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A Friend Stopped By | 06/25/2009 12:00 am

Isn't It Time We Marry for Money? The Gold Digger Debate, by Daniela Drake

The author of a controversial new book, Smart Girls Marry Money, argues that when it comes to finding a life partner, riches are more important than love.
By Daniela Drake

In reality, we’re just two working moms who, like millions, are affected by some disturbing trends. Our inquiry started with a shared laugh. So we crafted the book as a satire, a comical query that satisfies two deep human longings — to laugh with understanding and to invoke corrective change.

After all, the latest studies say that after 40 years of feminism, women are unhappier. The reasons are many. Could it have to do with women working harder than ever? Or the fact that with disposable marriages we feel, well, disposable? Does it have to do with the fact that we have to keep working when our natural instinct might be to nest, mother or at least put our feet up? I’m not entirely sure, but I get the sneaking suspicion it might also have to do with those stilettos we’re all toddling around in these days. Whatever the case, change is needed, because something’s not right with this whole picture. And that’s no joke.

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James the Game

Yep, we folk who have little money have little value.

By James the Game on 06/25/2009 12:07 am
Andrea Brandon

James,

Where did that come from? I didn’t get that implication at all.

By Andrea Brandon on 06/25/2009 1:20 am
James the Game
Right from the headline itself, Andrea. "Riches are more important than love"
By James the Game on 06/25/2009 9:56 am
Andrea Brandon
Well I’ll be hog-tied. Right in front of me and I didn’t even get it.
By Andrea Brandon on 06/25/2009 2:44 pm
Lee Harrison

James,

Nothing says you can’t find a rich woman to marry;-)

By Lee Harrison on 06/25/2009 7:36 pm
James the Game
Just social anxiety disorder, Lee.
By James the Game on 06/25/2009 9:06 pm
darcus grey
James, does that photograph feature you on the floor in front of an open refrigerator? Just wondering…
By darcus grey on 06/29/2009 10:07 pm
James the Game
ding, ding, ding…you win!
By James the Game on 06/29/2009 11:31 pm
Triza Mu
rom your dating patterns, i wonder whether what you say hold.you said you like casual dates ansd are happy.does it mean that you pay money for it?
By Triza Mu on 06/30/2009 3:09 pm
James the Game
I never said any such thing, and I wouldn’t "pay" for any date.
By James the Game on 06/30/2009 5:05 pm
Christine Cline
Oh, how right you are James. Don’t you know us poor folk are also uneducated, lazy, slovenly and lousy parents. So why would anyone want to marry us?
By Christine Cline on 06/25/2009 8:39 pm
Andrea Brandon

I think the sad reality is that while women have infiltrated and succeeded in their professional lives, they’re still stuck with all the housewifey and kidly stuff in a marriage. [And on 5" stilettos!]

No wonder women are burned out. Blame it on the shoes.

By Andrea Brandon on 06/25/2009 1:23 am
Lila Kuh
Too too true!
By Lila Kuh on 06/25/2009 7:20 am
James the Game

The article is really demeaning. "Riches are more important than love", "romanticism is fleeting." I’m still madly in love with my woman who died 18 years ago. I wouldn’t call that "fleeting". There are many, many couples for whom romance has not died. Better to marry for romance than money. Reminds of the song by The Eagles, "Your Lyin’ Eyes."

By James the Game on 06/25/2009 10:00 am
Victoria J
They wrote it for the MONEY..so they could kick up their heels and drink coffee…bet ten years ago, they were spouting off about their careers and finding themselves professionally.  Now they find that life is hard work…They’re called opportunists!
By Victoria J on 06/27/2009 10:34 am