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LOL! I know what you mean! the first time I went to BA I had just been diagnosed with Type 2 Diabetes so I was more vigilant than ever about what I was eating and was just floored by all those skinny people eating dulce de leche with every single thing, tons of pasta, and sides of beef that would make Fred Flintstone proud, I kept feeling like I was going to slip into a diabetic coma just by osmosis :)
Nothing like traveling though, right? so much world out there to see!
Dear D,
Slim we might be but tiny???? Don’t you ever forget that a good “derriere” is a fetish of the argentine male, thus we do suffer the toilet paper scarcity even more. …..
Agree with you on that, Joan. There is certainly a lack of career counseling and it is sorely needed. I have found that out in my own family and personal life that with the right type of guidance and knowledge one can be happier in their work.
And I hope that one career is not the only way to go as life changes us. I have other ideas and dreams for different directions. Just need to focus and start the journey.
Dab-a-Do —- The trick is to take that first NEW step out your door to something that might - even might be a new road. We tend to procrastinate, don’t we, making excuses upon excuses — when the world awaits outside that door. If that “something” doesn’t work out, we have always learned from the experience, perhaps made a new friend, something positive. And now that the door is open, the wind is at your back and who knows where it will take you — but as long as it is forward, who cares?
Decide? My career has just evolved as things happened and I learned more about my capabilities and interests. Started as a high school teacher, now 35 years later I’m a technology sales executive. Go figure.
I will let you know when I decide.
I just retired AGAIN last week.
Give me time and I may find what is next on my path.
Could it be writing?
Yes, Jeannot, of all of us, it is you that are the writer with the story of stories to tell us … and the sooner the better to get that going — as you are an inspiration and the strongest woman I know. I will give you a month now that you have “time alone” to re-think and re-group, but then start turning out the pages of a life I could not dream of but of which you tell so well that we are beside you as a child during the war in Europe. YOU open our eyes to a childhood so unlike our own, and then moved on to several lives - even more - that are unique
and fascinating — and what you have - mostly in your head but some written - IS a book of books. Carry on . . and we won’t have to worry about what road Jeannot is going to be taking next!!!
Joan, you are the one who is going to push me, aren’t you? I promise I will start to regroup in my thinking and get going in what I wanted to do since I was 16, it has always been just to write.
Meanwhile I am having a ball just to be free during the day. I had no idea how tied down I was.
WOWSY! I am a butterfly today.
Thank you, Lily, for your lovely encouragement.
I promise I am going to write every day until spring comes and my garden beckons.
Just kidding. Have a great week end.
Jeannot,
I think of you and have been wondering how you are doing?
To be alone after years of sharing one’s life with a husband is a strange place to be.
I found the hardest was getting re-acquainted with myself.
There are Pro’s and cons………..Enjoy the Pro’s!
I remember something my Doctor said to me shortly after my husband died, “Well Dona, now you don’t have to have any conferences about what you do………You can do what ever you want”
Fly butterfly Fly………….
I have read quite a few of Jeannot’s stories and they are heart rending and well done. She said she wanted to get them down for her family legacy and if for no other reason I think she should. Everyone has a life filled with stories and if they don’t get written down or/and recorded they die out in the generations to come. Some of us care deeply about that while others don’t much care––guess it’s all a matter of a little immortality––I mattered, my life was significant~~~~~~~~~~~
Phyllis, I agree that some of us care deeply about family stores and unfortunately they are dying out with my generation. I have started writing down as many as I can remember and hope to “interview” my mother’s sister for more stories. My mom was the story teller in our family but she died at age 57 and I was too young then to really appreciate how much those stories of her family would mean to me later in my life. I’ve retold some to my brother but he doesn’t believe some of them because he thought he was mother’s favorite and she would have told him. She actually told all of us at different times our memories but he is not remembering as well as he would like at this age in our lives.
I’m jotting stuff down as I remember it and will take some time to organize and give copies to my daughter and my brother’s daughter because I know they will appreciate them. We did have a colorful history. My aunt gets embarassed but I hope she doesn’t hold back. The stories are just to juicy to not tell, lol.


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