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Mary Wells | 11/17/2009 10:00 am

It's a Strange Love, by Mary Wells (Photos)

After sharing a sneak peek inside her yacht with wOwer Cynthia McFadden and Architectural Digest, Mary gives us the story of Strangelove.
Image: David Matheson/Architectural Digest

Editor’s Note: In a recent edition of Architectural Digest, Mary Wells yacht — which doubles as her home — was featured. Architectural Digest kindly shared their photos with wowOwow, and Mary found herself inspired to share with us the story of her love affair with Strangelove. Click here to see the story as it appeared in Architectural Digest.  

The world looks more beautiful from a boat. I knew that from olden days when my husband and I owned a smaller Feadship very much like my Strangelove.

There are beautiful cities – Paris, Vancouver, Florence, Venice, Hong Kong. There are lovely resorts along the Med and the Caribbean and in the East. There are exotic new experiences waiting for us in developing countries … but they are all more beautiful from the sea or from the river or the lake, even the canal. On the water you miss the grubby sides of civilized life. When you live on a boat the beauty around you takes hold of you and makes you feel lucky – sometimes chosen.

Click here to see photos of Mary Wells’s Strangelove, courtesy of Architectural Digest.

And there is freedom on a boat. If you are in a town or a bay that is not up to your dream, you just move on. Think about it. You don’t have to take off your shoes for the customs man. You don’t have to stand in line. And you don’t have to pack – not your toothbrush or your "Casablanca" DVD or your Charlie Parker CD or any of your tech stuff. All your possessions move on to a new and better place with you and you don’t lift a finger.

I spent so many years working, traveling to clients who had offices in what we all used to joke about as mediocricities – sleeping in beds with cement pillows, eating in restaurants that got stars from us for the number of digestive problems they gave us. My homes, when I could get to them, were lovely mini-palaces because my husband was a builder in the largest sense of the word and he loved big bigger biggest. When he died I thought I had too. I was exhausted and gaga and those mini-palaces were too big. The idea of living on a boat gave my spirit a fizzy lift. I sold the mini-palaces and bought Strangelove and started living a freer life. I didn’t give up London or New York. But I have gotten to know Spain and Turkey and Greece and Croatia so well the head waiters at the restaurants on the sea there call me on Christmas.

There is a special feeling of safety in boat life. We never sail to dangerous places. And the crew has become part of my family. Most marinas are aware and protective. And water sounds are spa sounds. They lower your blood pressure. We had the usual stabilizers for smooth sailing but we also installed the new stabilizers that hold you rock solid in a bay or a port so you don’t eat swinging from side to side. Those stabilizers have given me the most peaceful dinners under the stars – and the sweetest dreams.

You see places you wouldn’t see very well any way but on a boat. The whole family went to Alaska on Strangelove this summer and had a delirium of experiences – whales, sea lions, bears of all kinds, jaw-dropping glaciers and their icebergs in sea so cold we had to wear bright-red survival suits. We looked like a Walt Disney cartoon but falling into that cold of a sea without a survival suit would allow you about two minutes and then Woo! You’re gone. The crew in their red survival suits were at everybody’s elbows. We were gorgeous in a cartoon style – little red stick figures in a world of white and blue ice. Everyone who can should see Alaska. Like Patagonia, where Chili meets Argentina, Alaska is different! Wild! Magnificent!

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BelindaJoy

It must be nice to be wealthy. Thank you for sharing with us your opulent existence Mary. I’m sure if most people had the wealth you have to maintain a yacht such as the Strangelove, they too could experience the bliss that comes from a fully staffed floating mansion.

You are blessed.

By BelindaJoy on 11/17/2009 10:27 am
BabySnooks
Sounds more like she is enjoying a simple life albeit it a comfortable one. I was expecting Marjorie Merriwether Post and the Sea Cloud but alas just a woman having downsized in a way and enjoying a simpler life even though most of us might not see it that way.  She is blessed.  And I envy her.  For the simple life she is able to enjoy. 
By BabySnooks on 11/17/2009 12:20 pm
BelindaJoy
I envy her as well, and that was my point.
By BelindaJoy on 11/17/2009 12:54 pm
ChromeToe

Mary - have you ever read about or seen the documenatry on the (at the time VERY YOUNG) woman who sailed a damaged boat completely by herself into a safe harbour? She and her husband had been hired to sail someone’s boat across a vast vast amount of water. They got caught in a severe and bizarre storm and he was killed. She was seriously injured and the boat was damaged. But she ended up sailing that thing herself to land with only the most rudimentary navigation?? it was an amazing story. And she still sails!! You boat people are your own culture… sort of like us motorcycle people. The world looks better from a motorcycle also. When I think about needing to boost my sould through something horrific I always think i’d just pack my motorcycle and go.

By ChromeToe on 11/17/2009 10:27 am
LindaMyers
Seeing the world from your own home, has to be incredible!
By LindaMyers on 11/17/2009 1:11 pm
joan larsen
I have a feeling that - on your yacht - the world is your oyster - and why shouldn’t it be?  You and your husband have given what has been - in effect - your years of working life building an agency that became a world-wide name.  In our competitive world, that is far from easy.  Now it is time to solely enjoy a beautiful later life in the most beautiful of fashions.  It is a treat for us to see this world, and imagine your life on the sea.  Thanks for sharing and - for a moment - making us feel part of it all.  Joan 
By joan larsen on 11/17/2009 2:16 pm
SA4
Ooooo! Very nicely done. Grats!
By SA4 on 11/17/2009 3:57 pm
lkklulu
wonderful story…many more bon voyages
By lkklulu on 11/17/2009 5:39 pm
JohnG

Great story, insights into a fabulous life. I’d give my left one to own a gaff-rigged 3-masted schooner (I’m not into those big motorized Monte Carlo-looking things) and would most likely spend so little time on land I’d forget how to walk… There was a 60 Minutes story (maybe Leslie did it) about some rich guy who owns the world’s best sailing vessel - I want that one!

Like this:  http://www.anchoryachts.com/preview.php?ID=3 

By JohnG on 11/17/2009 8:43 pm
EileenAlannah

Dear Mary: Did you happen to read a story in the NY Times by Lucinda Franks, (NY DA Robet Morgenthau’s s wife)? It was called: "Journeys; All in This Together: A Family, A Small Boat, A Long Trip to Canada." It’s on-line. I loved that story, & I loved yours, too. : ) The open sea, or the open road, what could be better?

By EileenAlannah on 11/17/2009 10:22 pm
Liz Smith

Dear Mary ... Having had the fun of once being a guest on The Strangelove, I just want to say how much I loved reading you on the subject of your life "at sea."  The operative thing  about you, Gypsy Girl, is that you earned and worked for your way of life...in your business heyday, you were the hardest working woman ever to shatter the glass ceiling in advertising.  I also salute the generosity of how you live now, sharing everything with your wonderful daughters and grandchildren, doing everything for your friends, and keeping your right hand from knowing what your left  is doing in the matter of taking care of nameless souls who depend on you.  So live it up, Gypsy! YOU  made it all happen.  Love, LIZ SMITH  

 

By Liz Smith on 11/18/2009 10:44 am
BabySnooks

The operative thing  about you, Gypsy Girl, is that you earned and worked for your way of life…in your business heyday, you were the hardest working woman ever to shatter the glass ceiling in advertising.

_____________________

Some people, men included, do really follow their passions and deserve every bit of good fortune that comes their way as a result.  The thing that I’ve noticed through the years about the "self-made" is that they never lose touch with the things that matter in life.  The simple things. 

Although again you would think Mary Wells would have at least one European prince or princess on board occasionally. Maybe she does. 

By BabySnooks on 11/18/2009 11:13 am
sibelledaubigne

"One European prince or princess on board occasionally" lol

 European Royalty doesn’t have to flaunt it! 

By sibelledaubigne on 11/18/2009 4:49 pm
BabySnooks
True. But most Americans with yachts do seem to have to flaunt it and usually with a European prince or princess. some of whom of late are renting themselves out.  You gotta do what you gotta do in hard economic times.   
By BabySnooks on 11/18/2009 5:19 pm
JudyCleborne

Dear Mary,

Congratulations on your yachting lifestyle!  I lived on motoryachts for five years and frequently saw a Monet painting outside the porthole.  The joy of waking up in the morning only to have the boat gently rock you back to sleep for a little while is sublime.  One time a friend and I were leaving the boat to go for breakfast and I stopped in my tracks to say, "Wherever we are going is not going to be better than this deck, so let me make breakfast for you."  The economy resulted in me having to sell the boat in May (which I owned by myself) and I miss it terribly, but a dream the other night presented a lovely motorsailer so I am taking it as a harbinger of good things to come!  There are others of us out here who feel closer to God on the water.  I wish you many more happy years aboard.

 Judy 

By JudyCleborne on 11/19/2009 9:58 pm