ki b, I agree with you completely. For richer or poorer can come sooner than later. Especially these days. I found some more details on the case, but along with missing answers were new questions. I want to say “good for her”, but more than $30k in credit card debit, even on a salary of $81k, offends my sense of fiscal responsibility. What happened to the proceeds from her house? No idea. It reminds me of one of my favorite lines from “Mystery Men”: “We’ve got a blind date with Destiny. And it looks like she’s ordered the lobster.” All right, technically it is two lines :-) Not that I’m shedding any tears for him…
By Zera Lee on 07/25/2008 10:32 pm
Zera Lee
Long-distance relationships never seem to work out.
By Zera Lee on 07/25/2008 9:40 pm
Maggi D
I taught my children that they had choices to make in their life. And they were never to blame another person because of choices they made. I have a daughter that just broke off a relationship because the man was verbally abusive. She tried to complain to me but I stopped her and asked her who choose this man, AND who allowed him to talk to her that way? Then I complimented her on being smart enough to get out of the situation. This woman took a gamble and quit her job - not his fault. Who is to say the marriage would have lasted? I agree with the lawyer who said, “frivolous lawsuit”. Games is over - pick up what marbles you have left and go home!
By Maggi D on 07/26/2008 3:28 am
Andy C
I must agree with Maggi — the woman made really bad decisions and then expects someone to pay for them. She’s an adult and certainly should have been making considered decisions. Leaving a job for a $50,000 pay cut is not a considered decision unless her motives too, perhaps, were a little less than pure. Though the guy was a snake and spineless — leaving a note in the bathroom, he already paid for her.
By Andy C on 07/26/2008 11:03 am
Denisse Franco
This is absolutely ridiculous. Who hasn’t suffered from a broken heart? Be a woman and GET OVER IT. Is it really going to come to having to sign a release to have a relationship?
By Denisse Franco on 07/26/2008 3:26 pm
Rho
Normally I would say good for her. However, in this case, since she had debt, and expected him to pay, I don’t know. I’m confused.
By Rho on 07/26/2008 9:09 pm
Vivvy Stewart
Totally against this lawsuit! This is a woman who is old enough to have better life and decision-making skills. SHE made the poor decision to give up her job and move. What about him moving? Did she ask him? SHE made the horrid decisions to get herself in credit card debt to the tune of $42,000. He paid off 30K of it! Did she pay for any vacations? Women have fought for years to get on a more equal basis with men. It just smacks of a slide into yesteryear for her to whine and sue because he didn’t wish to marry. After all, if a broken heart can be healed with $, then I question that person’s commitment in the first place. Just wait til it hits the fan when a man sues a woman over a broken engagement!
By Vivvy Stewart on 07/28/2008 8:59 am
HA BIBI
She sounds like an irresponsible individual comming out of the gate,30,000 in debt and the guy finds out she has even more. I’d call that a liability not an asset to the marriage. I do believe that it does not appear that they talked much about anything, least of all, the most important issues involved in a union. Perhaps, prior to an engagement one might be wise to discuss these sorts of things, Ya think!. Granted, this would not necessarily deter a liar but if it was found out later that the person “Failed to disclose” their debts in full, I would find him of the right mind to disengage himself from the relationship. I do believe in the proper course of communication and unless I’m leaving my lip prints in the manner of a kiss on the bathroom mirror, I am going to have a face to face. If her job was so important to her, then perhaps she would in turn have stated so and the two of them would hopefully have arrived at some sort of compromise. The only thing I think (as he did not handle the dissoulution of the relationship properly himself) would be an reimbursement of any expenditures she incurred as a result of the planning of a wedding,i.e. Wedding dress, ect…
By HA BIBI on 07/28/2008 11:04 am
Bonnie D-Z
She was a fool to relocate before saying “I Do”. He was a fool for paying off her personal debt. He should have considered her irresponsible spending habits well before asking for her hand. That having been said, he didn’t deserve to be taken to the cleaners. I trust that she had no complaints, financially speaking, during happier times. Lessons learned.
By Bonnie D-Z on 07/28/2008 3:13 pm
elaine s
Bonnie D-Z, you are so right that she was a fool to relocate before saying “I do”. I did the same thing some years ago. I eventually married the guy, who was often unemployed or sick or running home to his mother. I lost a lot of money on that “romance”. He had virtually nothing to lose had he moved to be near me, except his mother, which turned out to be paramont. I must have been awfully lonely to be so blind.
By elaine s on 08/01/2008 9:13 am
Bonnie D-Z
Well, elaine s, your eyes are open WIDE now! Onward and upward!
By Bonnie D-Z on 08/01/2008 12:49 pm
todd bremner
Of course the gold digger kept the ring along with her ridiculous settlement! Her goal was not to work for years. Any man who EVER gets engaged or married to a women that makes less/is worth less then he does/is is a FOOL. After the engagement is when all the dirty laundry will come out.
By todd bremner on 08/06/2008 3:48 pm