Question of the Day | 06/19/2008 1:00 am

What piece of clothing do you own that is not in style, doesn't fit, that you do not wear, but you keep?

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Candice Bergen

Candice Bergen | 06/19/2008 1:00 am

Candice Bergen: Nothing's Changed

Virtually two thirds of my closet. Except it’s not out of fashion because it was never in fashion as I have dressed the same way for 40 years.

Judith Martin

Judith Martin | 06/19/2008 1:00 am

Judith Martin: Made to Fit

The clothes my mother made me, which were cutting-edge style at the time.

Joan Ganz Cooney

Joan Ganz Cooney | 06/19/2008 1:00 am

Joan Ganz Cooney: Beautiful and Sentimental

A beautiful jacket (and a skirt) designed by Bill Blass from the ’90s that I wore to my youngest stepson’s wedding to my darling daughter-in-law who died in 2006 after several years of battling breast cancer. I’ll never get rid of it.

Cynthia McFadden

Cynthia McFadden | 06/19/2008 1:00 am

Cynthia McFadden's Special Day

My wedding dress.

Joan Juliet Buck

Joan Juliet Buck | 06/19/2008 1:00 am

Joan Juliet Buck: The Find Is Half the Fun

Actually, I wear all the clothes I have, when I can find them.

Mary Wells

Mary Wells | 06/19/2008 1:00 am

Mary Wells: Maybe ... Someday?

I have an Yves Saint Laurent jacket that is like a complicated fan. It was always too small. I dieted to fit into it. I asked Yves to add something to it but he couldn’t find a way to do that.

I keep thinking I should give it to my smaller daughters but they don’t live that sort of life and neither do I. But I am hopeful. Maybe when I am older.

Julia Reed

Julia Reed | 06/25/2008 1:40 pm

Julia Reed: I Keep All My Exes in My Closet

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I have a whole rack in my closet full of clothes I do not wear — mostly they serve as reproaches because I can no longer fit into them. One pair of Anne Klein (yes! Anne Klein from the Donna Karan/Louis Dell’Olio days) cognac silk pants I haven’t put on my body since I was maybe 22, but I keep thinking, "one day …"

But there are a few I simply can’t part with: First, a thin, thin cotton floral-print Cacharel dress with a tight bodice, a back cut to the waist and a mid-calf knife-pleated skirt. It is still so chic I can’t stand it. I bought it when I was 13 and working at Hafter’s department store in downtown Greenville, MS, sweeping the floor in the "receiving room," recording all the clothes "in the book" as they came in and then putting the price tags on them. (I never answered the question about the best job I ever had, but this was unquestionably it.) The most stylish woman I have ever known ran the place — her name was Lib and she was tall and angular and she wore Detchema as her scent and shoes from the great old Henri Bendel shoe department and Cartier brooches on her lapel and she smoked Tareytons from a tortoiseshell holder. Anyway, I was going to the wedding of a man on whom I had a mad crush (I was 12 when crush came over me and he was 22) and I really wanted to make him sorry and Lib advised me to buy this dress. So I spent my entire summer’s wages and then she helped me get some Charles Jourdan snakeskin sandals (sent on the bus from her shoe man at Neiman Marcus in Dallas) and I’m pretty sure the man in question didn’t notice me, but I heard grown women admiring my getup and I am pretty sure I haven’t looked that good since. So the dress hangs as a shrine of sorts.

I'm pretty sure the man in question didn't notice me, but I heard grown women admiring my getup ... I haven't looked that good since.

So does a blue and pale yellow madras shirt that belonged to the first man I actually fell in love with (as opposed to having a crush on). I was 16 and he was almost twice as old (this is why I hope my mother doesn’t read these answers) and drove a yellow Volkswagen bus and had lived in Jamaica and that shirt still reminds me so palpably of him that I can see him in it like he’s actually standing in front of me, which might well be dangerous.

There is also a Bill Blass coat made of a Brunschwig and Fils cotton leopard-print upholstery fabric that I wore every day for a year over black leggings and a black cashmere sweater. The shoulders are too wide now and it looks as worn as it was, but it reminds me of Bill and how much I adored him. The last time I saw Pat Buckley before she died, we both talked about how much we loved that coat.

Liz Smith

Liz Smith | 06/19/2008 1:00 am

Liz Smith's Invaluable Jacket

I own a small tweedy kind of jacket that belonged to the late great Katharine Hepburn. I could put it up for auction, I could have it framed as an artifact, I could give it to the The Academy of Motion Picture Arts and Sciences – I am still trying to decide where it would be happy.

 

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Frannie Em
I have an old alpaca sweater that my mother wore around the ranch. It just reminds me of her so I keep it.
By Frannie Em on 06/19/2008 1:32 am
Frannie Em
I forgot, I also have a kimono she had made for Madame Butterfly. I seldom pull it out, but I love it.
By Frannie Em on 06/19/2008 1:33 am
Frank Peterson
Well now lessee, I’ve got this T from 1969 I’ve kept all these years and on occasion drag it out and marvel I got away wearing even then. It ‘s purple with a chartreuse rectangle down the middle front with that loopy Peter Max letterings I so loved and still do and at the top in large caps “The Sound” and then on both sides of the inner rectangle in orange are the names of the the Bands: The Jefferson Airplane ( Gracie Slick where are you now that I need you lol) Muddy Waters Winterland Paul Butterfield Blues Band Fillmore Auditorium and the dates Down the middle is a drawing of a lush full-bodied lovely woman Who’s as nude as nude gets With her Blonde head cocked to the Right her arms above her head This is a treasure I will never part with. I’ve worn it a few times lately—it’s a bit tight—just for the hell of it and the looks I get—oh my, you’d have thought I gone and murdered someone. lol
By Frank Peterson on 06/19/2008 2:13 am
C A Rose
It’s not that mine aren’t in style, but they really don’t fit. I’m talking about my ‘cancer clothes.’ I never owed elastic waist anything until I had abdominal surgery. My ‘cancer clothes’ are size 0 & 2. I have been down to 89 lbs while in and out of treatment. I don’t get rid of them because the odds of my needing them again are very high. I’ve already had over 20 surgeries, rads, chemo and bio-therapy. I am at what’s considered my ‘normal weight’ right now. It’s weird how our mind plays tricks on us about our body image. I am still trying to adjust to being a size 4/6 without feeling fat. Cancer can really screw up your perception of yourself. One thing I know for sure is that I don’t want to go through what it takes to fit back into those ‘cancer clothes.’ Not now, not ever! I can live with my ‘fat.’ Maybe I’m just superstitious and figure as long as I keep the clothes, I will never have to use them again.
By C A Rose on 06/19/2008 2:13 am
C A Rose
Oops! *owned
By C A Rose on 06/19/2008 2:15 am
Maurine H
C A Rose - I hope you never, ever have to wear those clothes again!
By Maurine H on 06/19/2008 11:14 am
Frannie Em
Maurine, I am with you there, and I second it that she never has to go through that again.
By Frannie Em on 06/19/2008 5:01 pm
C A Rose
Thanks Maurine and Frannie! I’m doing the best I can with what I’ve got to work with, and that ain’t all that bad.
By C A Rose on 06/20/2008 12:49 am
kermie b
I have an old jeans jacket from years ago when my breasts were much smaller. (It is too tight across the chest now, so I cannot wear it, but it lives in a special place in my closet.) At the time I couldn’t find a jeans jacket to fit until I shopped in the boy’s section. I had a great time embroidering it, adding Keith Haring buttons, political slogan buttons, sewing lace across the back, beading the cuffs and collar, and making it my very own. At the time, I wore it over a flowery skirt with strappy sandals to a family function once and immediately became “the cool Aunt.” I overheard my nephew say that. The cool Aunt. Whoa. That was great. Seriously. I take my “cool Aunt” jacket out once in a while and I still love it because I made it express me. No other jacket comes close.
By kermie b on 06/19/2008 2:44 am
Get Sporty
As of yesterday have only one piece of clothing would never part with. I’m a big time editor. If it’s no longer beautiful or useful to me—give it away. Had an attractive fairly expensive black leather full-length coat, something about it was just too much. The housekeeper was here yesterday. It was foggy and (although today was sunny and warm) she was cold. I said “If you like it’s yours.” She was thrilled, and I was happy, another thing gone. The one article of clothing that doesn’t fit anyone, and not particularly stylish, is the one I’d never part with. The outfit my now 6’4” baby wore home from the hospital…everything else is up for grabs. Stuff is just stuff.
By Get Sporty on 06/19/2008 3:05 am
joan larsen
I am going to take us in an entirely different direction . . . for in a hidden drawer in my bedroom I have always kept, carefully wrapped, my great-grandmother’s christening dress. Elaborately hand-embroidered, white and long, I was told it was worn by each newborn of the family from the 1870s - when a baby was always christened soon after birth. I know I wore it, but - after that - parents seemed to wait longer and the tiny sleeves would have been too small. For some reason, I know my only long-term remembrance of “family” is in that room, my one visible connection to the thought of generations past but - in this tiny garment - not forgotten. And at times like this, when a question brings the past back in my mind, I find that the love of family is by far the greatest love we have . . . and the one that we should treasure most. This is my own treasure and my greatest reminder.
By joan larsen on 06/19/2008 4:11 am
Bella Mia
How precious!
By Bella Mia on 06/19/2008 6:57 pm
Dona Howlett
Mine is a beautiful Black heavy lace cocktail dress…….full swinging skirt (that twirled) when I danced all night……..that was back when I was 30 years old…….cute…….slender and bleached blonde hair. WOW what memories I just love to look at it evey once in a while……..I showed it to my 4 year old great grandson the other day. He loves going in my closet to play hide and seek……After my husband died I converted my fourth bedroom into a full walk in closet. It actually looks like a store. I love clothes. When you can barely walk it’s fun to think back about the times you could dance for hours and hours……Oh to be young again. (just the fun parts)
By Dona Howlett on 06/19/2008 4:38 am
C A Rose
Dona, I love clothes and so does my mom. Even with three bedrooms, and a couple double decker storage closets I still need your fourth bedroom for my shoes! My fav’s are a pair of Charles Jourdan Paris tri-color leather high heeled dancing shoes. I found them in an antique shop and they looked like they were never worn. What a find for $25! (Oh! They are red, sapphire blue, bright green, edged and lined in silver metallic…and to die for.)
By C A Rose on 06/20/2008 1:09 am
Julie Runco
Three pairs of socks. One pair for each birthing of my boys. I thought the first thing that the boys should see was wild and crazy colors !! So I found the loudest colors I could and in the seventies loud was not hard to find. All of my boys are artists, so see always put your best foot forward, and up in stir-ups.
By Julie Runco on 06/19/2008 5:30 am