I consider myself a vessel, or conduit. It is when that vessel lacks a physical captain in saying what passes through and what doesn’t we become a shell living outside of our self in a thing called life. Feeling easily disposed of possibly as your friend did.

Personally, I don’t feel spirituality and religion are anything alike. Being spiritual and religion yes, spirituality, no.

What kind of payment did the ghostwriter get in the deal for pain and suffering while writing the book? I tried to watch the interview on Oprah with an open mind, giving her the benefit of the doubt on impressions I had previously of her. Feeling maybe she had not been given full credit for her intellect and Tina Fey had misportrayed her on SNL. Not being politically biased, but no such luck, impression remains.

Smiling eyes! A smile is hollow if the heart is not coming through the eyes.

Asking questions - a man who is not afraid to ask questions even if the question seems it might be senseless.

Clothes are nice, when they fit. Cowboys who could not straddle a chair in their jeans are a joke as are those who wear pants that have room and gravity to reposition them in the wrong direction.

 Skip the hair dye, I have yet to see gray hair which was not a great attribute.

Get your hands out of your pockets and extend it.

All are indications to me, that a man is confident in himself, approachable and less some ego, but not all.

It’s not about the physical, just how I see their soul reflect through!  

Song would be “Come back to me” sung by Barbara Striesand in a movie, I figure someday this universe will bring across my path that one person who is okay with being equal/equal, done all the mothering I agreed to all ready and put my crutches on the curb to hold up another.

Have a great afternoon!

I grew up in a small town and the library consisted of a few shelves in a classroom of the school, though my earliest favorite was a book my mother gave to me before starting school entitled "Rusty Goes to School". I still have the book.

My chilren always had shelves of books, and now the grandchildren have thier parents collections added to thier own. I tend to read on subjects I desire to learn more about, rather than fiction. A friend I had for 25 years who was murdered in August of 2006,who took me unto that track of devouring subjects from the library. Since her death, I have taken a pause and find my info on the net in researching subjects.

Now where is the eight for men? I have a few to add to that list.  lol

Goats do have a type of seizure where they fall over like they are dead and stiff, only to get up again a short time later as if nothing happened. It is kind of funny to see. I have a friend who leases a piece of rural property in GA, with the condition the goats stay. Sitting out on her deck, they tend to eat and drop all the time, when on an incline they even get a bit of a roll in the process.

George Clooney is nice to look at, backs causes I agree with, acting he is okay but maybe not great. As far as an actor who I would put in the category of being everything that would be wanted - I could think of a few others who would top him on that list.

I am not a pack rat, I do hold unto certain items out of sentiment. I was married to a pack rat and when he left the house he forgot to take his loads with him. Much landed on the curb and next was was giving my children the either or of taking what they had left or joining the curb. I still tend to accumlulate with yearly curb giveaways. If my house feels like chaos, generally my life will take that road as well, no thank you!

I do energy work with my own spin to it, and work as a medical intutitive with the hospice. Using my ability to scan the body, which shows like a grid against thier energy, I have caught somethings the docs have missed, and with my assistance from this universe have seen some miracles unfold.  By the time I am contacted it is usually after the docs have given up the fight, so it definitely is interesting and a lesson of humanity learned from these heros. I love it.

From working with hospice patients, I have learned whether it might seem silly, time wasting or even annoying to others - if there is some joy to you in the process, carry on!

My uncle died on Monday after a two year battle beyond diagnosis with cancer, when the doctors would not provide treatment he started researching and taking a holistic approach on his own. I would see him online for hours a day, and in my own mind at times I wondered if something else could not better fill his time. Today I found out he was wriitng a journal/book of his time, his thoughts in how he had changed his whole belief system, his findings and thoughts for others on the same journey. My assumption that his time was wasted, was far from the truth. Go for it, enjoy time in any form that makes you happy.