wOw Moms | 04/22/2009 9:05 am
Madlyn Primoff, Fed-Up Mom, Allegedly Kicked Daughters Out of Car, Drove Off

Madlyn Primoff booking photo ©AP
A seemingly well-rounded woman lost her temper on Sunday when she allegedly kicked her bickering daughters out the car and drove away, say cops.
Madlyn Primoff, 45, pleaded not guilty on Tuesday after police say she stopped her car, insisted her daughters, ages 12 and 10, get out and drove off. The 12-year-old ran after the car and was allowed back in, but the 10-year-old was left behind, crying.
Police say the little girl was picked up by a stranger, who bought her ice cream and took her to the local police station. When Primoff, a Park Avenue lawyer, got home to her $2 million Scarsdale abode, she called police to report her daughter missing. When she entered the station with her husband and older daughter to pick up her young child, police arrested her and charged her with endangering the welfare of a child.
USA Today reports that a temporary order of protection was issued, barring Primoff from contact with the girls. The New York Daily News is also following the story. Bail information has yet to be released, reports the local newspaper.























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I totally agree with you. Threatening to do this is one thing; actually doing it is another. Something must have possessed this woman…. temporary insanity?
This poor woman looks stressed out! … I do not condone her actions … However, I do understand them!… I hope she gets off scott free! …
Every parent knows sometimes children can behave like monsters! … I think it was hilarious! … I know the little monsters were in shock! … Ha Ha Ha!
I have a 10 yo daughter and I can’t imagine driving away with her crying - sometimes she cries when I leave for work (a Mommy’s girl) and she is going to school, and that breaks my heart enough (I cry the whole way to work) but to do it because I’m mad? I’m not sure I could that!
I don’t even threaten it, I just say (yell, let’s be honest), we’re turning around and going home if you can’t get along - all kids do bicker and fight, we all did it and our parents yelled at us to stop
in a way, we have frowned on disciplining our children so much that there is a lot of pent up frsutration out there in parents - I have friends who think I am awful if I ever get mad and yell at my kids, huh? they do something wrong and I say "oh it’s okay, don’t come home late again, okay"? I have friends who think giving chores to my kids or making them get a job when they are old enough is over the top - wth?
so if we coddle them but we remain frustrated (human reaction to parenting stress), then add to the mix financial stresses, well, we will see many more parents losing it like this -so sad because it’s the polar opposite of what most of us want for our kids and family life
she should be punished under the law (not sure if she should lose her kids, though - she likely needs help - her kids will suffer if they are taken from her, as long as she gets that help - but they will also have a new dynamic knowing Mommy got arrested for getting mad at us - whoa, that will backfire when those girls are teenagers, yipes - again, the polar opposite of what we are trying to do with our "gentle parenting")
…but it’s a good moment to stop and see how we are raising our kids today and how we control our anger, or how we need to let it out somehow and sometimes, to let kids know they are misbehaving and to stop it, just without emotionally or physically harming our kids - there has to be a better way, a happy medium between spanking (do NOT do)/constant yelling and "oh no problem, it’s okay, let’s get an ice cream"…
I think we should wait to hear all the details of the story and meanwhile read this opinion by Nsenga Burton, a professor at Goucher College.
http://www.rushmoredrive.com/editorial/Madlyn_Primoff_Was_Right.aspx?fid=5a126804-1475-4fdf-9492-d9c2ee9aa8b2
wow Laura - thanks for sharing that story -my son will be 5 this September and I can’t imagine saying that to him
I do think this will disturb their relationship like I posted above - whether she is punished or not - I would hope the judge would at least require family therapy and then therapy for the Mom (Yoga, even!)