Carol, that is simply awful. You must be so relieved to have dropped all of the negativity with which you were confronted. However, I am so happy to say that my boss understands me better than anyone on earth. My boss knows what I am thinking before I speak, supports my ideas, and makes certain that I get recognized for my efforts. My boss never looks over my shoulder or tries to intrude or be overbearing. She is my best friend and recognizes my strengths and intellect, and she encourages me to challenge myself, and she creates opportunities that make it possible for me to advance. When something goes wrong, as it certainly does from time to time, my boss looks me in the eyes and says, “You are a wonderful person; everyone slips now and then; I know that you will achieve your goal in this project.” Best of all, I see my boss smile back at me in the mirror every morning because I have worked for myself for the last 13 years. Women have to learn to be so much more supportive of one another than have been historically. It is important for everyone to know that many times when we give understanding and engage in positive exchanges of ideas and energy, we get closer to our personal, professional, and social goals. A Thought to Walk With: Making the choice to behave positively instructs our bodies and minds to react accordingly on so many levels!