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Whoopi Goldberg | 09/08/2008 10:50 am

Whoopi Goldberg Reaches Out to Readers

Whoopi Goldberg

I’ve been reading — and it’s taken me a long time to figure out how to work this doggone computer,  I’m not very good at it — the various comments that have been made on the wOw site especially to things that I’ve said I believe. One of the greatest things I want to tell you is I appreciate everybody’s support. Some things that I read, though, kind of distressed me — like a response to something that I had written by Joanne Selle and Marjorie C., talking really about the black issue — the fact that I brought up race when talking about Sarah Palin’s daughter.

I said I thought if it had been one of Barack Obama’s daughters as opposed to a very nice young white lady it would have been a different response. Well people took to the fact that I made the differentiation by saying a white lady or a white girl and that made the discussion about race. Let me be really clear: You cannot tell me in this country — when you put a white girl next to a black girl and they’re both pregnant — that people are not going to say, “Well, she’s going to end up on welfare.” Or people are going to make those kinds of remarks that we’ve heard made, by the way, over the last 10 to 15 years; at least I have. And maybe it’s because my child got pregnant very early on that I have a distinctive feel about this. My daughter was talked about very differently than other people at the time, and maybe it’s because she was the child of a famous person. I don’t know. But to say that doesn’t come into play is ridiculous. To say that it is using the race card seems very strange to me. It’s an observation about a truism in the United States. They would have been treated differently. Would they have treated Chelsea Clinton the same way they’re treating Sarah Palin’s daughter? I don’t know. It hadn’t occurred to me until this moment that maybe they would have said the same thing about Chelsea Clinton, that she’s young and we have to stand beside her and it’s nobody’s business. Maybe they would have said that. I don’t think so, really, in my heart of hearts, but maybe they would have.

We are always going to disagree about certain things because that’s the nature of human beings. We don’t all think alike, we don’t all talk alike ...

Maybe you have to take a look, and my using a black and white description was not valid. I’ll take that. But I do take offense to Joanne and Marjorie talking about how black people want everything given to them, and how people of color are bitching about the fact that they didn’t get enough from Katrina and how when it happened in Iowa nobody like Oprah or anyone else did concerts for them. I do want to point out to you that I find it interesting you did not refer to the fires in California. Remember the fires in California? Where suddenly the government swooped right in there with money for different communities? Or other natural disasters that have happened — like Florida. You didn’t mention those where the government swooped in. I don’t think you’re accurate, Joanne, in saying that no one helped in Iowa. I don’t think that’s true at all. As a matter of fact, I know it’s not true. 

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Bonita Caracciolo
Ms Suzanne, You are saying all the things I am thinking. How much more dumbed down can this society get? I am shocked and dismayed (but, sadly, not surprised) that so many people, especially women (if you believe today’s polls) have fallen lemming-like behind McCain/Palin. Those of us who tend to deride Governor Palin are accused of jumping the gun before we know much, really, about the Vice Presidential contender…but how in the world do her instant-supporters know more than we do? Three things: pro-life, faith-based, hockey mom. Now those are some real solid reasons for backing an unknown. Terrifying. Thank you for having the guts to put into words what I suspect many of us want to say but are stifled by the disease called “political correctness”. I live in the South where NO one EVER says anything derisive about anyone without starting out with…”Now, I love so and so and his Mama and my Mama were friends for years BUT he’s an _____________fill in the blank”. Softening criticism by such tactics doesn’t alter the fact that there’s animosity. Tell it like it is.
By Bonita Caracciolo on 09/09/2008 6:32 am
Dab-a- do
Bonita, bless your heart as we say here in the south. I understand what you are saying about being stifled by the disease called “political correctness” as I live here also. I have been reading Suzanne’s posts and marveling at her abilities. What would we at wOw do without her? I’m getting e-mails all the time from people I know who must assume that I am an Obama basher. I would have thought that I had lived my life in honesty and people would have known that I can not stand the religious right trying to tell all of us how to live. Obviously I have been too polite. Well no more. I am going to be me and send those people some McCain bashing e-mails.
By Dab-a- do on 09/09/2008 1:55 pm
Bonita Caracciolo
Miss Dabney, you rock! Don’t be intimidated into silence. Don’t be ridiculed into simply observing. Participate. Speak your mind. You strike me as an intelligent and thoughtful woman. It’s not easy living in a state that glows in the dark, and it certainly isn’t easy living in the south where women have been quieted out of fear of giving their families a “bad name”. “Just make the sweet tea and finger sandwiches and turn on the fan, it’s gettin’ hot in here!” :) I love people like you and I I’m lucky you called my name and shared your thoughts. Keep the faith!
By Bonita Caracciolo on 09/09/2008 7:03 pm
Dutch 163
suzanne I could not have said it better! It IS SCARY..and her mistake today about Freddie Mac and Fannoe May is only the beginning of the nightmare if they get elected
By Dutch 163 on 09/08/2008 4:22 pm
Dutch 163
Maurine, very well said….I just heard she finally spoke and made her first faux pas..not understanding the crisis of Fannie Mae and Freddie Mac…thinking it WAS costing the taxpayer..no NOW it will cost the taxpayer…and how did we get there? Thank McCain’s former economic advisor Gramm and his deregulation…. and..she had the name “Sarah Barracuda ” from HS and seems to revel in it
By Dutch 163 on 09/08/2008 1:04 pm
Brooklyn Gal
Mo, That’s because it’s “Party First” not “Country First”. When Rove calls, they jump.
By Brooklyn Gal on 09/08/2008 4:17 pm
Mugsy Peabody
What Mo said.
By Mugsy Peabody on 09/09/2008 4:26 am
Pamela Detlor
I grew up in a very white town in Prince Edward Island, Canada. There were no black families when I was a kid. This is an Island on the Atlantic Ocean. It was very Scottish, English, Irish, and French until the 80’s when Canada opened it’s doors to Vietnamese refugees. These days there are many different ethnicities - back in the 70’s - 80’s it was a different world. People will discriminate. This is a sad fact. In my white town the lines were between poverty and wealth. When girls “from the wrong side of the tracks” got pregnant they were “trash” and “sluts.” However, when a girl from a “good” (wealth and position in the community) family got pregnant she was just a “poor girl who had been taken advantage of by a boy.” It infuriated me! Though I never got pregnant I was constantly called, “Welfare Trash.” Name calling solves nothing and takes the validity away from legitimate arguments. I have NO doubt that if Obama had a pregnant daughter there would be lots of comments about, “baby momma drama.” There are lines where ALL North Americans seem to think it is just fine to stereotype. The bottom line is: the same act makes a baby. White girl or black girl - SAME. Wealthy educated family - Poor uneducated family: it’s the SAME DAMN THING! I believe this is a WORLD election. Invisible borders don’t change the fact that economies are suffering the world over, and soldiers are dying from everywhere. Sarah Palin is a dangerous, inexperienced woman. Her pension for gun toting and “This is Gods war” scare the crap out of me. The fact that she could be sitting in the #2 chair at the Whitehouse is enough to stop my heart. I am sitting here in Canada praying that she and McCain don’t take office. There is a separation of Church and State for a reason. I think Palin is a far cry from what “Barbie” represents. I think she should be feared and not mocked.
By Pamela Detlor on 09/08/2008 10:41 am
Chris Broersma
Right on Pamela! You have stated exactly how I feel concerning her lack of experience. Palin’s crowd pleasing “cowboy” image has the feel of GWB who already has ruined our image around the world - even with our allies. I pray McCain and Palin don’t get a chance to continue that legacy…or make it even worse.
By Chris Broersma on 09/08/2008 11:31 am
BA Scherrman
Whoopi: Thanks for the straight talk…..I am from Iowa….we did get and are getting help from FEMA….It is taking time,,,,and there are frustrations,,,,and delays,,,,but they are here…along with private organizations,,,churches,,,communities,,,,and neighbors… I hope we are not complaining too much… You are right about the white/black issue….I am working in my way to change it. But,,,bottom line,,,Sarah Palin may be talking for the common woman,,,but she is not talking for me…..
By BA Scherrman on 09/08/2008 10:46 am
Sharon Belko
Maurine - You absolutely hit the “nail” on the head with your fantasy remarks from Ms. Palin! And every one of those facts is why she scares me to death - and I really do not care what she knows or doesn’t know - having her one heartbeat from the Presidency is terrifying!!! Having John McCain’s finger near the “button” is scary enough but with the two of them close to the last eight years and not giving us concrete solutions to problems - I truly shudder for this country if they succeed. And Whoopi - I totally agree with your post - about “Barbie” and “African-Americans”.You are one of the brightest and best when it comes to being vocal about the social issues facing us - and I would vote for you in any office you were running for!!
By Sharon Belko on 09/08/2008 10:47 am
Lisa Jays
Whoopi, I think what most posters would like is to hear YOU express your views on The View, the same way you are expressing them on wowOwow. It almost seems as if you can’t be bothered to share how you really feel and that takes away from both yourself and the viewing audience. With regards to your comments about Sarah Palin’s daughter and how her pregnancy is being covered as opposed to how it would be covered if it was one of Baracks daughters - as a white ex-South African, I could not agree with you more. Racism is unfortunately alive and well in the good ole’ US of A.
By Lisa Jays on 09/08/2008 10:56 am
Bonita Caracciolo
Miss Lisa, I think if Whoopi expressed her deepest opinions on The View…she’d be lookin’ for work! :) Remember, it’s television and it’s network television, not cable. Although we are constantly reminded of the “liberal press” and the “liberal media”, most of the congolmerates are owned by, you guessed it, hardcore conservatives. Bloomberg may be an exception, but I could be wrong about that.
By Bonita Caracciolo on 09/09/2008 7:09 pm
C Hardy
I would have to agree with everything Whoopi said b/c one of my best friends is white yet born in Africa, so that makes her an African American and its funny the looks she gets from black people when she tells them that…Some really dont get it…I do believe that our society needs to change but its been that way for years and years and years and it never will. I have come in contact with just as many black people who hate white people as I have with white people who hate black people. When I dated a black man I was corned in a public bathroom by two black women who were 3 times bigger than me and my boyfriend had to come into the bathroom and get me…I love to see inter racial couples, whether it is black/white or white/asian, asian/black, whatever…I think its beautiful to see cultures mix, isnt that what America is for? U know in writing this response I am listening to Big N Rich sing “lets take a ride on the Love Train”…it is about what we are talking about on how to make our world right. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mXA8_93FdKk Let’s stop and think about that…If we just treated others as we wanted to be treated I think that would be great…b/c then it would make up stop & think before we act or speak and a lot of feelings would be spared. I have a friend, the same “african american” friend who never taught her son about color of someone’s skin but when he started school he came home one day very upset b/c in school they taught about color of skin and he was upset that one of his best friends had chocolate skin and wasnt the same as him having white skin…My friend had to sit her 6 yr old down to explain there is no difference and just b/c skin color is different, it doesnt make the person inside different…Its hard to explain that to a 6 yr old. The race card however goes both ways…I have been in situations where a black person will play the race card to their benefit… And also to Whoopi’s comment about when we see a black girl pregnant we think welfare…that is not all of us. My cousin had her first child at 15 and her 2nd at 16 & her 3rd at 18 and her 4th at 20…she was on welfare but used the system correctly. It put her through school so she was able to come off of it when she found a job. There are women/men out there that use our welfar system wrongly, white and black. It does pain me that I have to pay for them to use the system wrongly but it also pains me to see them, being women, having more and more babies for more money each month… I worked in a Pharmacy & this lady came in to pick up her son’s prescription, she was dressed to the nine but she had welfare insurance (not sure the proper name of it) so her son’s rx was only $1…she pulled out a hand ful of money and I mean 100 dollar bills and gave me a $100 so I had to give her back $99….I was a little shocked but all I could just shake my head…in the parking lot she got into a BMW that costs over $100K…………. In the grocery store one day the guy in front of me had 3 kids and they were all dressed nice, nothing too fancy, he pulled out food stamps, nothing wrong with that, but then goes outside and gets into a brand new, 30 day tags, Yukon Denial? Again, makes me wonder? The apartment complex I live in is across the street from a complex where mostly section 8 and welfare men/women live…they all drive nice cars and i mean lexus, bmw, yet they are always outside…no matter what time of the day, they are always out on the street just sitting there…My Fiance’ is a cop so he knows most of them and their back grounds and most are dealing drugs on welfare…That is what I have an issue with…I am leaving the color of their skin out b/c they are all white, black, and hispanic… TO me its wrong to use the system wrongly b/c all it does is hurt the one’s who really need it.
By C Hardy on 09/08/2008 10:58 am
Andromeda Jakes
CO And your point is what?
By Andromeda Jakes on 09/08/2008 11:26 am