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Question of the Day | 06/19/2008 12:00 am

What piece of clothing do you own that is not in style, doesn't fit, that you do not wear, but you keep?

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Candice Bergen

Candice Bergen | 06/19/2008 12:00 am

Candice Bergen: Nothing's Changed

Virtually two thirds of my closet. Except it’s not out of fashion because it was never in fashion as I have dressed the same way for 40 years.

Judith Martin

Judith Martin | 06/19/2008 12:00 am

Judith Martin: Made to Fit

The clothes my mother made me, which were cutting-edge style at the time.

Joan Ganz Cooney

Joan Ganz Cooney | 06/19/2008 12:00 am

Joan Ganz Cooney: Beautiful and Sentimental

A beautiful jacket (and a skirt) designed by Bill Blass from the ’90s that I wore to my youngest stepson’s wedding to my darling daughter-in-law who died in 2006 after several years of battling breast cancer. I’ll never get rid of it.

Cynthia McFadden

Cynthia McFadden | 06/19/2008 12:00 am

Cynthia McFadden's Special Day

My wedding dress.

Joan Juliet Buck

Joan Juliet Buck | 06/19/2008 12:00 am

Joan Juliet Buck: The Find Is Half the Fun

Actually, I wear all the clothes I have, when I can find them.

Mary Wells

Mary Wells | 06/19/2008 12:00 am

Mary Wells: Maybe ... Someday?

I have an Yves Saint Laurent jacket that is like a complicated fan. It was always too small. I dieted to fit into it. I asked Yves to add something to it but he couldn’t find a way to do that.

I keep thinking I should give it to my smaller daughters but they don’t live that sort of life and neither do I. But I am hopeful. Maybe when I am older.

Julia Reed

Julia Reed | 06/25/2008 12:40 pm

Julia Reed: I Keep All My Exes in My Closet

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I have a whole rack in my closet full of clothes I do not wear — mostly they serve as reproaches because I can no longer fit into them. One pair of Anne Klein (yes! Anne Klein from the Donna Karan/Louis Dell’Olio days) cognac silk pants I haven’t put on my body since I was maybe 22, but I keep thinking, "one day …"

But there are a few I simply can’t part with: First, a thin, thin cotton floral-print Cacharel dress with a tight bodice, a back cut to the waist and a mid-calf knife-pleated skirt. It is still so chic I can’t stand it. I bought it when I was 13 and working at Hafter’s department store in downtown Greenville, MS, sweeping the floor in the "receiving room," recording all the clothes "in the book" as they came in and then putting the price tags on them. (I never answered the question about the best job I ever had, but this was unquestionably it.) The most stylish woman I have ever known ran the place — her name was Lib and she was tall and angular and she wore Detchema as her scent and shoes from the great old Henri Bendel shoe department and Cartier brooches on her lapel and she smoked Tareytons from a tortoiseshell holder. Anyway, I was going to the wedding of a man on whom I had a mad crush (I was 12 when crush came over me and he was 22) and I really wanted to make him sorry and Lib advised me to buy this dress. So I spent my entire summer’s wages and then she helped me get some Charles Jourdan snakeskin sandals (sent on the bus from her shoe man at Neiman Marcus in Dallas) and I’m pretty sure the man in question didn’t notice me, but I heard grown women admiring my getup and I am pretty sure I haven’t looked that good since. So the dress hangs as a shrine of sorts.

I'm pretty sure the man in question didn't notice me, but I heard grown women admiring my getup ... I haven't looked that good since.

So does a blue and pale yellow madras shirt that belonged to the first man I actually fell in love with (as opposed to having a crush on). I was 16 and he was almost twice as old (this is why I hope my mother doesn’t read these answers) and drove a yellow Volkswagen bus and had lived in Jamaica and that shirt still reminds me so palpably of him that I can see him in it like he’s actually standing in front of me, which might well be dangerous.

There is also a Bill Blass coat made of a Brunschwig and Fils cotton leopard-print upholstery fabric that I wore every day for a year over black leggings and a black cashmere sweater. The shoulders are too wide now and it looks as worn as it was, but it reminds me of Bill and how much I adored him. The last time I saw Pat Buckley before she died, we both talked about how much we loved that coat.

Liz Smith

Liz Smith | 06/19/2008 12:00 am

Liz Smith's Invaluable Jacket

I own a small tweedy kind of jacket that belonged to the late great Katharine Hepburn. I could put it up for auction, I could have it framed as an artifact, I could give it to the The Academy of Motion Picture Arts and Sciences – I am still trying to decide where it would be happy.

 

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Frannie Em
My sister-in-law framed her son’s socks in a shadow box. All funny colors and cute shapes. I love that.
By Frannie Em on 06/19/2008 4:03 pm
Elizabeth Bennett
Sometimes I think half my wardrobe fits into this category. My sister once joked that I should get those dividers you find in stores so I could group clothes by size. I have clothes that are too small and clothes that are too big. Eventually I will get rid of these. But I do have a few clothes that I will probably never wear again that I hang onto for sentiment alone. When I graduated from law school, my mother made me a suit. It took her quite a bit of time, and I did wear it to my first trial and to a number of other court appearances. That was quite a while ago, so it no longer fits and it is no longer in fashion. But just looking at it makes me remember so much. I also have a sequined t-shirt that I made in the early seventies, sewing each sequin on by hand. That no longer fits, but I don’t think I could get rid of it. Maybe it will fit again someday. The main problem is that I lost a great deal of weight over several years and still have not figured out what to do with all the clothes that are much too big. Do I alter the ones I really like? Do I donate the others? I just have not sat down and figured that out yet. Since I have a big closet, it is not my most pressing concern. But I probably should get rid of the platform heels I bought in 1971. I could barely walk in them back then. I certainly can’t walk in them now. But they are gorgeous.
By Elizabeth Bennett on 06/19/2008 4:37 am
N P
Elizabeth, Perhaps you’d like to display the shoes on a small table. It sounds like they are an art piece. I know a woman who did that. She had a pair of red pumps. She couldn’t wear them, but she put them on a small table and they looked stunning. And they were quite the conversation piece. Anyway, something to think about. This woman also has martini glasses of different colors displayed in her kitchen. And tiny little oil paintings. It’s very artistic. Instead of cookbooks, this “art” lines her kitchen.
By N P on 06/19/2008 8:25 pm
doll lady
I am a pack-rat. I still have the pink and gray plaid coat I wore when I was three years old. And I even have a picture of me and old St. Nick…and yes, I’m wearing that coat! Lordy that picture and the coat are as old as a pyramid…well, almost as old.
By doll lady on 06/19/2008 5:26 am
Common Knowledge
I have some items- the first two aprons I made when I learned to sew (on my mother’s treadle machine), two sweaters that a sister knit for me when I was in high school (I’m now 62), a dress that I crocheted in 1970 that I wore with a body stocking, and, of course, my wedding dress.
By Common Knowledge on 06/19/2008 6:52 am
Barbara
Lots that are out of style but none that don’t fit. I haven’t changed size since I was 13. somehow my body found its weight and size and I’ve stayed that way for 44 years, even after two children. a perfect size 2. My mother taught me to buy good clothes in classic styles. So I have lots of clothes that I love that go in and out of style. Some I am sure will never come back in style…those big shouldered power business suits for example. I’ve slowly been weeding through. But a few I just can’t get rid of. The first blouse I ever bought with my own money in 8th grade. My wedding dress (which my daughter would never wear. much too modest compared to dresses now. and who wants to wear an old one when you can have fun and shop for a new one that is exactly you?) I have a big closet, sorted by color and type (slacks here, long sleeve shirts there, dresses in the back, etc.) Love clothes. Hardly ever shop any more. Most of my clothes look very similar. Black shirts, lots of jeans, tons of shoes
By Barbara on 06/19/2008 7:14 am
James the Game
My late Jude knitted me a bright, light green scarf once that I keep as a momento but would never wear out in public. I have used it when shoveling snow in the driveway, though. I also have a plaid jacket/shirt…heck I don’t know what it is, it’s too heavy to be a shirt, has buttons…that she used to wear.
By James the Game on 06/19/2008 7:45 am
N P
What a wonderful gift, James.
By N P on 06/19/2008 8:13 pm
carol wilson
Back in my college days I wore a pair of Navy issued bell bottomed jeans with patches (I added) of various fabric and embroidery. With the jeans I wore a braided mesh yellow metal belt which had a 3-d flower clasp. Both are much-much too small and I keep them for sentimantal reasons. Long ago I dismantled my love-beads…remember those?
By carol wilson on 06/19/2008 8:14 am
a. m.
about twenty years ago, i bought this rather expensive (for me, that is) black, lacy undergarment. it’s kinda like a corset, a bra & girdle all in one piece. i’m sure i could still get into it but, i wouldn’t be able to sit or bend or eat in it. whenever i am cleaning out my dresser drawers i come across this item. i wore it only half a dozen times but, i am somehow unable to pitch it into the wastebasket. i wouldn’t dream of donating it to charity - those people have enough to deal with! so, i end up folding it & tucking it back into its regular spot. until the next time… and, it’s a funny thing because, i wasn’t really very happy during the years when i wore the darn thing!!!
By a. m. on 06/19/2008 8:29 am
J B
A Dior evening suit, ivory with the most beautiful beading…I seriously doubt that it is out of style, as I do not do “trendy”. I prefer classics. I bought it in 1994…and…well…I don’t have the 1994 figure anymore! Just can’t part with the suit!
By J B on 06/19/2008 8:41 am
Vivvy Stewart
A breathtaking sari that was custom made for me in 1975, my wedding dress, and a t-shirt from when I was helping organize our local NOW chapter in the 70’s. It’s got a stylized sun coming up over the horizon with the text NOW, the rising sun of equality!
By Vivvy Stewart on 06/19/2008 8:46 am
Maurine H
My mother’s art form and her therapy was knitting. Wherever she went -to parties, weddings, medical appointments, funerals, graduations - she carried her brocade knitting bag with her. I called her “Madame Defarge” and accused her of knitting-one and purling-two everything she saw and heard into her latest project. I still have one sweater she made; it reminds me of her with all of its complex stitches and subtle colors. Who knows what secrets it holds!
By Maurine H on 06/19/2008 10:27 am
J B
Oh Dear God! This brought back memories of the “Pom-Pom” Sweater!! A dear friend took up knitting years ago, and for my Birthday she presented me with the MOST hideous sweater…I think she took my shocked look as awe…thank goodness…! It was pale blue with pink stripes, and all over it were white, fluffy pom-poms…I had to remind myself that its the thought that counts…though I had no idea WHAT she could have been thinking! Years later I found out that she was very proud of this sweater, so proud in fact, that she gave duplicates to many of our friends. We paid homage to her at her passing by proudly wearing our pom-pom sweaters to her wake. Though that was the only time the sweaters saw the light of day, I think she would have been pleased. And yes, I still have it.
By J B on 06/19/2008 11:26 am
georgia fatwood
Epitaph for a knitter: “Her ravels now are ended.”
By georgia fatwood on 06/19/2008 3:10 pm