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Whoopi Goldberg | 09/08/2008 10:50 am

Whoopi Goldberg Reaches Out to Readers

Whoopi Goldberg

I’ve been reading — and it’s taken me a long time to figure out how to work this doggone computer,  I’m not very good at it — the various comments that have been made on the wOw site especially to things that I’ve said I believe. One of the greatest things I want to tell you is I appreciate everybody’s support. Some things that I read, though, kind of distressed me — like a response to something that I had written by Joanne Selle and Marjorie C., talking really about the black issue — the fact that I brought up race when talking about Sarah Palin’s daughter.

I said I thought if it had been one of Barack Obama’s daughters as opposed to a very nice young white lady it would have been a different response. Well people took to the fact that I made the differentiation by saying a white lady or a white girl and that made the discussion about race. Let me be really clear: You cannot tell me in this country — when you put a white girl next to a black girl and they’re both pregnant — that people are not going to say, “Well, she’s going to end up on welfare.” Or people are going to make those kinds of remarks that we’ve heard made, by the way, over the last 10 to 15 years; at least I have. And maybe it’s because my child got pregnant very early on that I have a distinctive feel about this. My daughter was talked about very differently than other people at the time, and maybe it’s because she was the child of a famous person. I don’t know. But to say that doesn’t come into play is ridiculous. To say that it is using the race card seems very strange to me. It’s an observation about a truism in the United States. They would have been treated differently. Would they have treated Chelsea Clinton the same way they’re treating Sarah Palin’s daughter? I don’t know. It hadn’t occurred to me until this moment that maybe they would have said the same thing about Chelsea Clinton, that she’s young and we have to stand beside her and it’s nobody’s business. Maybe they would have said that. I don’t think so, really, in my heart of hearts, but maybe they would have.

We are always going to disagree about certain things because that’s the nature of human beings. We don’t all think alike, we don’t all talk alike ...

Maybe you have to take a look, and my using a black and white description was not valid. I’ll take that. But I do take offense to Joanne and Marjorie talking about how black people want everything given to them, and how people of color are bitching about the fact that they didn’t get enough from Katrina and how when it happened in Iowa nobody like Oprah or anyone else did concerts for them. I do want to point out to you that I find it interesting you did not refer to the fires in California. Remember the fires in California? Where suddenly the government swooped right in there with money for different communities? Or other natural disasters that have happened — like Florida. You didn’t mention those where the government swooped in. I don’t think you’re accurate, Joanne, in saying that no one helped in Iowa. I don’t think that’s true at all. As a matter of fact, I know it’s not true. 

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Linda LL
Uh-Oh, C.O., you just pushed one of my buttons. I used to work for the welfare department here in Texas a long time ago. over and over i would hear from colleagues (some of them who thought they were the FBI) “did you see the car that person is driving? whey do the need foodstamps?” it is some kind of knee jerk reaction to many people that everyone who takes advantage of financial aid from the government is trying to “get over” or get something they don’t deserve. The most outragous accusations being that women have babies to get more welfare. Have you ever tried to live on welfare? Trust me, there is NO PROFIT in having another baby. Another thing I learned from working with the welfare department is that most of the people who come in for their foodstamps or whatever would rather not be doing it but really NEED it. Of course there are those who take advantage of the system. But I think there are more wealthy people who take advantage of the system than poor, because the wealthy pay their lawyers to tell them how to do it. Also as an employee of the state i was astounded at the unnecessary bureaucracy and the small amount of work that was done for good pay. I know because i goofed off as much as the next person. SO much money is put into making sure people are not taking advantage of the foodstamp or welfare programs that if they took all that money and just handed it out to people who wanted it i think our government would save a lot of cash. the same people would show up for a handout. Some deserving some not. And you would not be able to tell by the car they drove or the clothes they wore. Or take that money saved on bureaucracy and spend it on child protective services….now THAT is where quality employees are needed and they do need to be paid more. I’m just tired of hearing middle class and upper middle class people complain about helping those in poverty. Poverty is an issue that needs to be addressed in new and innovative ways. This country seems to be doing nothing to actually give the underprivilidged a chance to get out of their circumstances….and worrying that someone who dresses well and uses foodstamps has nothing to do with anything important. okay, i’m finished with my rant. As for Palin, what is most frightening is that I just heard that the Republicans are gaining in the polls. For heavens sake we GOTTA get them out of there, they are endangering our country in more ways than i care to list at this time.
By Linda LL on 09/08/2008 1:23 pm
C Hardy
Linda I agree with what you said and I hope what I typed isnt being taken the wrong way b/c I had someone ask me what my point was…I didnt think we always had to come to a point but oh well…didnt respond to that one… I know there are people out there who need the food stamps and trust me if I didnt make the money I did I would be on food stamps. I dont make a lot, I make in the middle 30’s a year and trust me it is tight as all get out, and food stamps would help big time w/ a growing 2 year old but I make too much…OH well…I am a single Mom, for now… It does amaze me however that we have women/men that sit at home on welfare who drive $50K cars and have home entertainment tv’s that cost over $3k…how is that possible, yet they are on welfare and food stamps…well I know how its possible but… I wish more people would use the system like it was intended to do and its really sad we have those that want to take advantage of it. Just the other night in walmart there was a young white couple who both couldnt be more than 20 with a baby who was about 2 months old…they had food stamps and was paying with dollars and change w/ what they were getting that wasnt covered…I wanted so bad to help them out but I was already scarping to buy my groceries…I wanted to ask them for help w/ their food stamps but knew that couldnt happen. My best friend used WIC when she had her first son…There is nothing wrong w/ being on welfare…I looked into it myself. Ok I am out of breath…Linda I apologize if you took what I said wrong…I am not negative or against our welfare system. I just wish it worked better and had people working for it that truly believed in the system to get the corrupt out…
By C Hardy on 09/08/2008 2:47 pm
Linda LL
That is one of my points.. it doesn’t work properly..more money goes to the administrators than the recipients. And if people who don’t deserve it get…they’re gonna do it no matter what we do. That’s why i think we should just save the money and give it to whoever wants it…and by the way i AM on foodstamps right now as i’m unemployed feeding a teenager and going to school at night …. i ran the gauntlet required to get the help and believe me, people in need are not treated well at all in this system.
By Linda LL on 09/08/2008 3:35 pm
No Kill and Drill Palin
Linda LL- “People in need are not treated well at all in this system.” You’re so right. The scammers are in the minority. Thanks for your insider/informed posts.
By No Kill and Drill Palin on 09/08/2008 7:31 pm
Linda Myers
Whoopie, From my own experience even though race seems to be viewed as the connecting factor, economics in people’s eyes make the judgement. When I was 22, I was pregnant with my third child, divoriced and left in a tiny hamlet of a town where if I could work at the time, the jobs did not exist. The ex had walked and taken all financial assistance along with him, and I was left to turn to public assistance when I finally was able to go to a doctor at 7 months into the pregnancy. The doctor looked at me and asked me if I was Catholic. I said no. He told me that since I was having my third child, on public assistance, I should have my tubes tied. Pointing out that in his mind, my future would not improve, so I had my tubes tied at 22, believing doctors knew best. I went on to do just fine in the years afterwards, but his judgments on myself at that time still come back to think about. If I had not been on welfare or Catholic, would he have still recommended the same? I treasure my son that I had and his life has been nothing but a blessing in my life. I was white and not black, but economics judged my capabilites in life. At 22, I really mentally was not ready to make that life decision or be pigeon holed into it. When I was 12 we moved into an urban area after living all my life in a secluded little town. I never to that point had contact with black people, and really had no opinion of what I did not know. At 13, I met my best friend during my school years, a black girl named Portia. We lost touch after high school, until one night I was sitting in a county ER, and they wheeled a stretcher in with a young black woman that had overdosed on drugs, I heard a nurse make a comment about another black junkie coming through the door that probably had been on drugs for years. I looked over at who they were bringing in and seen Portia on the stretcher or gurney. Realizing how wrong that nurse was, I told her she did not have a clue about the girl. I was told to sit down and shut up, if I wanted my baby to be seen that night. Sarah Palin’s daughter will not feel the judgement that many of us have felt in her situation, it can be seen on the surface as race, but what really propels many peoples minds is the economics, feeling that the birth of a baby in that time and space, is going to be supported by welfare or independently and judging for a lifetime done in a heartbeat according to seeing a lack of a future for a child rather than seeing the potential of that child and what both the mother and child will be in future years. We don’t know, but yet we judge. When this world can move beyond the judgement into seeing the potential, a better world can exist. Love and light, Linda
By Linda Myers on 09/08/2008 10:58 am
Linda Mason
Whoopi—You continue to speak your mind on the issue of race, or any other! We need an ongoing, intelligent discourse on race in this country, and we cannot get it if some readers are successful in silencing others by accusing them of “playing the race card,” or being overly sensitive on this subject! In the same way, certain men claim that no woman can objectively discuss sex discrimination because she’s a woman! What such people really want is to silence the speaker’s opinion. By the way, I am not black/African American, so I may be slow on the uptake, but something really disturbed me about the way the GOP used the word “elite” and “elitism” at last week’s convention. Now the GOP has used phrases like “the East Coast elite” and “the liberal elite” to bait its base for years, but there was something new about the way it used the word this year, and I think I know what it is. When they use it in connection for Obama, it seems as though they are using it as a code word for “uppity?” This would be appalling, and unfortunately, it seems right out of the Rove play-book. The GOP speakers sent out many subliminal messages, such as Rudy G’s comments about the Dem’s failure to use the term “Islamic terrorists,” and suggestion that they were afraid to offend Obama! It is a very sly, subtle, and cowardly form of hate-mongering, and Americans should not tolerate it.
By Linda Mason on 09/08/2008 11:00 am
Oh! My Favorite
It IS appalling, Ms. Mason, and part of the N***er-Negro-Black-Afro American-African American experience throughout our history in America. It’s the conditioning of the citizens by our country’s leaders over the course of time since slavery began. And Black people spew it as often as White people do, so don’t be fooled in that regard. I say this as a bi-racial person who has been hit from both sides of the racial divide.
By Oh! My Favorite on 09/08/2008 11:15 am
phyllis Doyle Pepe
Gee, I thought Obama gave a superlative speech on race.
By phyllis Doyle Pepe on 09/08/2008 1:37 pm
Dona Howlett
Linda, I remember what racist used to say after “uppity” Of course it’s a suble form of racist………. I liked what Whoopie said about the Fires here in California…………….I live in California (a Native) I was not affected by the fires but a lot of people were and I’m glad they were. Where were these same people (Gov.) during Katrina………….
By Dona Howlett on 09/09/2008 5:32 am
Bonita Caracciolo
Linda, I feel you’ve hit a nail on the head here. I had been thinking the same thing vis a vis the “uppity” deal. How does a non-black person address this? I’ll offer my opinion: Senator Obama worked hard to get to where he is today. Lord knows what struggles he may have encountered along the way. The reality is, and thinking people better get a handle on this, Barack Obama isn’t JayBama a rap singer from Chicago, he is an educated American who has studied and taught Constitutional Law among other things important to our nation as a whole. You know, we can’t have it both ways! While there are many, many of us non-blacks who support the elevation of blacks in all quarters, there are those who begrudge it. When I see a successful black person, my heart soars because this person is a leader whether they are a restaurant worker or a senator. As a kid who watched the race riots on TV in the 60s and someone who lives in a state with an incredible racist past, I also understand that many blacks struggle to avoid saying things like “well, he’s just trying to be white”. What the hell does that mean? We are all guilty of supporting this mentality whether black or white. As human beings, our charge is to rise above all of this and understand that racism exists. It is a two-way street. If we cannot work this stuff out amongst ourselves, our leaders will grab the hatred by the horns and run with it just as you pointed out in your comment. Fight racism! Fight bigotry! Refuse to succumb to the temptation to criticize based on race, ethnicity, religion, etc. The news is filled with stories of young, black men shooting and killing each other. This kind of thing is what distorts unknowing peoples’ views of blacks as a group. Are we really willing to believe that it’s the categorical imperative and it’s telling us that “all blacks shoot and kill”? Is this activity in this group actually the result of something else like…lack of parental guidance? Poverty? Joblessness? Yes, it’s sometimes good to take things at face value, however, in these cases I feel we are called upon to dig deeper. I implore all good people to refuse to buy into stereotypes. And I beg them not to be fooled again.
By Bonita Caracciolo on 09/10/2008 6:15 am
JJ GB
Whoopi, I sooo agree with you on this issue. I cringe when I hear anyone use those terms and discriptions of other races and know whatever I say is not going to change their minds. AARP has removed their interactive message boards because of the hateful and negative comments there. I think of all of us like the colors of Autumn leaves, we may be painted with a different paint brush but we’re all the same underneath the different colors, wanting the same blessings and freedoms in life as anyone else. A wise friend once told me to look for the similarities, not the differences in one another. Thank you for sharing your thoughts with us.
By JJ GB on 09/08/2008 11:00 am
Anna Lacosta
I know a lot of folks who don’t like my friend Elizabeth [Hasselbeck] because they don’t agree with her politics. ” WRONG. Elisabeth is not liked because she refuses to listen to viewpoints that are different from her own, preferring to out talk and act condescending towards others. You’ve experienced this yourself, Whoopi. On The View, I’ve seen you give up in the middle of expressing your viewpoint or ask Elisabeth to let you finish because she interrupts you.
By Anna Lacosta on 09/08/2008 11:06 am
Tee Zee
Thanks Anna, I thought I was the only one turned off. It appears to me whenever you disagree with Elizabeth she gets louder and she speaks over anyone in a juvenile attempt to drown them out. Her behavior tells me more than any words she speaks.
By Tee Zee on 09/08/2008 11:27 am
Annette Murphy
Anna, I agree with you…Elizabeth does refuse to listen to anyone who does not have the same opinion as hers…and when she sees that she is losing the debate…she starts to cry…example the debate with Whoopi on the “N” word…. Whoopie…a good book for Elizabeth is read is an African-American Odyssey…It is a history textbook by Darlene Clark Hine…it will give her a real perspective of the journey of the Black person in this country…and maybe just maybe she will begin to understand …
By Annette Murphy on 09/08/2008 11:29 am
Sharon Belko
AMEN Anna!! Although I have been a huge fan of The VIEW in the past - Elizabeth’s constant vocal outbursts and radical thoughts turn me completely off. I can stand it for about 10 min and then have to watch grass grow! I grant that she is young but she needs to realize that there are other opinons out there and learn a little consideration!
By Sharon Belko on 09/08/2008 12:10 pm