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Relationships | 08/19/2008 9:30 am

What Biological Clock?! Women Waiting Longer to Have Fewer Kids (If Any)

By The Staff at wowOwow.com
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More women than ever are choosing to ignore their "biological clocks."

A Census Bureau report released this week shows that women are waiting longer or choosing not to have children at all these days. The "Fertility of American Women" report, based on 2006 numbers, shows that 20 percent of women 40 to 44 were childless in 2006, twice as high as the level 30 years earlier.

And those moms in that age bracket have an average of 1.9 children each, more than one child fewer than women of the same age in 1976; the median number of children in 1976 was 3.1.

"A lot of women are not having any children," Jane Lawler Dye, a Census Bureau researcher who did the report, told The New York Times. "It used to be sort of expected that there was a phase of life where you had children, and a lot of women aren’t doing that now."

The study also found that in 2006:

• 57% of women with a recent birth were in the labor force.

• Of the 4.2 million women who had a birth in the previous 12 months, 36% were separated, widowed, divorced or never married at the time of the survey. Of these 1.5 million unmarried moms, 190,000 were living with an unmarried partner.

• Second-generation Hispanic women tend to have lower fertility rates than either foreign-born Hispanics or those who were third generation.

• The highest levels of current fertility (67 births in the year prior to the survey per 1,000 women) were among those with a graduate or professional degree.

• Mothers in the District of Columbia, Mississippi and North Carolina were the most likely to have never married. New moms in California were the most likely to be foreign-born, while those in Mississippi were the likeliest to be poor.

• The national birth rate for women age 15 to 50 on welfare or other forms of public assistance was about three times of those not receiving government help (the report cites welfare reform passed in 1996 as perhaps contributing to this).

"Clearly women have competing alternatives for the use of their time, with the labor market and employment being one and delayed marriage, which has been another trend,” Suzanne Bianchi, chairwoman of the sociology department at the University of Maryland, told the Times. “The interesting question is, has it stopped? Is this it, or will we see even higher rates of childlessness among future generations?"

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11 Reader Comments (so far…) Sign In or Register to comment

Wafaa El  Jusmani
The fact that there are such numbers only mean that woman have more choices, or are at least challenging the status quos. The more the numbers vary the more the social trends indicate shifting in one way or another. Matters are not what they used to be and the technological advances are an asset in that regard.
By Wafaa El Jusmani on 08/19/2008 11:44 am
kermie b
I knew I was not alone in not wanting children. Most men didn’t understand this when I was younger and dating. They assumed I would get over my “phase” and “settle down” because of them. My boyfriend of 12 or 14 years (depending on which one of us you ask) understands this. He does not want kids either. I thank my higher power that D. came into my life. He never made me feel odd or selfish. But this illustrates, I believe, that the question is NOT entirely on the woman’s shoulders. She needs a partner who agrees with her (if she chooses to have a relationship) in the decision also. What I am saying is, I believe this is a shift in men’s (or partner’s) thinking too, not just women.
By kermie b on 08/19/2008 3:09 pm
Lorraine Bates
I can’t imagine having little kids around the house in my 40’s. It was tiring enough in my 20’s!
By Lorraine Bates on 08/19/2008 3:34 pm
Frannie Em
Lorraine I had my last one at 41. I think De Burca had her youngest at 44. My cousin had a baby at 46, she sleeps all the time. It is tiring but wonderful. My youngest son is 15 now, and he is a pretty easy kid (knock wood) and funny. My interests are so different than when I had my first at 30. I had medical challenges that caused heavy fatigue, and I have always felt bad that my second did get as much energy from me as the other, but there is nothing I can do about that. It was still worth it.
By Frannie Em on 08/19/2008 10:13 pm
Lorraine Bates
Wow - I do not doubt for a minute that it’s worth it. I’m glad it was a good choice for you, but I couldn’t imagine, for me. Having my kids as young as I did helped make me the woman I am today. I like that, now that I have the experience behind me to really further my career, I also have the freedom to do so, because my kids are older (well, one is out already, actually). Plus, I am really looking forward to being a grandmother in my late 40’s / early 50’s.
By Lorraine Bates on 08/20/2008 8:50 am
Donna H
There are some people who should not be parents. It seems that every day, I can pick up the paper & read an article about children who were neglected, abused, abandoned, or worse, by their parent/s. Unfortunately, it seems that most people who shouldn’t be parents don’t realize that until after they already are parents. The best thing G*d ever did for me was make me ralize that I wouldn’t be a good parent before I was one.
By Donna H on 08/19/2008 8:24 pm
kermie b
There are many children who need to be adopted by good people. When I was orphaned at 10, even though I had four older siblings, I wished everyday that some relatives who could offer me a future would take me into their home. I didn’t know until I was much older, my oldest brother had turned down offers from well-off relatives who wanted to take me in, he did this without consulting me. He insisted we “stick together, tough it out.” I was not privy to the fact that I had options. He was not even my legal guardian. According to my school records, I was. That was a shocker. I fell through the cracks of the system and no official ever checked on me. My oldest brother was 10 years older at the time (all of 20) and hadn’t the faintest idea how to provide for me or my brother and sisters. Sure, he was trying to be noble, but it did not work out, putting it mildly. One brother and two sisters all left within three years, but I was stuck with him (he was so busy working he totally ignored me) and an abusive sister-in-law (I truly wish she had ignored me) he married when I was 12. She had kids from a previous marriage. We did not need more people to support. My needs were completely ignored and my schoolwork came last in their minds. I do not exaggerate. There is a lot I am leaving out. I was serious about my studies so nothing got in the way of getting out of that hell and putting myself through college. I started working when I was 13; we always had serious money issues. (My pay went toward groceries and rent. I did not keep any of it.) I would have been better off elsewhere. Over the years he has tried to tell me in a million ways how sorry he is for not believing me when I told him I was being abused. My education and future could have had so much potential, there was so much lost, not to mention the emotional scars. I love my brother and know he was going through terrifically rough times, but Donna is correct. Some people should not be parents.
By kermie b on 08/20/2008 6:58 am
Jeannot Kensinger
Ki b. My heart goes out to you. Your story puts a spin in a situation we are facing. Son giving up a step child to his grandfather. Child needs weekly psychological meetings and special private schooling. Grandpa has the funds for all that and son is on ss with agoraphobia. What is best for the child? Of course it is his mental state and schooling. We are continuing our share with phone calls and emails , it is hard but I think we are taking the best solution.
By Jeannot Kensinger on 08/20/2008 9:52 am
kermie b
JMK Singer—I feel for you. My situation was decades ago. But I never forgot the injustice. I can see your family is doing its best and I believe you are doing the best for the child, but what is my opinion. I don’t know. I am not in your shoes.
By kermie b on 08/20/2008 2:44 pm
Jeannot Kensinger
Thanks for your reply. K b , we thought about this for days ,we hope we are doing the best for the child. Bottom line, if we fight it, we would not win. It is a stepchild versus a biological grandfather.
By Jeannot Kensinger on 08/20/2008 3:28 pm
Emily Hutt
Professional women are waiting to have children in order to secure their financial position to ensure that they are able to raise their children in a middle class or upper middle class lifestyle. Due to the need of two incomes, it is necessary to wait until a married couple has the ability to live off of one income. This happens over time and is well worth the wait. Look at many of the reasons for WHY there are so many foreclosed homes. People are biting off more than they can chew and as a result, it catches up with them in the end. Younger generations, such as myself, are seeing what happened to married couples a little older than us and will end up being more cautious. My husband and I are well aware of the expenses a child brings, and have even found out prices of local daycares. Inevitably, this will make anyone wait. I wish that we were able to have children sooner because I very much so want children. However, I know that when we do, we will be very ready.
By Emily Hutt on 01/23/2009 8:01 am