I guess I’m going soft in my dotage, but in this “gotcha” age, I find myself just fed up with people who want to make a big deal out of nothing. Writers, diarists and memoir keepers always go back and give themselves the best of it when they sit down to “remember.” Or, as in the case of James Frey, they give themselves the worst of it because they are trying to turn something into a sensational bestseller. Almost everything is fiction in any case.
I recall that when Oprah put the blocks to James Frey because of his drug exaggerations, I thought her high-handed approach was overbearing. I expected her to give him a gun right there on air and encourage him to commit suicide. I just happen to have loved his book “A Million Little Pieces” and if he fudged a few things, I don’t care.
I just can’t get excited about people lying for literature when our own exalted presidents and their minions lie to us with impunity on matters so serious as to make one’s hair stand on end!
It is so tough for a writer to make a living doing his or her best, or even his or her, worst! I say it hardly matters; give ‘em a break.
The American public seems to have a small appetite for this kind of thing but, of course, the publishers are at fault. The publishers are young, upper middle class people who went to Amherst and Princeton and Northwestern and they are sort of voyeurs about what street life for the poor and the mentally ill is like and they assume everyone else is just as riveted. It’s kind of pathetic because they keep falling for the same faux memoirs over and over again.
The author is of course responsible. He’s the one who’s lying. But the publisher shares responsibility. They don’t do even the most minimal due diligence. Part of the reason, a small part, is naivte: they can’t believe someone made the whole thing up. Made a whole life up! A larger part is sheer calculation: why check it when it’s so moving, so helpful, and will make so much money? ‘On the off chance it’s all a lie and we get caught we’ll just say we trusted our author, which is what publishers do.’ I would add that old editors are in the professional habit of trusting authors. In a time when they’re under terrible bottom line pressure, it’s nice to take refuge in old habits. Young editors seem to me a little like the fake memoir writers themselves, not deeply sensitive to issues of ‘true’ and ‘not true.’
Why is there a market for the memoirs? Because life is full of suffering. It’s hard. It is understandable that readers would enjoy finding someone who suffered terribly and yet survived, triumphed. ‘She came from that and wrote a great bestseller.’ ‘If he could come through that, then I can come through what’s happening to me now.’ This, by the way, is part of the reason that books such as David Copperfield and Jane Eyre are beloved. But Dickens didn’t say he was David Copperfield, he said he created, in part out of his own experience of life, a fictional character named David Copperfield. He made it up and was proud to have made it up, as he should have been. He was a writer. He wrote a masterpiece.
What is startling is that the fake memoir writers seem, always, surprised and contrite when caught. As if they didn’t know it was wrong. How could they not have known? I don’t know. A guess. A number of them are young or youngish, and perhaps we should wonder what we’ve been teaching them the past 30 years about what is right and what is wrong and how to tell the difference. Some of them — I mean those who aren’t just barking mad — seem to be operating under the rules of some kind of moral and ethical relativism. ‘I can make up a story about how painful the lives of the unnoticed, the marginalized, are, and in doing this I will help open the eyes of those who came from comfort, who had it easy. This is a public good.’ They weigh their lying against the good they imagine might come of it, and vote for the good, giving themselves an out for lying. Which is very convenient, because in voting for the ‘good’ they vote for their own profit, fame, and success.
I’ll add one thing about the environment the fake memoir writers are operating in, not to be sympathetic to them but to point out a truth. Novels used to be respected. They used to deal with real life and be bought by people who were living real lives. Now American fiction is…thin, removed from life, full of pose, full of abstractions that have a lot to do with the author’s mind and little to do with the readers’. I grew up surrounded by friends reading novels, and I read novels. And we talked about them just about through the 1980’s, and then we stopped. I have only one friend who reads novels now.
When novels become removed from life, tales of ‘real life’ just might benefit. Because people will always read. This country is full of readers. But they want to read something real.
Why are young novelists doing work that seems so removed from life? America became rich. Affluence detaches. It detaches from the facts of life. It makes a life less real. And so the work produced by that life will be less real. We have also, as a nation, arguably, in some areas, become educated beyond our intelligence. The young Brown graduate down the block: she knows everything about writing, about tone and paragraph blocking, she’s read a lot that’s been written already, she’s highly literate. But she has nothing to say. She’s barely lived a life. She’ll soon write a novel.
Me, I’m sticking with history. The battle really happened, the bill was really passed. It all actually occurred.
After my second novel came out, I no longer wanted to write fiction. I went to an analyst to try and work through this, and in the spring of 1989, I found myself reliving a drama from my deepest childhood. A trance-like moment in group therapy, followed by vivid dreams told me that my grandfather’s driver had molested me when I was five years old. The pressure of this secret had to be the reason my urge to write fiction had vanished. It seemed my duty to expose my private humiliation in print.
I told a publisher, who thought this was pretty interesting stuff. No one was interested in my fiction, but a terrible true story was something else. Something that might sell, as opposed to my usual Franco-American cultural meanderings. Something people could relate to; something universal. Something universal that, oddly, seemed to be more universal every day.
Because, oddly, everyone I knew who was going to a shrink was finding out that they, too, had been abused: molested by uncles, by friends of their parents, by neighbors, by passing strangers. Inducted, some of them, into satanic cults where they had to worship the devil and have sex with little boys.
We would all have dinner and compare notes. There wasn’t a lot to go on. My evidence was mainly from dreams of mute commissionaires and talking dolls. Some of us asked our parents what had happened. Parents, siblings, and cousins claimed to have absolutely no memories of any horrible events. You could sense the cover-up; they were in on the plot. I asked my mother about my grandfather’s driver. All she said was: "Joseph was a good man.” I was still suspicious of my mother the day she died.
Did I believe anything had really happened to me? It made a very good story to tell myself. It explained this and that; it was elegant, like a theory. It would have made a juicy book, but I didn’t write it. It didn’t feel right. I wasn’t absolutely sure.
A few years ago, it was revealed that between 1986 and 1994, a huge number of people in therapy suddenly recovered memories of childhood abuse, because that’s what therapists were looking for in those years. My devastating recollection was in fact nothing more than part of a passing fashion, a fad, a trend.
I enjoyed James Frey’s books. What I enjoyed the most was that my youngest son read them while I did and we discussed the books. I found Oprah to be ‘holier-than-thou’ with her attack on James Frey. To me, it was always a work of fiction. Anyone remembering their past is coloring within or out of the lines as they see fit. Our own perception of our past is just that, our own. I have two brothers. When we talk about our childhood, I’m always surprised how much our memories differ. So Mr. Frey embellished to sell his book- big shock? No, not really. Did he intentionally lie to his publisher? Possibly, probably, and that is where I have an issue. But then, did the publisher know it was a lie?….possibly, probably……….so is there anything to have issue with? Books are meant to sell. sensationalism sells. This could get me going on news. Or what we call news now adays. If the story isn’t sensational, you will rarely see it on the ‘news’. Reporting the facts, is now telling the story. If facts are involved, then it seems it’s a coincidence, not the intent. Oops! I’m off on another rant. I’ll stop here. Love the idea of this site!
This blurring of fact and fiction is creeping into all facets of publishing, including newspapers. We won’t even consider blogs or some of the talking heads on television who stretch the truth or embellish it. This is a dangerous trend and needs to be treated as such. Newspapers still fire the culprits and often, the editors as well. Publishing should be held to the same standards. The public is already distrustful. Readers deserve the truth. Publishers should do their homework and label fiction as such.
Okay, I will try to do this without rage to women I respect. Those of us who had memories of sexual abuse before seeking a therapist are unfortunately being lumped into the same catagories as those who went to a therapist who helped create faux memories. The result has been that my family is mad at me for accusing my wonderful (now deceased) father of such heinous crimes. I was looked upon as being mentally ill and therefore to be discounted. I moved 1100 miles away from them all and became a stable, succussful adult who didn’t need their baggage to get me by.
I have to laugh now because one of my brothers did an oral history of my parents and their nine children of which I am the youngest. I paid for 29 CDs of one-on-one conversations between my historian brother and each of us. 29 CDs because some were verbose! I spent 3 days listening to all the CDs…while painting my bedroom, while driving around, etc. The only CD where I am mentioned is my own. It’s understandable for the oldest 5 who left home before I was 3 years old. But the brother who is 13 months older than me was asked if he had any memory of growing up with me. He didn’t even pause. “No.” I went though the 5 stages of grief on this one. I could stay angry but to what end?
I think this lesson has taught me that memory is subjective. Who wants to remember the bad stuff? I imagine if my siblings made CDs of the truth, there wouldn’t be enough CDs to go around! I think Jack Nicholson’s character was right: “You can’t handle the truth!”
As with most situations, secrets don’t like to be kept hidden away. I don’t know how anyone expects to keep secrets anymore. Adopting a whole new identity would be hard enough for non-famous person, much less an author who was actually trying to get noticed.
As for the question - publishers are as easy a mark as any of us. We all get sucked into a good story.
Why not just write the book as a work of fiction? I just can’t imagine trying to live such a lie. (who the heck has the time and/or energy for that?)
I agree with Joan and Peggy, so won’t be adding too much here. I think the people working in publishing live in a rarified atmosphere that makes them poor judges of true authenticity; yet, as Peggy says, all it would have taken is a bit of professional-level due diligence to have saved everyone a lot of embarrassment.
I just wanted to say that my knee-jerk reaction would have been to assume that ladies like Joan and Peggy move in the same kind of rarified atmosphere. I am SOGLAD to have this website, for a chance to learn that I was wrong!
I’m most puzzled (and yes, outraged) by the recent Joshua Ferris case. His critically acclaimed novel, Then We Came to the End, won the 2008 PEN/Hemingway Award and then almost immediately it was taken away from him after it was revealed that the novel was based on fact. Since when has it been a crime to create a novel from personal experience? And since when has memoir been held to documentary standards? Memoir is a story created from life, and a novel is often the same.
I write historical fiction, and in delving into the research, I’ve come to see quite clearly that historians write fiction, as well. The line between fact and fiction is fuzzy, always, and I don’t understand this urge to nail it down. Facts can be misleading, and fiction can be revealing.
Everyone embellishes their own history. It makes one seem more exciting, or more important, to have the most colorful story in the room. When putting pen to paper, one must take that tendency to embellish to heart, and either do the interviews and tangible research to prove the stories true, or admit that the memoir is fictionalized. Many authors have taken this route - Dave Eggers, for example, released his memoir about raising his younger brother after the sudden death of their parents as fiction.
Are publishers being duped, or are they just turning a blind eye? In the case of Margaret Seltzer, I would think the fact checking should have been somewhat easy, if it was done at all.
Is this a symptom of the struggling author, trying to get his or her story told, finding that sensationalized memoirs are easier to get published than well-written fiction? Is this a symptom of the difficulty in breaking through the clique and getting noticed?
I devoured James Frey’s book … and I was very angry when he was outed. I felt duped, as I’m sure Oprah felt. He made a fool of her on the world-wide stage, and she wanted her pound of flesh. If he wanted to embellish on the truth of his memoir, then he should have labeled it in some way. I, too, feel that the media overall cannot be trusted. I get tired of ‘sensationalistic’ local news broadcasts … of the spin the print media puts on their stories to serve their own agenda … the deceptions created by computer generated images/tweaking photographs. where will it end? Just lay the facts out and let me make up my own mind, come to my own conclusions, please.
Are the TV executives responsible for the state of television? Yeah… but they share responsibility with the viewers who eat everything up. (I’m gladly removing myself from the equation because I’m not American, but I think that’s just the reality.) Which came first, the chicken or the egg?
Now what I REALLY want to know is this: When is Candice Bergen going to write the second part of her memoirs?
I remember the day I bought her memoirs (well, it wasn’t long ago), I didn’t care about autobiographies and I wasn’t even a fan of Candice! I just needed a light book to keep me company on a long ride home, but that made for such wonderful reading that I read it back-to-back and (of course) it was impossible not to fall in love with her.
“Believe only half of what you see and nothing that you hear”. ~Dinah Mulock Craik.
I have a tendency to use that quote at least once a day to my eleven year old. When she is going on and on about what happened at school and who said what about whom…
As adults we still love to hear the bad things that happen to people. We cry and moan, “Oh how sad! How awful!”
Then get angry they weren’t bad enough.
This whole issue is due to the fact that he made money off his book.
The publisher should have added to the book cover, ‘some instances are only based on his life, others on his imagination.’
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The author is of course responsible. He’s the one who’s lying. But the publisher shares responsibility. They don’t do even the most minimal due diligence. Part of the reason, a small part, is naivte: they can’t believe someone made the whole thing up. Made a whole life up! A larger part is sheer calculation: why check it when it’s so moving, so helpful, and will make so much money? ‘On the off chance it’s all a lie and we get caught we’ll just say we trusted our author, which is what publishers do.’ I would add that old editors are in the professional habit of trusting authors. In a time when they’re under terrible bottom line pressure, it’s nice to take refuge in old habits. Young editors seem to me a little like the fake memoir writers themselves, not deeply sensitive to issues of ‘true’ and ‘not true.’
Why is there a market for the memoirs? Because life is full of suffering. It’s hard. It is understandable that readers would enjoy finding someone who suffered terribly and yet survived, triumphed. ‘She came from that and wrote a great bestseller.’ ‘If he could come through that, then I can come through what’s happening to me now.’ This, by the way, is part of the reason that books such as David Copperfield and Jane Eyre are beloved. But Dickens didn’t say he was David Copperfield, he said he created, in part out of his own experience of life, a fictional character named David Copperfield. He made it up and was proud to have made it up, as he should have been. He was a writer. He wrote a masterpiece.
What is startling is that the fake memoir writers seem, always, surprised and contrite when caught. As if they didn’t know it was wrong. How could they not have known? I don’t know. A guess. A number of them are young or youngish, and perhaps we should wonder what we’ve been teaching them the past 30 years about what is right and what is wrong and how to tell the difference. Some of them — I mean those who aren’t just barking mad — seem to be operating under the rules of some kind of moral and ethical relativism. ‘I can make up a story about how painful the lives of the unnoticed, the marginalized, are, and in doing this I will help open the eyes of those who came from comfort, who had it easy. This is a public good.’ They weigh their lying against the good they imagine might come of it, and vote for the good, giving themselves an out for lying. Which is very convenient, because in voting for the ‘good’ they vote for their own profit, fame, and success.
I’ll add one thing about the environment the fake memoir writers are operating in, not to be sympathetic to them but to point out a truth. Novels used to be respected. They used to deal with real life and be bought by people who were living real lives. Now American fiction is…thin, removed from life, full of pose, full of abstractions that have a lot to do with the author’s mind and little to do with the readers’. I grew up surrounded by friends reading novels, and I read novels. And we talked about them just about through the 1980’s, and then we stopped. I have only one friend who reads novels now.
When novels become removed from life, tales of ‘real life’ just might benefit. Because people will always read. This country is full of readers. But they want to read something real. Why are young novelists doing work that seems so removed from life? America became rich. Affluence detaches. It detaches from the facts of life. It makes a life less real. And so the work produced by that life will be less real. We have also, as a nation, arguably, in some areas, become educated beyond our intelligence. The young Brown graduate down the block: she knows everything about writing, about tone and paragraph blocking, she’s read a lot that’s been written already, she’s highly literate. But she has nothing to say. She’s barely lived a life. She’ll soon write a novel.
Me, I’m sticking with history. The battle really happened, the bill was really passed. It all actually occurred.
After my second novel came out, I no longer wanted to write fiction. I went to an analyst to try and work through this, and in the spring of 1989, I found myself reliving a drama from my deepest childhood. A trance-like moment in group therapy, followed by vivid dreams told me that my grandfather’s driver had molested me when I was five years old. The pressure of this secret had to be the reason my urge to write fiction had vanished. It seemed my duty to expose my private humiliation in print.
I told a publisher, who thought this was pretty interesting stuff. No one was interested in my fiction, but a terrible true story was something else. Something that might sell, as opposed to my usual Franco-American cultural meanderings. Something people could relate to; something universal. Something universal that, oddly, seemed to be more universal every day.
Because, oddly, everyone I knew who was going to a shrink was finding out that they, too, had been abused: molested by uncles, by friends of their parents, by neighbors, by passing strangers. Inducted, some of them, into satanic cults where they had to worship the devil and have sex with little boys.
We would all have dinner and compare notes. There wasn’t a lot to go on. My evidence was mainly from dreams of mute commissionaires and talking dolls. Some of us asked our parents what had happened. Parents, siblings, and cousins claimed to have absolutely no memories of any horrible events. You could sense the cover-up; they were in on the plot. I asked my mother about my grandfather’s driver. All she said was: "Joseph was a good man.” I was still suspicious of my mother the day she died.
Did I believe anything had really happened to me? It made a very good story to tell myself. It explained this and that; it was elegant, like a theory. It would have made a juicy book, but I didn’t write it. It didn’t feel right. I wasn’t absolutely sure.
A few years ago, it was revealed that between 1986 and 1994, a huge number of people in therapy suddenly recovered memories of childhood abuse, because that’s what therapists were looking for in those years. My devastating recollection was in fact nothing more than part of a passing fashion, a fad, a trend.