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Where do I begin. I am a real adrenaline junkie and have a laundry list, and scars, of the many dangerous, scary and stupid things I’ve done.
However, I must say the most dangerous think I ever did involved me taking my Aerobatic plane, an Extra, to 14,000 feet and putting it into a flat spin. I then, on purpose, over corrected to do a cross-over into an inverted accelerate spin.
I was having way too much when I realized I had bled off far too much alititude and taking four full rotations to end the spin, I pulled out about 10 feet above the waves of the Atlantic Ocean.
I never did that again. Well, I did do lots of spins again, but recovered way higher.
Rafted the Grand Canyon 5 times. The first 2 were in a 16 foot raft & the last 3 in a 16 foot cataraft (no floor - no front tube). We have only flipped one time but I have been tossed off the raft a few times. Actually most of the dangerous things I have done in my life have involved the Grand Canyon - fabulous, mystical place that will kick your butt every time. I love it!
Don’t tell my kids, but back when you could actually do something like this and get away with it, I drag raced down Lake Shore Drive in Chicago at around 3 a.m., and if I remember correctly I almost made it to 100mph (though time may have exaggerated that in my mind) I was driving a Pontiac and showing off for the guy driving the other car… who I eventually married.
DeBúrca obj - you continue to be the mystery lady. Now if you tell me that you bungy-hopped off the Cliffs of Moher, I guess I will have to believe you. BTW didn’t the guy you marry realize he was hitching up with Danger Woman?
yeah i lived dangerously, first i had an affair with my husbands brother. no, i’m not proud of that. i was young, very innocent (even tho i had two children already) and very vulnerable. my husband was cheap, abusive and bad in bed. i was moving on anyway.
then after waiting for his brother and finding out i had be had, i went on with my life, raised my kids and had other bf ‘s and fiances. but i never got over my ex husbands brother. so when i found him again 19yrs later i married him (i had been long divorced from the first husband by about 19yrs. lol).
the dangerous part was that it almost killed me because i loved him so much i was blind to his drinking and gambling problems. i became really sick and almost died. but then i divorced him and got better. yes, he will always be my soul mate and the last man i will ever love. but marriage killed my liking him for sure. lol! so yes, i lived dangerously. now i just live for my children and grandson!
I spent two weeks touring Poland before the Iron Curtain fell. I went alone, armed with a train pass, a bunch of hotel vouchers, & minimal Polish. Basically, I could be polite; I could say "please", "thank you" & so on. I couldn’t even ask where the bathroom was. However, thanks to a helpful co-worker, I could properly pronounce "Please take off your clothes & lay down".
Phyllis, I wanted to give you an update. My dismissed case was overturned in 6th circuit - a 49 page opinion filled with "abuse of discretion" charges against the lower court. My meployer fired me, denised any severance pay and they conveniently left my name off government list which left me out of a whole year of benefits I was supposed to be entitled to - such us help in paying my helath insurance. The my employer filed a petition to rehear the appeal. The 6th circuit denied this. Now I am on track - but still fighting everyone and attorneys claiming the company may go into bankruptcy so all is for naught. I have lost everything - job, finances, marketability (resume ruined), health, friends, self esteem, looks, etc etc I am lost and have no direction. I beleive a support organization is needed for women suing for gender bias, discrimination. Yet do we as a gender have the generosity and conviction to stand with our fellow sisters and help?
OMG- so many typos. Here is my response written in english:
Phyllis, I wanted to give you an update. My dismissed case was overturned in 6th circuit - a 49 page opinion filled with "abuse of discretion" charges against the lower court. My employer fired me, denied any severance pay unless I dropped the lawsuit and never said a negative comment about anything related to the company forever, and they conveniently left my name off a government list, which left me out of a whole year of benefits I was supposed to be entitled to - such us help in paying my health insurance. Then my employer filed a petition to rehear the appeal. The 6th circuit denied this. Yippee- after 8 months of waiting. Now I am on track - but still fighting everyone and attorneys claiming the company may go into bankruptcy so all is for naught. Over the 6 years I have been fighting this- trying to get a trial, I have lost everything - job, finances, marketability (resume ruined), health, friends, self esteem, looks, etc etc I am lost and have no direction. I believe a support organization is needed for women suing for gender bias, discrimination. Yet, do we as a gender have the generosity and conviction to stand with our fellow sisters and help? I also do not know if I could stomach working anymore with the damage this disgusting system of ours puts forth as "blind justice".
It seems fortutitous that after all of these months - now I am getting 2 comments referring to my posts about this lawsuit action I am still suffering under. What are the heavens trying to tell me? God knows I need direction at this critical juncture I am at right now.
In my early twenties some friends and I set out on what was supposed to be an all day rafting trip. It turned out to be an all day kayaking trip (9 hrs of adventure and sheer terror for us novices). No drifting down the river leisurely for us! Luckily we all made it through with only bruises and sunburns! Some were not so lucky, hitting the falls sideways, losing their kayaks or getting stuck on some of the rough rapids. Good times.
The most stupid thing I ever did was the most dangerous…
Having a considerable amount of boating experience, I should have know better. My husband and I were spending a few days in the Keys. We rented a boat from a place that didn’t seem too established and certainly was not reputable. We were off on our adventure of a day of fishing and exploring. We did not check to see that all of the safety equipment on the boat was in proper working order. As it turns out, nothing worked, the motor conked out, and we were drifting aimlessly towards the Gulf Stream, without another boat in sight for the longest time. Heat beating down, and very little drinking water.and a current like you wouldn’t believe had us scared. A dive boat came by. A very arrogant man with a boatful of women that he was going to give diving lessons, came by and refused to help, after he heard my husband’s northern accent. We both were in such a state, that we didn’t even get the name of the boat or the reg. number. This went on for a couple of more hours and I can only think that with the grace of God, that another boat small boat came by, it seems out of no where, and they towed us in to safety. We were a little toasty, frazzled, but okay. We learned a good lesson that day. It comes to mind often through the years in my decision making.
I drove an ancient Pinto across a rickety old wooden bridge that was a foot under fast moving flood waters of a creek locally notorious for drownings. There was a moment when the car lifted slightly in the current, but thankfully settled back. 20 years later, I still have nightmares about what could have happened.
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Where do I begin. I am a real adrenaline junkie and have a laundry list, and scars, of the many dangerous, scary and stupid things I’ve done.
However, I must say the most dangerous think I ever did involved me taking my Aerobatic plane, an Extra, to 14,000 feet and putting it into a flat spin. I then, on purpose, over corrected to do a cross-over into an inverted accelerate spin.
I was having way too much when I realized I had bled off far too much alititude and taking four full rotations to end the spin, I pulled out about 10 feet above the waves of the Atlantic Ocean.
I never did that again. Well, I did do lots of spins again, but recovered way higher.
Rafted the Grand Canyon 5 times. The first 2 were in a 16 foot raft & the last 3 in a 16 foot cataraft (no floor - no front tube). We have only flipped one time but I have been tossed off the raft a few times. Actually most of the dangerous things I have done in my life have involved the Grand Canyon - fabulous, mystical place that will kick your butt every time. I love it!
yeah i lived dangerously, first i had an affair with my husbands brother. no, i’m not proud of that. i was young, very innocent (even tho i had two children already) and very vulnerable. my husband was cheap, abusive and bad in bed. i was moving on anyway.
then after waiting for his brother and finding out i had be had, i went on with my life, raised my kids and had other bf ‘s and fiances. but i never got over my ex husbands brother. so when i found him again 19yrs later i married him (i had been long divorced from the first husband by about 19yrs. lol).
the dangerous part was that it almost killed me because i loved him so much i was blind to his drinking and gambling problems. i became really sick and almost died. but then i divorced him and got better. yes, he will always be my soul mate and the last man i will ever love. but marriage killed my liking him for sure. lol! so yes, i lived dangerously. now i just live for my children and grandson!
OMG- so many typos. Here is my response written in english:
Phyllis, I wanted to give you an update. My dismissed case was overturned in 6th circuit - a 49 page opinion filled with "abuse of discretion" charges against the lower court. My employer fired me, denied any severance pay unless I dropped the lawsuit and never said a negative comment about anything related to the company forever, and they conveniently left my name off a government list, which left me out of a whole year of benefits I was supposed to be entitled to - such us help in paying my health insurance. Then my employer filed a petition to rehear the appeal. The 6th circuit denied this. Yippee- after 8 months of waiting. Now I am on track - but still fighting everyone and attorneys claiming the company may go into bankruptcy so all is for naught. Over the 6 years I have been fighting this- trying to get a trial, I have lost everything - job, finances, marketability (resume ruined), health, friends, self esteem, looks, etc etc I am lost and have no direction. I believe a support organization is needed for women suing for gender bias, discrimination. Yet, do we as a gender have the generosity and conviction to stand with our fellow sisters and help? I also do not know if I could stomach working anymore with the damage this disgusting system of ours puts forth as "blind justice".
The most stupid thing I ever did was the most dangerous…
Having a considerable amount of boating experience, I should have know better. My husband and I were spending a few days in the Keys. We rented a boat from a place that didn’t seem too established and certainly was not reputable. We were off on our adventure of a day of fishing and exploring. We did not check to see that all of the safety equipment on the boat was in proper working order. As it turns out, nothing worked, the motor conked out, and we were drifting aimlessly towards the Gulf Stream, without another boat in sight for the longest time. Heat beating down, and very little drinking water.and a current like you wouldn’t believe had us scared. A dive boat came by. A very arrogant man with a boatful of women that he was going to give diving lessons, came by and refused to help, after he heard my husband’s northern accent. We both were in such a state, that we didn’t even get the name of the boat or the reg. number. This went on for a couple of more hours and I can only think that with the grace of God, that another boat small boat came by, it seems out of no where, and they towed us in to safety. We were a little toasty, frazzled, but okay. We learned a good lesson that day. It comes to mind often through the years in my decision making.