Question of the Day | 06/19/2008 1:00 am
What piece of clothing do you own that is not in style, doesn't fit, that you do not wear, but you keep?

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I have an old alpaca sweater that my mother wore around the ranch. It just reminds me of her so I keep it.
I forgot, I also have a kimono she had made for Madame Butterfly. I seldom pull it out, but I love it.

Well now lessee, I’ve got this T from 1969 I’ve kept all these years and on occasion drag it out and marvel I got away wearing even then. It ‘s purple with
a chartreuse rectangle down the middle front with that loopy Peter Max letterings I so loved and still do and at the top in large caps “The Sound” and then on both sides of the inner rectangle in orange are the names of the the Bands:
The Jefferson Airplane ( Gracie Slick where are you now that I need you lol)
Muddy Waters
Winterland
Paul Butterfield Blues Band
Fillmore Auditorium and the dates
Down the middle is a drawing of a lush full-bodied lovely woman
Who’s as nude as nude gets
With her Blonde head cocked to the Right
her arms above her head
This is a treasure I will never part with. I’ve worn it a few times lately—it’s a bit tight—just for the hell of it and the looks I get—oh my, you’d have thought I gone and murdered someone. lol
It’s not that mine aren’t in style, but they really don’t fit. I’m talking about my ‘cancer clothes.’ I never owed elastic waist anything until I had abdominal surgery. My ‘cancer clothes’ are size 0 & 2. I have been down to 89 lbs while in and out of treatment. I don’t get rid of them because the odds of my needing them again are very high. I’ve already had over 20 surgeries, rads, chemo and bio-therapy. I am at what’s considered my ‘normal weight’ right now. It’s weird how our mind plays tricks on us about our body image. I am still trying to adjust to being a size 4/6 without feeling fat. Cancer can really screw up your perception of yourself. One thing I know for sure is that I don’t want to go through what it takes to fit back into those ‘cancer clothes.’ Not now, not ever! I can live with my ‘fat.’
Maybe I’m just superstitious and figure as long as I keep the clothes, I will never have to use them again.
I have an old jeans jacket from years ago when my breasts were much smaller. (It is too tight across the chest now, so I cannot wear it, but it lives in a special place in my closet.) At the time I couldn’t find a jeans jacket to fit until I shopped in the boy’s section. I had a great time embroidering it, adding Keith Haring buttons, political slogan buttons, sewing lace across the back, beading the cuffs and collar, and making it my very own. At the time, I wore it over a flowery skirt with strappy sandals to a family function once and immediately became “the cool Aunt.” I overheard my nephew say that. The cool Aunt. Whoa. That was great. Seriously.
I take my “cool Aunt” jacket out once in a while and I still love it because I made it express me. No other jacket comes close.
As of yesterday have only one piece of clothing would never part with. I’m a big time editor. If it’s no longer beautiful or useful to me—give it away. Had an attractive fairly expensive black leather full-length coat, something about it was just too much. The housekeeper was here yesterday. It was foggy and (although today was sunny and warm) she was cold. I said “If you like it’s yours.” She was thrilled, and I was happy, another thing gone.
The one article of clothing that doesn’t fit anyone, and not particularly stylish, is the one I’d never part with. The outfit my now 6’4” baby wore home from the hospital…everything else is up for grabs. Stuff is just stuff.
I am going to take us in an entirely different direction . . . for in a hidden drawer in my bedroom I have always kept, carefully wrapped, my great-grandmother’s christening dress. Elaborately hand-embroidered, white and long, I was told it was worn by each newborn of the family from the 1870s - when a baby was always christened soon after birth.
I know I wore it, but - after that - parents seemed to wait longer and the tiny sleeves would have been too small. For some reason, I know my only long-term remembrance of “family” is in that room, my one visible connection to the thought of generations past but - in this tiny garment - not forgotten.
And at times like this, when a question brings the past back in my mind, I find that the love of family is by far the greatest love we have . . . and the one that we should treasure most. This is my own treasure and my greatest reminder.
Mine is a beautiful Black heavy lace cocktail dress…….full swinging skirt (that twirled) when I danced all night……..that was back when I was 30 years old…….cute…….slender and bleached blonde hair. WOW what memories
I just love to look at it evey once in a while……..I showed it to my 4 year old great grandson the other day. He loves going in my closet to play hide and seek……After my husband died I converted my fourth bedroom into a full walk in closet. It actually looks like a store. I love clothes.
When you can barely walk it’s fun to think back about the times you could dance for hours and hours……Oh to be young again. (just the fun parts)
Dona, I love clothes and so does my mom. Even with three bedrooms, and a couple double decker storage closets I still need your fourth bedroom for my shoes! My fav’s are a pair of Charles Jourdan Paris tri-color leather high heeled dancing shoes. I found them in an antique shop and they looked like they were never worn. What a find for $25! (Oh! They are red, sapphire blue, bright green, edged and lined in silver metallic…and to die for.)
Three pairs of socks.
One pair for each birthing of my boys.
I thought the first thing that the boys should see was wild and crazy colors !! So I found the loudest colors I could and in the seventies loud was not hard to find.
All of my boys are artists, so see always put your best foot forward, and up in stir-ups.
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