Hush now, Mommy & Daddy are watching TV. Go on , go on now, off you go, go play with your dolly or go ride your Bike go do anything but don’t bother us right now! Famous words, we have all heard them or said them. Unfortunately some more then others. Ginger as a little Girl was told that often, Too often! On those times She was trying to get her Mommy or Daddy to listen to her , it wasn’t for the attention, She was in Need of her Mommy & Daddy , to hear what she was saying, “mommy they are being mean to me ” doesn’t always mean calling her names or hitting on her, or scolding her, it could Mean….. the Neighbor, Daddy, Daddy’s Friends, Mommy, Uncle, Aunt , Sister, Brother, Cousin, Grandpa or Grandma, Step Mom or Step Dad the list is endless, touches me on my private parts. I read an article about a little boy who shot his daddy, he was 8 years old, not only did he shoot his daddy he shot his daddy’s friend! Instantly my mind went to one thing, This Child has been abused! My next thought, how often children are ignored, not just by their parents but others as well. How they must sometimes truly feel Unimportant and Unloved. This little boy has a problem. and My heart goes out to him. Sometimes Our children come to us not because they want attention but because something is in urgent need OF attention! Such as the little Girl Ginger I referred to earlier, trying repeatedly to tell her Mommy she was being touched in a bad way. The Mother and Father kept hushing her because of a TV program or some other selfish reason! The Child is interrupting a Moment of some sort of pleasure in the Adults life. Ginger Became Silent because she was Taught not to talk unless you are spoken to.So the issue was never addressed the Child has then figured out unless Mommy or Daddy Ask me a question I am suppose to be still! So the little Girl or Boy grows up to be an adult carrying these memories and feelings silently inside. Never talking about it because they are obviously not suppose to! They can not get anything to Work for the Good or correctly in their lives. School, Marriage, Jobs, Children, Etc. and they Never understand WHY. They have Low self esteem, and think they are failures. Their Family , friends, school mates, Teachers and anyone else they may come in contact with begin to also think of their Child, Brother Sister, Student , Co-worker and friend as a failure. This person says ” I am a LOSER a Big fat LOSER,” I can’t do anything right in my Life, if I touch it It fails. If it happened its my fault! This Child or Adult goes into a depression that is so very Deep they begin thinking about Death (suicide), they do not want to HURT anymore, They can no longer function in society, they become withdrawn and do not feel it necessary to continue on threw life! Why should they it sucks! Or they turn into a Monster that wants to Hurt and Destroy others, anyone, just trying to get rid of the pain “Their Pain!” This Child Needs to be Heard, Seen Listened too, Loved, Hugged and Protected. Even when they are adults! That little child is still living inside the Adult, Almost controlling Him or Her in everything they do or try to do. Still crying and screaming, someone please Help Me! Until someone steps forward and reaches out to this little boy or girl, Man or Woman they will continue to go into a downward spiral further and further, deeper and deeper into a depression some ending in Death. I’m writing this because it Starts at Home. It is time parents Become PARENTS and Pay attention to your children. A child small and weak has no one to turn to but their Parents, their Mommy and Daddy and by all rights They should be able too! It hurts Me to think that a little Boy or little Girl in early age has to suffer such Horrid things from the lack of their parents being there for them Emotionally or Physically. The parents usual remark When they find out are, “Why didn’t you tell Me” or “Well you should have told me.” “Its time to get over it” ” That’s just what kids do” That one is just Splendid isn’t it! They Push the Fault back onto the Victim, Because they can not handle this shocking emotion that has come over them! It is called GUILT Its a Big horrible guilt trip we as Parents never counted on taking or want to take. Well Pack your bags, because I am inviting you to take a trip with Your Child down Memory Lane. Your Child Needs you Now! not tomorrow, not the next day, But NOW! He or She needs you desperately to hear them! Listen to them! They are trying to tell you Now, They probably have tried to tell you a thousand times, You just Are not or Were not Listening to them. It is and will be something very difficult to hear, However, you need to help your Child Heal! So you put your feelings aside for now and Listen to your child when they come to you! If you are the Victim of Rape Incest or Molestation , Do not allow anyone to put that Fault onto you any more! It is not your Fault !! It was Never your Fault! The Fault belongs to those who would not Listen when you cried, were not there to protect you as you were trying to sleep and to those who assaulted you! The fault is not your cross to bear any longer! Give it to whom it belongs! Talk talk talk, and keep talking untill “you” no longer feel the need to express your self about that subject. Then it gets better, You Will Smile again ! You will get up and say Hey self I am ok, We are Ok, I am Good to go! Then and only then will you be able to help someone else that is going threw the same thing you have already been threw! Questions a parent should always ask themselves, When they are not happy with the way their son or daughter has turned out as an Adult. or if they are having trouble with their child’s Behavior now. Was I or am I being the Best Parent for my Child? Have I made sure that my child is always safe? Do I or Did I listen to my child when they tried to talk to me? Is this happening to my Child Now? Has this happened to my child in the past? Because there is a Reason for each behavior we see in our Children. How aware are you of what is happening or has happened to your Child? It is time for all Parents to Wake Up! Listen to every word your child is speaking unendingly ITS time to Know your Child! If you are Lucky or Blessed, You still have your Child! Small or Grown. It is never to late to Talk, It is exactly what your child needs. They Need to hear Mom and/or Dad say I AM Sorry this has happened to you, I love you and I want to know Everything tell me everything you are able to tell me right now. You will not get it all right then. Don’t rush them or push them to say anything, it will all come out when they are ready and able to talk about this with you. Remember We hold much resentment towards our parents for allowing this to happen to us. So if they become angry Let them! They are getting this out of them! Be the Adult, do not take offense to it! Yes it will hurt, the words will be sharp and to the point ! Do not try and defend your self because this will just bring more anger towards you, Just Listen to them with the utmost respect! They have a right to be mad at you, after all you were suppose to protect them! If you are being sexually abused call 911 don’t be ashamed it is not your fault! I am sharing this story with you Because I WAS a Victim, Now I AM a Survivor May God Bless and Keep each one of us in his Gentle Hands

where is the video? I want to watch it please.

all I can say is WOW im absolutly speechless! He Would Be SO VERY Wonderfully PROUD!

Rumor has it President Obama is going to ask General Powell to serve with Him

The real JOHN showed his face tonight! spraying Disgust all over the place! However I think tonight was his strongest debate! His pissing TECNIQUES, if you will , were still not ” UP ” to the challenge! John failed “We the People” AGAIN! His views were NOT expressed efficiently nor strategically! Obama was very on cue and handled himself in a Gentleman’s fashion and WAS to the POINT! OBAMA aimed and hit his target EVERYTIME John! their argument ” Obama favored Bush more out of the 2” …………..WHAT? ..My response NO WAY, NO DAY, NO McCain No Palin!! OBAMA in NO way reflected Bush!! I must seriously DISAGREE!! With the utmost DIS_respect!! It was a FLUSH down the toilet “”JOHN!! “” Dice have been thrown, Cards have been played, Last drink as been served! Obama Hits 21 and the dealer loses With a Martini in his hand! Vegas style Baby!!. IT is Over with Sarah! With the most Respect I have to offer! Indiana!!!! I would give my zip code but they wouldn’t let me post it!!…lol…No shame in this VOTERS Game!! Reply Favorite Flag as abusive Posted 12:44 AM on 10/16/2008

A child IS a Reflection of their Parents!! So Sarah where is that Christian up bringing your were telling us all about?

LOL..I ENJOYED THAT!!

THANK YOU SO MUCH ….

ty Elizabeth for this advice, I will not post it ever again! I have seen the error of doing that!! It just brought me to anger! and I needed to show it to some people with some intelligence so they could help me figure out what to do towards a response to it! ty again

thank you Ms DEE and Barb!! this will help so much!! i will read it ALL!!!

the big ole scary Beast is the anti-Christ….lol..wink wink..ya know folks…wink wink….lol

on satelite I mean…lol …sorry about that..my best friend called me about 4 days ago and said he was on satelite tv

he is

well ..lol..Im so sorry to knock everyone off subject truly iam, However i need help here because I truly do NOT think that is in the bible!! the age and race of the anti christ! i have been reading the bible forever and i can not find that!

I want to Know where does it say that in the bible…can you give me scripture ? ( of race and age of the Anti Christ )