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Question of the Day | 10/02/2009 2:00 am

What was/is your biggest dream for yourself?

Join Joan Ganz Cooney, Liz Smith and Candice Bergen in the conversation and tell us the hopes you’ve harbored throughout your life.
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Joan Ganz Cooney

Joan Ganz Cooney | 10/02/2009 1:00 am

Joan Ganz Cooney Thanks the Gods of Television

When I was about eight I told my mother and one of her friends that when I grew up I wanted to be a nun, an opera singer or a mother. My mother’s friend said, "You can’t be a nun and a mother," to which I answered, "Well, I could have a bastard." I had once seen the word and asked my mother what it meant and she said it’s the child of an unmarried mother so my response to my mother’s friend was, in my opinion, pretty smart.

I couldn’t carry a tune so I had to give up the opera singer dream and becoming a nun lost its appeal fairly early in my life and biological motherhood was not to be (although five stepchildren came along in my middle age). I thank whatever gods there be for television, which gave me something new (in the 1950s) to dream about.

Candice Bergen

Candice Bergen | 10/02/2009 12:00 am

Candice Bergen on the Dreams That Came True

At 63, the statute of limitations on dreams may have run out. But when I was younger, I dreamed of having a real chance to do comedy, never thinking I’d get it. Then a couple of films and then "Murphy" for ten years came along and I was in heaven. About the same time, my daughter, Chloe, was born, and she has transcended any dream status. My first marriage was a dream. I was in a dreamlike state for years. Then Chloe’s arrival was a Divine Event. My second marriage was a miracle. Now, not to be greedy, but I dream of all of us (but mostly me) living long, productive, lucid lives to be around family and people I love.

Liz Smith

Liz Smith | 10/02/2009 12:00 am

Liz Smith's Biggest Dream

My biggest dream for myself was to be onstage in New York, singing, dancing and seeing my name up in lights. And meeting famous and glamorous people. Even though early on I became convinced that I didn’t have the talent for it, I still managed to see my name in lights, to hobnob with only the best riffraff and eventually I found myself singing, as an amateur and for charity, onstage at Carnegie Hall, Town Hall, the Shubert theaters and the Metropolitan Opera stage. 

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Janna S.
To be able to own my own home.  To be able to paint the walls in pretty colors.  To be able to decorate a home.   To be able to feel secure that no one will kick me out so they can put their 21 year old relative in to my apartment I have lived in for years.  And, to be able to have pets!  Where I live now my landlord won’t let me hang my framed art work (they have that in the rental contracts in my area now.) The pictures have sat in the corner for two years!  It can feel like living in prison being a renter now-days.
By Janna S. on 10/04/2009 3:34 pm
Jeanette Foresta

My dream when I was a teen was to go to the school of art and design. My mother wanted me to go to Barbizon School for Modeling. I don’t think they had acting back then, but I wanted to be a soap star. So when she called Barbizon they said I was too young, you had to be sixteen at the time, i was fourteen.

So my mother found an agent for me to go to in Manhattan, but while in his office just him and I,  he said, "I can get you in but, I would want a Kiss from you." Even as a kid i knew what that meant so i just threw that idea out the window.  And i told my mother.

I continued drawing and had a great portfolio which was stolen while in high school but,  i still have some drawings. One drawing was a profile of Sharon Tate which i still have, she was so beautiful. I was very talented in high school and got 90’s in Art class. I took guitar lessons and played with friends on the beach. Later i became a teen mother. So I played for them, and myself.

 

My dream was for my children not to make the same mistakes I made a hippies did as hippies do.

My dream was for them to be successful. I took parenting classes and went to seminars to learn what not to say to them, and what to say to them. Example ( you did a bad thing, You are not bad kid, what you did was bad.) I was always aware of the words I used in making sure their self esteem stayed intact. Of course they did some experimenting, but not for long since my niece had a seizure from smoking pot one night. 

 

They are now in their thirties and are very successful adults.

My son became a stock broker at the early age of 19, and with those skills started his own business which is not in the stock market, and owns his home, rents one house, and sold one house. My daughter works for the best orthopedic company in Jersey where she made them an extra 30,000 last year in collections, got a promotion, and is a great mother.  My two grandchildren girl 11, boy 12 were excepted into their schools magazine as artist. I have been teaching them how to draw since they were very young. I told them I want them also to concentrate on writing for the magazine also. My daughter makes them read for an hour every sat. They are in their rooms by nine, lights out at ten. They have chores which they get paid for, and if they do not do them they are docked. It is their responsibility to mark on the calendar when they do the chore. 

 

Here is a Dream Come true in the Making!

 

My daughter looking to invest in a business got a liquor license, after my husband found a Tavern that was empty for a year, got it at a bargain price, I got the food handlers license just recently, and since my husband is a carpenter, and owns a small construction company is doing the work needed. Things are happening because they are decisions based on knowledge of the stock market, and seeing what is coming. People need to socialize, eat and drink. They don’t need siding and windows. Though he will still do that work.

 

I still paint and have videographies on all the myspace, facebook, blogs. My artwork can be seen on the internet if you google me. You’ll see my wall mural which was a selling point in the house. And I  blog on interesting and timely subjects, warnings on medicines.  I have some published essays, and I wrote a screenplay in 1996 which the things i wrote about are coming true now. Like it is based on going to get the chipping, which is the nano-implant they are actually doing for some people who want it. And then the earthquake which only my characters and those who are prepared are saved. It make it to the semi-finals twice in screenplay contests. Until i figured out they just wanted the money to enter it. I had it registered anyway.

One of my videos is with me, and my 8 yr. old granddaughter  interviewing me, and asks if I have any friends, and I say: in a silly voice "oh yes, hello whoopi"  and she turns to the camera and says "yeah, she stole my show! lol  

By Jeanette Foresta on 10/06/2009 5:21 pm
Jeanette Foresta
edit (I made as hippies did.) 
By Jeanette Foresta on 10/06/2009 5:24 pm
Cathy Justice
It’s funny many years ago, I didn’t want to be a stay at home Mom. I was very much into my career but several years ago the company I worked for did the unspeakable and downsized me right out of my job after 31 years. I was forced to take my retirement. And a magical thing happen, I realized I could do and be anything I wanted. Even with the downturned economy, I still making it by not working. My dream now is to sell my home and move back to my hometown and live out my days by the sea. I’m still very young for retirement so I know I will get there soon.
By Cathy Justice on 10/09/2009 2:33 pm
fatima khan
living in a very educated family i always wanted to be a doctor like my dad and i am so proud i have fullfilled my dream.besides being a doc i always want to be a writer
By fatima khan on 10/29/2009 12:38 am