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Q & A | 02/03/2009 6:00 am

What's Wrong With Bernie Madoff? by Dr. Stanton Samenow

By The Staff at wowOwow.com
Bernie Madoff © AP

The news on the financial crimes of Bernard Madoff gets worse and worse. wOw reached out to the distinguished criminal psychologist, Stanton E. Samenow, author of Inside the Criminal Mind, to see if he could enlighten us on the question he himself posed on his website: "How can a man who is known for his decency and wisdom be so indecent?"

wowOwow: So, what would you label such a man as Bernie Madoff? Is he a Sociopath? Psychopath? Mentally ill? Was he in denial and did he somehow believe his scheme would work forever?

DR. SAMENOW: I have not found these individuals — and I have been evaluating psychologically individuals such as these for more than 30 years — to be mentally ill. Nor are they in denial. It’s very complex. There is a contradiction here in the minds of those who commit these financial crimes. They appear to be like anyone else — kinder, more charming — there is no badge announcing their intentions. They regard themselves as good people at heart. But they can be very insidious in the way they insinuate themselves into people’s lives.

wOw: So they de-compartmentalize?

Dr S: Well, they can do very kind things for people. No matter what harm they inflict, no matter what charitable organization they are cheating, they do not see themselves as bad people. Quite the opposite. They are narcissists … They are able to shut off whatever elements of conscience they have. It would be inaccurate to say they don’t have pangs of conscience, not unlike the Mafia, who engage in religious generosity even as they blow heads off their adversaries.

wOw: But this man betrayed his closest friends, his very family. He preyed upon the people who were closest to him as well as those he didn’t know.

Dr. S: Of course I never met him, never interviewed him, but I’ve evaluated psychologically individuals who are family men, officers of companies and pillars of the community, who have criminal minds. They can inflict devastating injury on those whom they say they love and who love them. These men have tattered, threadbare consciences. There are elements of conscience they can shut off. They are able to do these things by professing the noblest ideals. I’ll make you a bet that Mr. Madoff and others like him all say they’re good people; they by no means regard themselves as evil. I’ve interviewed serial killers who, despite leaving dead bodies in their own view, say they are good people.

wOw: But what about his wife? His closest family? Surely they must have known or sensed something. Were they enablers?

Dr. S: They appear to be enablers, but they are also victims. They are among the chief victims. There may be isolated cases where there is some collusion. They want to believe the best of their husbands. If you have a video tape and you could watch such a person in his daily life, I suspect you would see that he didn’t treat his family and others all that well. It’s my experience that the crimes he has been arrested for represent only the tip of the iceberg.

wOw: You mean he abused his family in some way?

Dr. S: I don’t know the facts here, but often the wives and other members of the family are so ground down, they yield. They make excuses and desperately want to believe their husband/father is a good man. So they appear to be enablers, but actually they just don’t want to believe the worst. By not thinking about the patterns that have unfolded over time, they perpetually live in hope. They are victims.

44 Reader Comments (so far…) Sign In or Register to comment

DeBúrca obj
Right! There are those who never forget where they came from or how they got there.
By DeBúrca obj on 02/03/2009 2:00 pm
Diana T
And, no matter what the guy who wrote this section says, I still think that people like Madoff are sociopaths. Con men. They do not have the emotional mechanisms in place to really give a damn what they do to hurt friends and family. Much less their clients and customers. Someone in one of these postings said they were narcisstic, and I agree with that, too.
By Diana T on 02/03/2009 2:18 pm
DeBúrca obj
Sarah Palin, the woman with the 8 embryos, Madoff and Blagojevich ALL seem to have narcissistic personalities to one degree or another. I am thinking that either there is an epidemic of this in our modern society, or, that it is a common thread among most people who one way or another, become famous. In these cases it is for negative reasons, perhaps in others it works to the person’s advantage in a positive way. I suspect Bill Clinton has this type of personality as well, but for the most part has focussed on doing good, not just self promotion.
By DeBúrca obj on 02/03/2009 4:17 pm
Diana T
Part of it is the world we live in, DeB. For one thing, because there is 24/7 news coming at us, we hear more about these people. And, I think all these years of plenty have created an atmosphere of “me,me,me” that is going to have to be dealt with if we are to progress in a positive way in this nation.
By Diana T on 02/03/2009 4:41 pm
%$#@* !@&*^!!
He exisited in a context of ‘greed is good’ and ‘welcome to the rat-f*ck’. No different that Sandy Weil and Ken Lay and all the other ‘smartest guys is the room’ robber barons. Some get away with it, take some of their stolen loot and build a hospital wing or donate millions to a university and by that calculated largess feel their crimes are vindicated, or were even noble. ‘Let the buyer beware.’ It was the ‘losers’ fault—they meant well. That is the complex attitude. I’ve seen it plenty before in institutions and individuals. And it isn’t like that isn’t the dark side of America. Bush Inc was one giant daylight crime spree. They can exist because so many Americans are naive.
By %$#@* !@&*^!! on 02/03/2009 9:24 am
Patty E
Doesn’t anyone wonder, “why and how” Madoff felt confident enough, to believe that he could get away with this? With all the checks and balances that have been established, in our governmental ‘system’—-the SEC, the DOJ, et al….why did Madoff feel such assurance, especially with his proximity to power, that he would be able to ‘get away with this’? And why did no one seriously delve into his financial papers, when they had the opportunity? prior to the collapse? I wonder if his shennanigans were more ‘status quo’ than not? Do you?
By Patty E on 02/03/2009 9:43 am
%$#@* !@&*^!!
Patty, There was near total deregulation, little oversight, and an unworking SEC, criminal DOJ under Bush Inc. Didn’t you notice? They weren’t just staus quo it was practically mainstreamed. A fish rots from the head.
By %$#@* !@&*^!! on 02/03/2009 9:54 am
Patty E
That was my point, too…..but I purposely phrased it as a question……for two reasons 1. Because it seems as though something as big as this, can only happen with “cooperative” oversight, and 2. So that no one would attack me in a partisan way….I’m not in a mood to defend the obvious….
By Patty E on 02/03/2009 2:33 pm
%$#@* !@&*^!!
Patty, On HuffPo they had a piece about an investigator who repeatedly tried to alert and get the SEC involved—they won’t listen. Just like when Enron was gaming California out of $(B and then Gov Davis tried to get Bush to intervene, neither he nor his ‘regulators’ would. Everything was gamed by Bush Inc. And now this country is FUBAR.
By %$#@* !@&*^!! on 02/04/2009 2:08 am
Diana T
I think people like Madoff like to see how close to the edge they can come without falling off. I think it’s probably a thrill—-like a bungy jump or jumping out of an airplane. How many risks can I take before it all catches up with me and I get killed? And, I think it’s very interesting that years ago I had a therapist tell me that people like this(con men, embezzlers, etc) go into deep depressions, not because of the harm they’ve done to others, but because they got caught. And this was a great time for the Madoffs of the world; SEC played up to him, oversight was lax, and regulations were curtailed. Add to that, he had a small obscure CPA that he paid a huge salary to, and presto! magic!
By Diana T on 02/03/2009 2:23 pm
Lily Rose
I wonder how a doctor who has never interviewed, much less met Madoff can purport to explain his behavior, as I wonder how anyone can dismiss his actions with a curt “a crook is a crook.” Clearly this subject deserves a more relevant discussion if we are truly to understand it, my friends.
By Lily Rose on 02/03/2009 10:47 am
%$#@* !@&*^!!
LR—That was my thought when reading the piece….and much will come out in the trial. The prosecution will paint one picture, and defense another. Although when his own sons have disowned him, relatives are changing their last name, and so many have lost big, coming up with a defense is going to be a real trick. I wouldn’t be surprised if he and his wife ‘opt out’ after stretching it out as long as possible.
By %$#@* !@&*^!! on 02/03/2009 1:01 pm
Patty E
yes….yes….but there are those ‘profilers’ out there, that have seen and heard everything…and after a while, they can connect the dots and see the bigger picture—-the patterns——we, as humans, all do it…….when you see a person dressed in a slinky outfit, walk into a male dominated, convention happy hour, by herself, what goes thru your mind? How do you know?
By Patty E on 02/03/2009 2:41 pm
Paula Kwakenat
Dr. Samenow’s description sounded a lot like GWB to me, as well as Cheney and Rumsfeld - able to “turn off their conscience”. How else would they be able to sleep at night.
By Paula Kwakenat on 02/03/2009 11:03 am
Diana T
Because, Paula, people like that do not have a lot of remorse in what they do. They probably never did in the first place.
By Diana T on 02/03/2009 2:24 pm