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wOw Moms | 04/22/2009 9:05 am

Madlyn Primoff, Fed-Up Mom, Allegedly Kicked Daughters Out of Car, Drove Off

Madlyn Primoff, 45, pleaded not guilty on Tuesday after police say she stopped her car, insisted her daughters, ages 12 and 10, get out and drove off
By The Staff at wowOwow.com
White Plains Police Department
Madlyn Primoff booking photo ©AP

A seemingly well-rounded woman lost her temper on Sunday when she allegedly kicked her bickering daughters out the car and drove away, say cops.

Madlyn Primoff, 45, pleaded not guilty on Tuesday after police say she stopped her car, insisted her daughters, ages 12 and 10, get out and drove off. The 12-year-old ran after the car and was allowed back in, but the 10-year-old was left behind, crying.

Police say the little girl was picked up by a stranger, who bought her ice cream and took her to the local police station. When Primoff, a Park Avenue lawyer, got home to her $2 million Scarsdale abode, she called police to report her daughter missing. When she entered the station with her husband and older daughter to pick up her young child, police arrested her and charged her with endangering the welfare of a child.

USA Today reports that a temporary order of protection was issued, barring Primoff from contact with the girls. The New York Daily News is also following the story. Bail information has yet to be released, reports the local newspaper.

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C Hardy
You know that was a great threat my parents did to my sister and I when we were younger but they never carried it out.  I am shocked this lady did that but I know most if not all parents have threatened their children with stopping the car and them getting out but following through is another story in itself.  You really can’t just drop your kids off on the side of any road busy or not. 
By C Hardy on 04/22/2009 9:22 am
M J

I totally agree with you. Threatening to do this is one thing; actually doing it is another. Something must have possessed this woman…. temporary insanity?

By M J on 04/22/2009 9:30 am
angelyn palmer
i remember trips i was tempted to do that with my boys but i was a ver pranoid person back then so nevedid do rhat stopping the car was enough to take care of the fightingr
By angelyn palmer on 04/22/2009 3:12 pm
Deena B.
So how does she figure a plea of "not guilty" will fly?
By Deena B. on 04/22/2009 9:52 am
Grande Camper
I bet next she’ll try for mental issue problems to get out of jail.
By Grande Camper on 04/22/2009 10:22 am
roberta wickham
She’s not in jail.  Assuming she’s even convicted of anything, it will be a misdemeanor.
By roberta wickham on 04/22/2009 1:55 pm
L. C.

This poor woman looks stressed out! … I do not condone her actions … However, I do understand them!… I hope she gets off scott free! …

Every parent knows sometimes children can behave like monsters! … I think it was hilarious! … I know the little monsters were in shock! … Ha Ha Ha!

By L. C. on 04/22/2009 10:38 am
Chips AHoey

I have a 10 yo daughter and I can’t imagine driving away with her crying - sometimes she cries when I leave for work (a Mommy’s girl) and she is going to school, and that breaks my heart enough (I cry the whole way to work) but to do it because I’m mad?  I’m not sure I could that!

I don’t even threaten it, I just say (yell, let’s be honest), we’re turning around and going home if you can’t get along - all kids do bicker and fight, we all did it and our parents yelled at us to stop

in a way, we have frowned on disciplining our children so much that there is a lot of pent up frsutration out there in parents - I have friends who think I am awful if I ever get mad and yell at my kids, huh?  they do something wrong and I say "oh it’s okay, don’t come home late again, okay"?  I have friends who think giving chores to my kids or making them get a job when they are old enough is over the top - wth? 

so if we coddle them but we remain frustrated (human reaction to parenting stress), then add to the mix financial stresses, well, we will see many more parents losing it like this -so sad because it’s the polar opposite of what most of us want for our kids and family life

she should be punished under the law (not sure if she should lose her kids, though - she likely needs help - her kids will suffer if they are taken from her, as long as she gets that help - but they will also have a new dynamic knowing Mommy got arrested for getting mad at us - whoa, that will backfire when those girls are teenagers, yipes - again, the polar opposite of what we are trying to do with our "gentle parenting")

…but it’s a good moment to stop and see how we are raising our kids today and how we control our anger, or how we need to let it out somehow and sometimes, to let kids know they are misbehaving and to stop it, just without emotionally or physically harming our kids - there has to be a better way, a happy medium between spanking (do NOT do)/constant yelling and "oh no problem, it’s okay, let’s get an ice cream"…

By Chips AHoey on 04/22/2009 10:51 am
Lucinda Herbert

I think we should wait to hear all the details of the story and meanwhile read this opinion by Nsenga Burton, a professor at Goucher College. 

http://www.rushmoredrive.com/editorial/Madlyn_Primoff_Was_Right.aspx?fid=5a126804-1475-4fdf-9492-d9c2ee9aa8b2

 

 

By Lucinda Herbert on 04/25/2009 4:29 pm
Maureen S
We have all been fed up with our children but to leave the child there and call the police when she got home and pretend that the child was missing and not discarded?  They are kids - and yes they get on nerves but her children didn’t deserve to be thrown out like that.  I hope this mother is found to be mentally unstable and not that uncaring……..I hope she gets the help she needs - before she is allowed to see her children again.  Let’s also think about what might have happened if a pedophile walked by instead of a kind stranger who brought the child to the police station.  And last - where is the husband on all of this?
By Maureen S on 04/22/2009 11:11 am
roberta wickham
The husband accompanied her to the police station to pick up the child.
By roberta wickham on 04/22/2009 1:56 pm
S G
She had childern why?
By S G on 04/22/2009 11:37 am
Laura Ward
This sparks a memory. When I was five years old (I remember how old I was because of what house we lived in), I told my mother I hated her because she wouldn’t let me use the bathroom when I had to go. She was getting ready for a party and we only had one bathroom. I’m sure she let me go a minute or two later, but I was a child with no sense of time. The next day my mother made a big production of packing a suitcase with my clothes and taking 4 siblings putting us all in the car and taking us to a big red brick house (don’t know which house this really was). She told me it was a house which little girls go that hate their parents and told me to get out of the car. I had to cross the street to do it. Just before I got out of the car, she said she forgave me and would give me one last chance. At that time, I was very grateful. A few years later when I wised up and realized there was no such house that takes little girls and it gave me more reason to dislike my mother with other "disciplinary" methods I don’t have time to write here. Therefore, I’m sure these 10 and 12 years old (yes, her too) are traumatized for life and their relationship with their mother has changed for the worse now the way mine was for years even into adulthood.
By Laura Ward on 04/22/2009 12:45 pm
Chips AHoey

wow Laura - thanks for sharing that story -my son will be 5 this September and I can’t imagine saying that to him

I do think this will disturb their relationship like I posted above - whether she is punished or not - I would hope the judge would at least require family therapy and then therapy for the Mom (Yoga, even!)

By Chips AHoey on 04/23/2009 11:57 am
Laura Ward
I haven’t thought of that in years and I’m 54 years old now. My siblings and I all have incidences that spark a bad memory. Mom’s excuse is that there were too many children. Most of us have confronted her about some of the incidences, my sister once did it on a plane to Europe (Mom was trapped for 8 hours!!!). And Mom’s right. Who can handle six kids? It was just the typical Catholic family of the times. The good part is that we ended up close once we reached adulthood. Unfortunately, we never forgot those "childhood" memories. But that’s the point, try your best not to give them those memories. You might get trapped on a plane with your child in your 70s.
By Laura Ward on 04/23/2009 4:04 pm