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Entertainment | 09/28/2009 6:00 am

Take Marcus Buckingham's Strong Life Test and Determine Your Happiness Quotient

Are women sadder and more stressed than ever? Here’s how to find the life role you were born to play …

Marcus Buckingham

Maureen Dowd’s Sunday New York Times column talks about Marcus Buckingham’s new book and the dreary point it illustrates: As women get older, they get sadder (whereas men get happier as they age). Is this true? Marcus — who, incidentally, offers the antidote in his book — found several highly credible and large studies that arrived at the same conclusion! As expected, Find Your Strongest Life: What the Happiest and Most Successful Women Do Differently has already ignited a national discussion — and Marcus has invited the wise and witty women at wowOwow to join the conversation.

2009_0923_fysl_largethumb.jpgMarcus will be visiting the website in the next couple of weeks to talk about the controversial studies he mentions in his book — as well as share tips on how to achieve a happy, fulfilled life. To kick this off, we’re encouraging all wOwers (even the most content) to take Marcus’s Strong Life Test here, which is the first time it has been offered online. At the end of the test, it’ll identify your Lead Role — which serves as a compass to guide you toward life’s difficult decisions.

Click "Start" to take the test here:

 

After you take the test, tell us: What was the role you were born to play? Are you acting on it?

 

113 Reader Comments (so far…) Sign In or Register to comment

T. BYNUM
S.A.  you said it all!   I also agree with this time in my life being happiest..my sons are grown and I am peaceful on my own.   I will be 60 in a couple of months and another chapter in life will begin.
By T. BYNUM on 09/29/2009 2:56 am
Luz Gonzalez
My lead role was of teacher with a supporting role of facilitator.  Career choices were those where I can inspire people to succeed and advocate for those who cannot defend themselves.  WOW!  Considering that I returned to school to pursue a law degree and am veering toward social context issues (i.e., domestic violence, homelessness, civil rights) and work closely (as a volunteer) with women receiving training to enter the workforce, I guess I am on target, since this is where I am most happy.  Funnily, I work for a very big law firm and make a very good income.  I know I will probably lose that income when I pursue my law degree but I am always happiest when I work on the not-for-profits.  Of course, I have the benefit of receiving a good salary so how it will be when I am not, will be interesting.  All-in-all, I cannot see myself doing anything other than addressing families at risk issues.
By Luz Gonzalez on 09/29/2009 7:18 am
Kristen Card
Advisor/Equalizer. I believe I probably am more advisor [What is the *best* thing to do?], but I wish I were more equalizer [What is the *right* thing to do?]. Something to continue working toward …  :]
By Kristen Card on 09/29/2009 8:45 am
Callie O

I like quizzes, but don’t put a lot of stock in them.  As for my "happiness quotient," I’ve always been happy most of the time. 

Some say it’s genes, and that may be true.  But I can’t help but think attitudes toward life are fashioned at home during our growing up years.  We certainly weren’t wealthy, not even middle income.  But we (there were five of us kids) had all the security anyone could wish for…a mom and a dad who loved us, and who let us know they did. 

As an adult, I realized that my parrents had a lovely knack for making each of us feel we were the "favorite."

Thanks, Mom and Dad.

By Callie O on 09/29/2009 11:25 am
Chips AHoey

Lead is Motivator

Advisor is supporting role

I think this is dead on - I am a planning director for a town so I have to listen, advise, lead and take direction all at the same time

good test!

By Chips AHoey on 09/29/2009 12:17 pm
deber B
Where’s Maggie?   She’ll ROTFLHAO when she reads this…I tested as a teacher/caregiver.   Where are you, Maggie?
By deber B on 09/29/2009 3:20 pm
Green Tears

Yes, Deber, where is Maggie? We all need our labels! (Rolling my eyes)

 I am not surprised by your ‘teacher’ as you always educate the masses here and from the sounds of your relationships with your family members ‘caregiver’ sounds accurate as well. Were you satisfied or did you expect something else?

By Green Tears on 09/30/2009 11:12 am
deber B

Green Tears, the test nailed me.   The reason I was calling for Maggie is that we had an exchange of posts and she said, "Is this one of your teaching moments?"   I told her I wasn’t a teacher.   I’m a retired interior designer LOL.   Now all of a sudden I have been defined as a "teacher!"    I just thought she would get a kick out of it.

I was satisfied but I did have trouble on the spouse/significant other faults.   I couldn’t find anything listed that I would ever want to change about him…so I had to pick something (twice) that really didn’t apply.   Other than that, I was satisfied.

I am definitely a caregiver….to a fault at times.

By deber B on 09/30/2009 11:50 am
Green Tears
I remember the ‘teaching moment’ comment. She will enjoy your evaluation. Maybe teaching is your new vocation!
By Green Tears on 09/30/2009 1:03 pm
deber B
It will be her "AHA moment" and give her a chuckle.  I’ve been teaching all of my life, Green Tears, just not in a classroom…LOL!   Especially how to cook…that’s my first love.
By deber B on 09/30/2009 1:20 pm
Kelly Stutz

I read many of your opinions on the biased nature of this little test, and I do understand what you are talking about. But maybe the bias is not age related or anything like that, but instead is "activity" related. Let me explain what I mean:

My results came back teacher/adviser, which just happens to be exactly what I do everyday for a living. I teach and I coach, and I advise my athletes daily on many different subjects.

 The reason I am saying that this makes it a bit biased, is that when one has a full-time job they often will be thinking in that role. Therefore, I answered all of the questions with my own personal bias being that I am an educator and think as an educator.

 No test, etc. is ever bias free due to our own personal biases. Honestly, I was impressed how this was so right on. I think that maybe if you are not in the mode of working everyday or regularly this could seem inaccurate.

Bottom line, get over it and have a little fun! That’s all this is meant for, anyway!

By Kelly Stutz on 09/29/2009 3:47 pm
Green Tears

First of all, I agree with your bottom line and the idea that this test is an exercise in fun.

I do not have a ‘paying job’ but I am quite ‘active’ in a multitude of roles. I believe that I drew from the total of my life’s experiences as I answered each question. I don’t believe I would have answered any differently if I could produce a W-2 form.

By Green Tears on 09/30/2009 11:19 am
Leslie Woods

My primary role is that of a "teacher" and my supporting role is that of a "weaver". I began teaching piano lessons when I was 15 years old and as an adult, I became a "teacher" wherever I worked and mainly used my primary role to teach healthcare professionals (from the front office to the medical providers) about patient privacy laws.

As a musician, I often played the piano/keyboard for stage productions and used my supporting role as a weaver to find the right person for the right performance as well as putting the right team together or being part of a team to reach one common goal.

For years I taught classes at churches to teens on important life subjects.

I find the results to be right on target for my personality and the way I am in every day life. I love the teaching role but I also use that role to openly discuss the subjects and learn from other people about all kinds of things. As a "weaver", I enjoy very much the idea of learning from others to complete a team project and to achieve with others a common goal.

It was interesting to me to find out both the "teacher" role and the "weaver" role could be intertwined. I struggled at one point with being both because I thought, "how can I teach (as a leader and singular-type of role) and be part of a team (as a more submissive [for lack of a better term] and plural-type of role)? It’s great to finally be able to put the two together and know that indeed both can and do co-exist within me.  

L. Woods

By Leslie Woods on 09/29/2009 4:01 pm
Glenda Glynn
Well, here I am, first time poster, and so I took the test.  I do agree with some who said it didn’t really match the age - and I think, the lifestyles of all questioned.  So I found out I am a an "advisor" - that is pretty close.  Seems I’m always asked "What do you think" - maybe I should hang out a shingle!
By Glenda Glynn on 09/29/2009 7:02 pm
Christa Fulkerson

I took the test, it says that I am a Caretaker and an Equalizer.  I told my husband and his face totally lit up with agreement. 

So, I HAVE struggled with myself about what career I should go into.  I wonder if this book will give me more insight into what career to go into?   

By Christa Fulkerson on 09/29/2009 8:21 pm