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Question of the Day | 06/30/2008 12:00 am

At work, was there a time when you realized, not only were you not the youngest person in the room, but you were the oldest?

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Joan Ganz Cooney

Joan Ganz Cooney | 06/30/2008 12:00 am

Joan Ganz Cooney: Same Age as Always

When I was young, I always felt the same age as the people I worked with even though they were older. At some point I was the oldest in the room but I still felt the same … that all of us were more or less the same age. It’s shocking to me when I realize that the "young" ones now have children in college.

Peggy Noonan

Peggy Noonan | 06/30/2008 12:00 am

Peggy Noonan's Gauge of Age

I haven’t had quite that moment. But I remember when an astronaut was finally younger than me, and it’s quite possible the next president will be younger than me, which has never happened before. They’ve always been older.
Marlo Thomas

Marlo Thomas | 06/30/2008 12:00 am

Marlo Thomas Looks Back at the Law

I was very disoriented when I realized my dentist was younger than me. I had just gotten over that all the cops were.

Mary Wells

Mary Wells | 06/30/2008 12:00 am

Mary Wells Does It Her Way

I had a moment when I realized I was the boss. I didn’t feel joyful. I felt alone. And awed. It took a while but I remember clearly suddenly feeling a little kick of knowing I could do things my way.

Sheila Nevins

Sheila Nevins | 06/30/2008 12:00 am

Sheila, Always

Every moment.
Judith Martin

Judith Martin | 06/30/2008 12:00 am

Judith Martin's Exercise in Seniority

When a news aide asked me if it was true that I had once been something called a [giggle, giggle] copy girl, and that in those days, they had to do things like [tone of amused horror] getting coffee for the reporters. I told her to go fetch me some coffee.

Cynthia McFadden

Cynthia McFadden | 06/30/2008 12:00 am

Cynthia McFadden Is Pleased

Just recently I was meeting with the "Nightline" senior staff and realized — could it be so? — I was the oldest in the room. I have worked with this same group for the past three years and the thought had never crossed my mind. I don’t know why it did this day. But strangely, it gave me a little burst of pleasure.

Joan Juliet Buck

Joan Juliet Buck | 06/30/2008 12:00 am

Fawning Over Joan Juliet Buck

When I became editor in chief of Paris Vogue 14 years ago I realized that I was the oldest person in the room even if I wasn’t, by sheer virtue of the role. It was lonely and miserable, and the best thing about no longer doing that job is that I hear a lot less fawning. I miss that sometimes; it’s horribly easy to mistake fawning for respect.

Jane Wagner

Jane Wagner | 06/30/2008 12:00 am

Jane Wagner: 'It's Everywhere'

Not only at the office but, lately, everywhere.


Liz Smith

Liz Smith | 06/30/2008 12:00 am

What Annoys Liz Smith?

I never thought about my age. Most of my pals have always been younger and all my lovers. When I was given a big blowout birthday party at 80 it suddenly dawned on me I was getting older than all my peers. I have been annoyed by this reality ever since.

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James the Game
Absolutely. Aging and death are largely mental, in my opinion.
By James the Game on 06/30/2008 12:40 pm
kermie b
Death is mental? Do you mean the fear of death? Because death is an absolute.
By kermie b on 06/30/2008 2:38 pm
James the Game
Yeah, the fear of death and the impact that has on the mind and body. My heart stopped in the O.R. for 4 minutes on June 4, so I can assure you that good overall health and well-being can even affect one’s longevity.
By James the Game on 06/30/2008 7:57 pm
Dora M
Since I work in advertising (my husband and I own a commercial production company and we have for about 18 years) I have been painfully aware that I am older than my clients for a while, in fact, most of my clients are typically younger than my 32 year old son. And while there is some consolation in that a producer can be “seasoned” and it’s not necessarily a pejorative, while in contrast, directors have a very short shelf life, the one thing that is very clear to me lately is that it’s just time for us to move on… I don’t connect with the people I work with and frankly, don’t have the same interests, hopefully I will be able to figure out what else to do for a living sometime very soon, wish me luck!
By Dora M on 06/30/2008 2:11 am
No Way-No How -No McCain
Dora—Seems like there are many industry segments like wineries, authors, restaurants, cruise companies, etc that could greatly benefit from a professional youtube vid. Of course would probably need to live in populations centers to support that otherwise travel cost prohibitive. If live near senior populations, personal histories, etc. What a great skill to have! What kinds of things did you direct/produce?
By No Way-No How -No McCain on 06/30/2008 12:32 pm
W G
Yes, at work, I am often the oldest in the room but this morning, when I report to work, for at least a half hour, I will be the youngest in the room. Perhaps that morning meeting should last a little longer on Mondays so I can think about that role for a little while longer. I remember the day my new gynecologist walked into the room and I was certain he wasn’t old enough to shave. Probably the most significant “age” event occurred for me two years ago when a group of ladies went out for dinner and we began discussing where and when we had graduated from high school. All of a sudden it occurred to me that I was the oldest woman at that dinner. My status was accelerated when the two ladies who were “ahead of me” relocated to other parts of the country and were no longer able to be part of our GNO’s. I had slipped, unbeknownst even to me, into the role of matriarch. A surprise? Yes. Shocking? A little. Most of the time I’d rather be the oldest in the room than not in the room at all. Age is just a number and there is so much to learn from everyone who is willing to share, no matter what their age.
By W G on 06/30/2008 4:53 am
doll lady
Don’t you know that WOW women don’t get older, they get better and better. Age is not an issue when you are a Wow woman….. oops…off to change my Depends.
By doll lady on 06/30/2008 4:57 am
Jeannot Kensinger
I am the oldest person in my part time job and I am being spoiled by every one. I may be “older” y et I have had less sick days than anyone else on staff.
By Jeannot Kensinger on 06/30/2008 6:25 am
carol wilson
I live in a youngish city, so I was the oldest employee at several jobs. Fortunately, I looked younger and was never treated as an old woman, and also I was usually the person with the most off the wall sense of humor. Difference in age was evident when I tried to talk to fellow employees about anything other than work. I do not own a TV (by choice), I read books, cook actual meals, and have goals that are not material, such as buying a hot new car. I have no desire to spend money on the latest “must have”. This baffled my co-workers. It amazed me that some younger college graduates have little depth of learning and knowledge of history and culture, along with limited curiosity about the world. The differences were isolating and more than once I was called weird.
By carol wilson on 06/30/2008 8:17 am
Frannie Em
Lily My youngest son just read 2 books in the last 4 days. I was so happy to see.
By Frannie Em on 06/30/2008 4:57 pm
Lorraine Bates
Not yet, but let’s just say there are only six of us in the whole firm who remember where we were when John Lennon was shot.
By Lorraine Bates on 06/30/2008 8:59 am
K O
He was that guy that played in an all boy band before he was with Yoko, right? :) You remind me, Lorraine, of going into Tower Records and having a very young woman ask over the loud speaker whether they had any Osmond Brothers albums, when I was looking for the Allman Brothers. First, I wanted to strangle her. Then, I felt old.
By K O on 06/30/2008 11:48 am
Lorraine Bates
LOL, Kitty! My sister-in-law (hubby’s sister) is 10 years younger than I and hubby are, and was 14 when I married her brother. I’ll never forget the day, sitting in my home, when I was listening to The Beatles. She asked what it was…I told her, and told her who was in the band. She said, totally straight faced, “Paul McCartney was in a band??” I threatened to throw her out. I was only 29 at the time, but felt instantly old.
By Lorraine Bates on 07/01/2008 7:11 am
K O
Very funny story, Lorraine. You made me feel a little less bad for wanting to strangle that poor Tower Records clerk…
By K O on 07/01/2008 7:10 pm
James the Game
I just turned 46 on June 21st. I noticed that all of the people who’ve been interviewing me for jobs look like they’re 24. That might be more of a statement about corporate greed than my age, if you consider how companies are lowering payscales by hiring pups for management positions. But, I move and groove much better now than many years ago. So, age is largely just a number, if you work out.
By James the Game on 06/30/2008 9:06 am