after gallbladder surgery-a hysterectomy-and open heart surgery—neve mind the boobs gone south—I am afraid I look like a road map—-I cannot imagine ever letting a man see me naked—-well maybe we can buy a neon glow in the dark sharpee and he CAN connect the dots-in the dark that is…….

I feel ugly even though I am not on the inside or really on the outside I look natural and good for my age—-but I know what is underneath my spanx and it is not pretty,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,

ME TOO! y vitamin is soooooooo low the Md didn’t know how I made it to the office—I was really weak—but just having heart surgery figured it was normal/

After many moons of high dose Vit D suppliments I still struugle to keep it at a normal level.

My Docs prescription was that I needed  2 week vaation by the shore hahahahaha

right after I pick the $$ of the tree in my back yard!

OK HEARTBREAK IS NOT JUST CAUSED BY MEN???-

—pain-

sickness-

poverty-

war—

look around you

there is much more to be broken hearted about than a man !!!!

You think in your mind that the 2 of you were together all those years—but it is not the truth—

If you claim to have fairy tale romace/soul mate love —you have it he does not.

If he did he wouldn’t have slept with someone else the second you had a family issue to deal with.

He sounds like a peter pan—the little boy who never grew up—-if he is not the cnter of your attention—poof he is off doing god knows what……..

You may not see it but you are better off without him.

He would never stick by you in the tough times…….

you are right about that snooks—that part I never understand

but it is very real for some women,

they just can’t let go.

once my ex was gone I was happy he was gone-

it took courts and police and lots of embarassing moments for my family to get rid of the jerk.

I have never once—— for one second missed him.

BUT sometimes I do miss having a husband/partner.

That is the difference.

candy machines?

wow are we getting of track here…..

I used to smoke—I had to give it up because they made it impossible to afford.

But hey you can still smoke Pot and Drink right?

I think alcohol prices should go way way up and become just as unaffordable…

They could use the $$$ so every state can have a Substance Abuse Hospital.

My son was an alcoholic-he was so bad he almost died from it.

Funny I never had a drink my whole life in front of him.

Anyway—no GOOD treatment was covered by anything and I used all my savings to help him.

Face it an addict is more likely to quit if he has treatment for 6 months than 3 weeks which is what insurance wants to give you.

Nothing is free in this life thank God I had the savings or he would surely be gone now.

Now I am off the subject sorry!

You are right if you put negativity out there thats what will reutrn to you.

I don’t think it is negative though—I consider it to be educational—

I want to know what it is all about this reform in simple laymens terms but Obama is never going to do it.Why???

I believe right now if americans were asked to vote on this issue it would be turned down flat.

I do not hate President Obama,Truth

I am open to anything really I am—-

but all I hear is him talking around the direct questions—

I am open to anything really I am—-

but all I hear is him talking around the direct questions—

—I understand (I think) the COBRA Plan-

only paying 30% of premium instead of all of it