Gosh I always wonder why men venture here. Either brave or crazy. Whatever. Anyway Samuel, my husband does snore. He is a beautiful man, but he snores - and loud. He tries to be sensitive about it, but he can’t help it. Ooooops I digress. That her wants are less complicated than he thinks. That what she says she wants for her birthday or holidays is what she really wants and he doesn’t have to go crazy trying to second guess. That if he really wants sex that night, start being nice in the morning. Be appreciative with a little sweet talk, and remind her why you fell in love with her. It goes a long way. It is the beginning of foreplay. That most women don’t manipulate, they just want to find a solution to a household and child rearing problem. When they get out of the shower, pull the towel off and kind of ‘wag’ it isn’t necessarily that appealing to a woman, a cat maybe, but not always a woman. Hands eyes and beautiful arms get me (although I used to run behind guys in my workouts to get a great view)