Sign in to wowOwow

Enter the email address that you used when registering at wowOwow.
The password field is case sensitive. Click here if you have forgotten your password.

Please register for wowOwow

Newsletter subscriptions
Sign up to receive wowOwow's weekly newsletter and get our best picks delivered right to your inbox. Our newsletter content is hand-picked by the wowOwow editorial team and provides the top features, news, and commentary from our site. Subscribing to our newsletter is free and safe. We will never share your email or other information with a third-party without your direct consent.
By registering, you indicate that you have read and agree
with our privacy policy and terms of service.

Candice Bergen | 07/22/2009 11:00 pm

Candice Bergen Remembers Telling Her Daughter About the Birds and Bees



Candice Bergen
I had the birds-and-bees talk with my daughter as recommended at the time, which was in the car with her in the backseat so she could avoid eye contact as prescribed, but I could sneak glimpses of her in the rearview mirror. She was about seven, or eight. When I got to the penis in her zizi part, her face screwed up and she looked repulsed. All she said was, "EWWW." Needless to say, she has moved on from that point of view.

9 Reader Comments (so far…) Sign In or Register to comment

Amanda Nelson
I’ve never heard a vagina called a "zizi" before. Where did that name come from? I had a similar reaction when my mother told me. Needless to say, my point of view hasn’t changed much;)
By Amanda Nelson on 07/23/2009 12:59 am
Carol Harrison
Me either…the "zizi" thing. Reminds me of Oprah’s "vah-jay-jay" as if a woman’s genitals aren’t a part of her body. Some women refer to their genitals as…."down THERE" which is kind of sad.  I guess Candice (and I adore you as an actor) you’ve never done Eve Ensler’s Vagina Monologues. Candice was able to use the word "penis" yet not vagina.  Don’t understand that.  I learned all the clinical names of things and often use them when talking to my doctor and she says "down there" I suppose, because she has patients who can’t ‘stomach’ talking about their sexuality. 
By Carol Harrison on 07/23/2009 8:30 pm
Catherine Walton
"Zizi" is the French kid talk word for "sex", be it vagina or penis. I don’t remember a specific time when I sat down with both my kids to talk about it. I kind of waited for them to ask the questions. Then I did explain like Candice Bergen did because I am French and my kids are bilingual. I am assuming that her daughter is bilingual too.
By Catherine Walton on 07/26/2009 6:57 pm
Bianca Moon
Ok… that’s hilarious. I love that tactic of sitting your kid in the back seat to avoid eye contact. All I can say is that I never had that particular talk with my mother and thank god because, to be honest, I think it would have scared me for life. I think it was just always understood that I knew? I was told by my best friend at the time on the bus ride home from a sporting event. I think I was 8 at the time. Its not one of my more pleasant childhood memories I have to say. I don’t think a kid is ever ready to hear the birds and the bees talk. Xx Bianca
By Bianca Moon on 07/23/2009 2:01 am
Jesse Lee
Ha, I didnt have ‘the talk’ with my mother until about 3 years ago….at 19 :/ It came up in conversation and she asked if I had any questions! Besides the fact the talk at this point was a little late, I found it rather amusing she still turned bright red and was oddly serious!
By Jesse Lee on 07/23/2009 5:38 am
Jon Schweizer
From the guy’s side of the fence, my dad sat me down and had "the talk" when I was about nine.  Later that day my older brother and his best friend came running up to me with these goofy grins and asked, "So what did Dad tell you?"  I remember relaying his explanation to them, hearing myself saying it aloud and thinking I must have been explaining it wrong.  Turns out I wasn’t; it just sounded strange to a nine-year-old the first time around. ;-)   
By Jon Schweizer on 07/23/2009 7:12 am
Carol Harrison
My mother didn’t talk to me about anything sexual about boys or men. If a girl’s father doesn’t talk to her about men, then growing up, she becomes sexually ignorant and naive.  Been there, done that. 
By Carol Harrison on 07/23/2009 8:33 pm
Alex Guild
ok i am a little creeped out . luckily i dont remember my parents ever giving me any kind of talk- i must have blocked it out!
By Alex Guild on 07/24/2009 3:56 am
katie lady
as a mom to 5 sons and an RN… the boys’ dad was uncomfortable with the subject.. so pretty much just laid it out as a health subject.  Sometimes I would wait until we were on the highway, driving fast; captive audience then.  Told them I had heard that they were having health in school and thought they needed straight talk.  I got them books about boys and girls… told them they should check it out.. And just chose a subject.. After the first two "chats" told them to feel free to ask..  and had some interesting conversations… Gave them all condoms in their school pack when they left for college.. and yes, had a talk about how important it was to have your first sexual experience with someone you truly cared for..  . 
By katie lady on 07/29/2009 12:25 pm