Just beautiful, from the inside out!

Those Harper’s Bazaar people really know what they’re doing; they seemed to capture the essense of a lovely woman while allowing her to remain close enough to her comfort zone. They just really made her shine.

I had to refer to the sited article in order to understand why the birds went into defensive mode (students were instructed to act threatening). Even though, why would these scientists not already know that wildlife has the ability to recognize particular others, even if they happen to be human? Imagine all the fund money going into these studies…

A few of us unwittingly became part of a "study" with a common pigeon a number of years ago. He was a baby abandoned and dumped from his nest. I rescued him from the ground. That afternoon a few of us tried every human food we thought appropriate nearly in vain until one finally got gobbled up. Hence, I named him Mickey (from the commercial in which the brother says, "Mikey likes it."). I read that pigeons actually become adults in two weeks so three of us took on the challenge. Soon, we took him to a park to release him. Upon checking on him the next day, who comes swooping in with pigeon calls to rest on a shoulder but Mikey— and this went on for weeks when ever any of us three moms came calling. Even if the family dog was present. As time went on Mikey’s arrival seemed delayed until one day we actually had to seek him out. Of all reasons for the delay it seemed Mikey had found a mate. We all sensed Mikey was finally ready to "leave the nest", and we were right. For awhile the two pigeons circled when any of us were in the area but there were no more landings. We three decided to let Mikey go and stayed away from the park longer days at a time.

These findings were funded by the kindness of three hearts, a cardboard box with a light and old rags for warmth and bowls of watered down cereal. And a curious dog.

To those who think the issue is turning the television off: I think, aside from the many hours I spend reading, computering, socializing, working, etc., that when I do want to watch television I have a right not to be assaulted by these ads. I mute them or switch the channel briefly. Television isn’t about plugging a box into the wall—we pay for cable even if it’s basic, so enough with this ad assault!

I’m not embarrassed; I’m annoyed and tired of them. Also, these ads demonstate the disturbing trend of how out-of-touch and unhealthy people and relationships have become in today’s society. Impotence is a symptom of health issues that should be addressed and treated, not covered up by taking a drug.

And…Bottom line: I don’t want to hear ads about men’s penis problems. They can call it a fancy name but it is plain ole impotence—and they never had ads when they called it that, did they… And it’s even more annoying because they have these little fairy tales of men pleasing their wives. Right. Like a pill for their erection is going to change that issue!

It’s also about money for drug companies competing with each other. Women who menstrate don’t need an ad to direct them to a product and men who can’t perform already have a plan set in motion because god forbid with everything going on in the world a man not getting an erection is priority one…

I’m so glad someone is taking action to get rid of these annoying ads.  When I saw that stupid Bob ad for enhancement I actually thought it was a MAD magazine joke! I also mute the infomercial -length reading of side effects of any prescription drugs. Prescriptions are dangerous and kill people every day yet still drug companies are filthy rich, all while the FDA fights to thwart preventative health care and natural ("alternative") remedies.

Anne Heche herself claims to not be straight. Portia admitted she is lesbian but was “in the closet”, which happens because so many think they have the right to reject them based on religious belief. Heche has more than a touch of serial relationship syndrome and admits to mental illness. I would not compare these two women and base that on success rate of their relationships with Ellen. That said, Ellen seemed to have her own 4-year attention span with more than one woman, and she was replacing one before the other was gone. She did get past the 4 year time with Portia, so… Ellen’s an incredible catch; powerful, came back from the depths of rejection of the public when she came out, is genuine and generous. Her humor is clean, real, and can appeal to all. Everyone seems to love Ellen now! I think she’s wonderful and I love her comedy. It is so hard to tell if a relationship will last because life happens and only a small percentage really have true love that outlasts it all. I’m more worried about their age range. I think of Melissa Etheridge and her 10 year relationship and the two children she and her partner were raising. That was sad to see happen. Now she is with a woman much younger than herself and they are all cooperative in raising the children, just like any other divorced couple. Ellen and Portia’s marriage may have been “annulled” by the state’s measure, but, wow, they are congratulated, adored and cheered-on by the world! That says a lot more than paper. I wish them all the luck in the world, as I would any other two people in love.

The only American cars I’ve owned “burned” me, and worse, it was when I was young, earnest and a loyalist to made in America. Then, I bought a used vehicle which happened to be a Toyota. I’ve not bought American since because the price and quality of foreign have never failed me. I see the tragedy of our failed auto industry not in that we aren’t buying American, but that we don’t want to! Owning an auto is an expensive luxury and it only begins with the purchase, so we must choose well. My Chevy’s and my Fords failed me. My last vehicle, a Mazda was made by Ford! It was a lemon, sour through and through. I’ve never owned anything but a 4-cylinder though and hate seeing all these huge monster things hogging gas—that’s another story though how that has shaped our crisis situation.

I hope it’s okay to say that this is a hilarious story (easy for me to say since I wasn’t there, right?) It’s just how you told us.

First, in my opinion, it wasn’t a miracle as much as excellent piloting and crew work and a lot of good luck. Change my flying habits? No; I still would only fly if absolutely necessary. I’ve flown three times in the last 15 years, for things involving death and medical emergency. Progress is not necessarily the best move for society. I read the emergency directions, locate the exits, and watch how to put that oxygen mask on, as well as check-out where the floatation devise is and who else is aboard. Then, I take a relaxing pill with as much liquor needed to knock me out, hope for the best, and wish all this misery weren’t so dang expensive to boot!

Someone said it, and I agree; there must be better pictures of Ms. O’Donnell on file than this one that immediately creates a bias. I can’t say I’m a fan of either of the the women’s anger-driven commentary at any given time, but these two pictures should, in all fairness, be on equal ground at least. And, having read and witnessed the commentary of both, I would say that at least Ms. O’Donnell has a sane basis for her anger, whereas I am astonished at the thought process of Coulter. Even so, I avoid both simply because I don’t like their style of delivery.

Language rules change; in contemporary use “shined” is acceptable in place of shone.

McMillan and Wife? Rock Hudson was an example of what some people had to endure because society wasn’t ready and gay people had to lie about their lives and it killed many. It was the time that HIV and AIDS was known as the “gay disease” and drastically under-addressed because of that. It was new and people still thought they could fight it and survive. Rock Hudson likely saved thousands of lives when he finally had to admit his disease publicly. He was my first crush.

Hi, I think you said the essentials here concerning the “re-invent” ; I know that is true for me. And I hadn’t really known Donatella before, but I think she looks a bit scary in the trying-too-hard way. Long hair does require good care in order to stay looking good, and it’s such a symbolism for femininity in our society (hence why I attempt it so often), but really beauty and sexy comes in different styles I guess because enough women do pull off the look—as long as we are accepting the naturally ageing face of women, which I think increases a woman’s appeal in most cases.

When I was in high school and had long hair, I didn’t look too good then…In fact, I would say that I became better looking once I matured, but definitely once I cut my hair short…and it was my mother who (strongly) suggested it. Now, my looks are changing again (age is a thief), and I have that unflattering long-hair effect if I try for it. What I really wish is I could go to a salon and have my face done! Then there’s Francis Mcdormand, long hair and stunning. Susan Sarandon, long hair and stunning. And Whoopi, Salma Hayek, Jacqueline Bissett, Goldie Hawn, Joan Chen, Jodie Foster (stunning always, but she does look best with medium-length hair), Oprah, Lucy Lawless, Lisa Kudrow oh, and Cher of course, Mary McDonnell, even Faye Dunaway because I can’t think of her otherwise…even Caroline Kennedy is a very nice looking woman with long hair. And how can I forget my favorite, Mary-Louise Parker! But who knows, perhaps these women would look even better with shorter hair, but some women just can’t look bad no matter the Era of their ways…

I recall my first sense of disillusionment (which manifested as deep fear within): it’s that I was ready for “life” once I graduated high school (Yikes). It was a good many years…okay, decades…that I realized the actuality that my parents did not have any intentions of nurturing, in that they resented any achievement or thwarted them if perceived early enough when we kids were young…and it had nothing to so with money. Some say once we are adults we are on our own, but what I have come to realize is that we all need the basics of healthy nurturing as a foundation. So, I would have to say that my biggest disillusionment is when I realized through life the very real lack of interest my parents had in caring, nurturing my interests or attempts to achieve success in my life. There’s another disillusionment: that there isn’t always another chance around the corner in some areas of life. When I was younger I didn’t realized that there are only so many door of opportunity to knock on! Then, one day I realized, wow, there isn’t another lover waiting behind a door, that was it. You never know when it was “it”.

I got to say, I’m disheartened by how posts evolve—or dissolve may be a better word—here any more. It isn’t just this post, but here we are… I mean the topic is Oprah and her reaction to her weight. Why is that not okay to discuss? Yes, there is a lot going on right now, and obviously some posters just don’t like the woman. But, you know, there is always something going on in the world, and there always will be. How does that make one person’s life less important? And why comment just to say we don’t like someone? There are things Oprah does that make me cringe sometimes, and I pick and choose the shows she airs depending on my interest, but I don’t base my overall perspective of her because of a few things. In as much as I don’t know the woman, I respect Oprah and I admire her. I don’t understand how anyone sees her approach to life or her talk show in nefarious terms; the woman is beautiful and accomplished as well as bright, generous, genuinely interested in others, as well as being honest even about things that are hurting her. I’ve never seen a guest tied to a chair or Oprah twisting an arm. She does have cooks and trainers I guess, but that is only part of controlling weight. I sure know I’d be looking (and feeling) like a million dollars if I did all the healthy, right things I know I should do. Appearance directly affects our self-esteem and that is part of our holistic approach to healthy living. When I think of where Oprah came from and how much she has accomplished in her life, that is an inspiration, and perhaps it’s why she is so important to a lot of people. Her show is the highest-rated talk show in the history of TV and it’s syndicated internationally. She is also known for her persistent role as a philanthropist, which I see reflected on her show. All of this from one powerful spirit of a woman. That is why I thought this site was created, to celebrate women. There are so many places that allow for every kind of derogatory and negative perspective of women. I hoped this is a site that is supportive of women.

Just the other day I was talking with my childhood girlfriend (we reunited after a few decades of me traveling and moving away). We were the “squares” in high school and basically paired up over The Carol Burnett Show, Laugh-In, Ed Sullivan, etc. and Country-Western performers who frequented our area Six Flags with the likes of our favorites Loretta Lynn, Emmy Lou Harris, Johnny Cash and his family, which felt like being in the same nice variety show zone—which of course was all too corny and weird for others given our ages. We both say that there is nothing in our lives that has replaced the joy and comfort and the hilarity of The Carol Burnett Show. We were always coming up with skits for the show and saying we were going to send them to her. We cried our eyes out when the show ended. So, even though it seems like it makes us old now to say how we miss the Variety shows, we actually understand the difference having lived with them compared to now with all this TV that is so offensive or boring a lot of the time. Loved the genius of MTM show (and Laverne and Shirley)! Karen Carpenter; my heart still aches whenever I hear her voice…What a talent.