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Question of the Day | 11/06/2009 2:00 am

Dining room table? Fur coat? A new house? What was your first 'adult' purchase?

Mary Wells, Candice Bergen, Sheila Nevins, Joan Ganz Cooney and Liz Smith share the monetary moment they felt adult
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Liz Smith

Liz Smith | 11/06/2009 12:00 am

Liz Smith's Most Popular Purchase

It was in the ’50s. I was living on the Upper West Side with a number of young ladies who were in the same boat with me economically. We were very broke, working in menial jobs and unable to afford an apartment where we might live alone. Generally, I’d say we got on each other’s nerves.

I stopped putting aside $2.50 from my ridiculous small salary, which I was using to go to the theater at least twice a month. I saved this $2.50 for a while and bought an electric fan because we had no air-conditioning. I was very popular for a while. Everybody wanted to sit near me.  

Sheila Nevins

Sheila Nevins | 11/06/2009 12:00 am

Sheila Nevins's Fur Fury

A fur jacket that my friends disdained and which I finally surrendered to Goodwill out of guilt.
Mary Wells

Mary Wells | 11/06/2009 12:00 am

Mary Wells's Famous Window Treatments

When I came to New York my husband and I rented a small apartment on 14th Street. When I could, I bought raspberry silk draperies and I have been buying raspberry silk draperies ever since. David Mlinaric, a great English designer, has recently published a book that includes my last apartment in London, and sure enough, glowing in glory, are my most recent raspberry draperies.
Joan Ganz Cooney

Joan Ganz Cooney | 11/06/2009 12:00 am

What Adult Purchase 'Scared' Joan Ganz Cooney?

My first really adult purchase was of a weekend house in Westhampton Beach with views of wetlands and a short walk from the ocean. It was scary, trying to figure out how we could afford it, but it made me very happy.
Candice Bergen

Candice Bergen | 11/06/2009 12:00 am

When Candice Bergen Bought John Barrymore's Aviary

My first adult purchase was a house. A very quirky but fabulous house that had once been John Barrymore’s aviary where he kept exotic birds in a large skylit room that became my bedroom. Katharine Hepburn and Marlon Brando had both rented the house and it had stained-glass windows with scenes from Barrymore’s movies. It was a tiny house with a little living room with a 30-foot ceiling with a cupola and a huge wrought-iron chandelier suspended from a stained-glass circle at the top. It was truly a magical house with a huge personality.

52 Reader Comments (so far…) Sign In or Register to comment

Lila Kuh
A car, so I could get to work!  I owned a car for four years before finally buying a TV or VCR of my own - my first big "home" purchases, for my little one-bedroom place at the time.
By Lila Kuh on 11/06/2009 1:04 pm
mary burdt

  My first adult purchase was a shiny brand new yellow Chevy Bel-Aire.  My

parents gave me the down payment as a graduation gift.  I made the monthly payments.  This was 1953, and I would tool around town showing it off to anyone who wanted to indulge in the fun.  This was the ultimate dream for an 18 year old.  Nd just think, it took me all of 18 months to pay it off.

By mary burdt on 11/06/2009 1:14 pm
Matilda Chester
A car repair from denting the bumper of my parent’s car.  $115.  That was a lot of money to me at the time.  I remember going around to different mechanics to see who could give me the lowest bid.
By Matilda Chester on 11/06/2009 2:03 pm
John G
The money taken out of my USAF $38/month paycheck for my first set of uniforms… I’m fairly sure a clothing allowance was given me, but it didn’t feel like it when the money was removed for several months…
By John G on 11/06/2009 3:13 pm
Cindy Marek
A new car.
By Cindy Marek on 11/06/2009 4:48 pm
Cindy Marek
No, I must take that back. My first adult purchase would have been my business college tuition (a full year).
By Cindy Marek on 11/06/2009 4:51 pm
Patricia Sprofera
A Tiffany wristwatch.
By Patricia Sprofera on 11/06/2009 5:05 pm
Lauriate Roly

My first major purchase was a motorcycle, a Villiers Wolf. I was too young to drive it so I kept in my bedroom, at the foot of my bed until I was old enough to get a driver’s permit. My mother complained that my room smelled like a gas station. When she would go out each Wednesday to her “ladies card-club night”, I would start it up just so I could hear the motor run. No matter how hard I tried to ventilate the room, she always knew what I was up to, so on Thursdays she was usually not in a great mood.

This only lasted for about two and a half years ‘till I turned sixteen. Otherwise, she was a first class mom.

 

By Lauriate Roly on 11/06/2009 6:28 pm
Deniseann Taylor

I had just joined the Navy and I hate to fly so I went out and got myself a used car.  Used to everyone else, to me it was brand new.

It was a 75 Ford Granada, Baby Blue and I loved it.  But being young and no experience she was a lemon, her name became Miss Piggy. The engine caught on fire, the muffler fell off and I had two tires blow in the first month. 

Now even though all that happened I contact Ford Motors in MI and they got the car repaired at no cost to me at all. I drove that car until it go no further.

When I was in labor my brother-in-law was taking me to the hospital and the floor board rusted out and my foot when right through it during a rather strong contraction.

After we laid Miss Piggy to rest I got a Taurus it was in 1985 and I loved her as much as my first.

I’m sitting here laughing to myself about that silly car, haven’t thought about her in a while.

By Deniseann Taylor on 11/06/2009 11:47 pm
Frannie Em

I don’t know what would classify as "adult", but at 23 I went with my mother to her jewelers down on Fairfax near the Farmers Market.  Sam Fisher was his name and he sold estate jewelry.  Well, my mother had a great "appetite" for jewelry - (thanks mom for what you left me) and I found myself running a very close second in enthusiasm.  He had two beautiful rings that I just had to have and since Sam was very fond of my mother, because she helped his wife quite a bit when his wife was ill, so we got great discounts and I came away with my rings very pleased with myself.  I looked on it as an investment.  I have never sold them but I eventually started a vintage jewelry business and even though I don’t have time for it, I continue to make money at it.  Less now, but it still produces.

Sam had a fascinating "slide" bracelet  where all of the charmed slides had beautiful intaglios carved into stones - carnelian, amethyst, turquoise, malachite - I wish I would have bought that, but I was worried to spend more, so regretfully left without it.

But to this day, if I find a piece of jewelry with an intaglio, I buy it (barter as best I can) keep it for a while and then eventually put it in my case to sell.  They always sell, rather quickly in fact, but I know one day I will find the one I truly want and keep it.  

As a post script, a month or so back I went to the Getty Villa in Malibu and they had an exhibit of ancient carved jewels.  Many of them over 2000 years old.  It was exquisite and rekindled that old jewelry hunters flame for that intaglio carved slide bracelet. 

By Frannie Em on 11/06/2009 11:55 pm
Jessie Bowdoin
My first adult purchase was made when I was not quite 18. I had just graduated high school. My high school sweetheart proposed to me on Father’s Day.  I ordered wedding invitations. Turned 18 & was married. Nine years later I was a divorced mother of almost 7 yr. old son. That’s  another subject for us to respond to. Marrying right out of high school!
By Jessie Bowdoin on 11/07/2009 6:20 pm
Dona Howlett

 We, my (first) husband and I with our two little boys were living in a Veterans Housing project where the rent was really cheap. (This was 1955)

We bought a brand new house, in fact we were the first family to move in on the block.

It’s almost impossible to believe we only paid $12,650 for a three bedroom house with a Fireplace. Fenced in back yard for the boys to play.  I was 23 years old…….with a four year old son and a baby boy age 16 months.  I truly felt Grown up………(Later after a divorce)

I sold my first house in 1979 and upgraded into my present home.  A lovely 4 bedroom home with a swimming pool. We paid $130,000.  With some improvements it’s now worth 1 million 31 years later……….best investment I ever made.

It really made me feel like a real Grown up woman.

 

By Dona Howlett on 11/08/2009 4:51 am
Chrome Toe
Dona, I posted below on this but my first house was 28,000 dollars. Twice what yours was but then we bought it in the early 80’s. Isn’t it bizarre to think of those prices? But then… the wages were different. That payment was a big deal at that time.
By Chrome Toe on 11/08/2009 9:41 am
Donna H
I’d been living on my own for several years, had purchased furniture, dishes, etc, but the first purchase that made me feel grown up was a trip to Europe.
By Donna H on 11/08/2009 5:25 am
Chrome Toe
Since my daughter was born the day before i turned 19 years old i’d have to say a baby bassinet. But aside from that when she was 5 I bought a house. 28,000 dollars. You can barely get a car for that now! I remember waking up the first morning in that house and sitting on my couch (the one my mom gave me years before) looking out the window with my cup of coffee and feeling sooooo grown up and "arrived". that house payment was 220 dollars!
By Chrome Toe on 11/08/2009 9:38 am